354- Chaos, Connection and Accidental F-Bombs with Caitlin Murray of Big Time Adulting
You're listening to Voices of Your Village, and today I'm joined by someone who brings humor, heart, and a whole lot of real talk to the parenting space. Caitlin Murray of Big Time Adulting is hanging out with us today. Caitlin's known for her brutally honest and hilarious take on motherhood. And in this episode, we get into what it actually looks like to treat our kids like the whole humans they are, while still navigating the reality that they don't have fully developed brains. We talk about the mental load, the pressure to do it all right, and how to show up with authenticity, accidental F-bombs and all. This one is raw, relatable, and full of belly laughs and truth bombs. All right folks, let's dive in.
Connect with Caitlin:
Instagram: @bigtimeadulting
Videobook: Violet Archer
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Credits:
Host: Alyssa Blask Campbell
Co-host: Rachel Lounder
Production/Editing: Kristin Mork-McVeigh
Graphics: Kayla Kurkland-Davis/ Beki Rohrig
Music by: Ruby Adams and Bensound
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353- Sex, Power and Consent: Raising Caring, Connected Boys with Joanna Schroeder and Christopher Pepper
You’re listening to Voices of Your Village, and today's conversation is one I've been looking forward to for a long time. If you are raising boys or teaching boys, or frankly just care about the humans they're becoming, this episode is for you. I'm joined by Joanna Schroeder and Christopher Pepper, authors of the new book Talk to your Boys. We dig into how boys are being shaped by the culture around them, including what they're exposed to online, what they're learning or not learning about emotions and connection, and how we as adults can show up in powerful, empathetic ways. This is such a rich, important conversation about masculinity, care, vulnerability, and how to raise boys who grow into connected, kind, emotionally healthy men. All right, folks. Let's dive in.
Connect with Joanna and Christopher:
Joanna: https://www.instagram.com/byjoannaschroeder/
Christopher: https://www.instagram.com/mrhealthteacher/
Talk To Your Boys Book: https://www.instagram.com/talktoyourboysbook
Website: https://www.talktoyourboys.com/
Connect with us:
Instagram and TikTok: @seed.and.sew
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Pre-order Big Kids, Bigger Feelings now!
Website: seedandsew.org
Credits:
Host: Alyssa Blask Campbell
Co-host: Rachel Lounder
Production/editing: Kristin Mork-McVeigh
Graphics: Kayla Kurkland-Davis/ Beki Rohrig
Music by: Ruby Adams and Bensound
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352- Not Just a Phase: Getting to the Root of School Refusal with Eli Harwood
You are listening to Voices of Your Village, and today's episode is such a grounding one. I got to sit down with my dear friend, Eli Harwood, who you may know as @attachmentnerd over on Instagram, to dive into a topic that comes up so often, school refusal. If you've ever had a kid clinging to the doorframe or break down in tears before drop off, or you've wondered when to push and when to pause, this one's for you. Eli brings her therapist lens and lived experience to this conversation with so much empathy and wisdom and humor. We talk about what's really going on beneath school refusal, how to meet our kids with connection and structure, and why scaffolding their nervous system matters more than forcing compliance. This episode is full of practical strategies and those aha moments that help us show up differently for our kids and ourselves.
Y'all, we are so close to Big Kids, Bigger Feelings- my next book publishing. I'm so jazzed for it to get into your hands. We have a couple pre-order bonuses, so if you head over right now to seedandsew.org/book before September 16th, and order that bad boy and pop your order number in, we will send you some bonuses.
Alright folks, let's dive in.
Connect with Eli:
Instagram: @attachmentnerd
Website: https://attachmentnerd.com/
Order the book: Raising Securely Attached Kids: Using Connection-Focused Parenting to Create Confidence, Empathy, and Resilience
Podcast: https://attachmentnerd.com/podcast
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TikTok: @seedandsew
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Website: seedandsew.org
Music by: Ruby Adams and Bensound
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351- Not Another Screen Time Lecture—A Real Conversation About Kids + Tech with The Gamer Educator, Ash Brandin
You're listening to Voices of Your Village, and today's episode is such a treat. I get to sit down with my friend, Ash Brandin, educator, researcher, author of the new book, Power On, to talk all things screen time, video games, and what it really means to raise emotionally regulated kids in a digital world. Ash brings so much nuance and compassion to this conversation. We go beyond the usual screen time debates and dig into what screens are doing for our kids, how we can shift power struggles into collaboration, and how regulation-- not restriction is the key. Ash is phenomenal, and I highly recommend following them over on Instagram at the Gamer Educator. They're my go-to for all things screens and their new book Power On is a beautiful roundup of all this information. This episode is for anyone who's ever wondered, is this too much or How do I actually teach balance. Spoiler alert-- it's not about shame or rigid rules. It's about relationship. All right, folks, let's dive in.
Connect with Ash:
Instagram: @thegamereducator
Website: https://thegamereducator.com/
Order the book: Power On: Managing Screen Time to Benefit the Whole Family
Substack: https://thegamereducator.substack.com/
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Instagram: @seed.and.sew
TikTok: @seedandsew
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Website: seedandsew.org
Music by: Ruby Adams and Bensound
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350- More Than a Diagnosis: Finding the Magic in Neurodivergence, with Lake Bell
You’re listening to Voices of Your Village, and today I get to share a truly special conversation with someone I admire deeply—Lake Bell. You might know her as an actor, director, and creator, but in this episode, we connect as two parents navigating the beautiful, messy work of raising humans—especially kids who don’t always fit the mold.
Lake and I dive into what it looks like to parent neurodivergent kids with curiosity and compassion. We talk about the emotional rollercoaster of receiving a diagnosis, the grief and the gifts, and how we can shift from focusing on what’s “wrong” to seeing what’s wonderfully different. It’s raw, it’s real, and it’s one of those conversations that reminds me why we do this work—why connection matters more than perfection, and how embracing the whole child, just as they are, can change everything.
Lake also has a beautiful children’s book out called All About Brains—and y’all, it’s become one of our favorites on the bookshelf. I love how she illustrates what it looks like to empower kids to understand their brains and bodies and to advocate for themselves with confidence and clarity.
All right, village—let’s dive in.
Connect with Lake:
Instagram: @lakebell
Order the book: All About Brains: A Book About People
Connect with us:
Instagram: @seed.and.sew
TikTok: @seedandsew
Seed and Sew's NEW Regulation Questionnaire: Take the Quiz
Pre-order Big Kids, Bigger Feelings now!
Order Tiny Humans, Big Emotions
Website: seedandsew.org
Music by: Ruby Adams and Bensound
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