The Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor

Dirty Secrets Ep 059
“Lo Lacey – Hot wife, shares her guilty-pleasure kinks”
What happens when your hot-wife fantasy becomes your actual career? 🔥

I’m getting cozy in bed with Lacey, adult performer, content creator, and unapologetic lover of all things spicy. We’re talking about her real-life husband watching her shoot with other men, the difference between work sex and *real* sex, and how she’s learned to reclaim pleasure on her own terms.

Things get deliciously candid as we dive into her first big anal scene, the surprisingly unglamorous prep behind porn, and why size definitely isn’t everything. Plus, we confess our own guilty-pleasure kinks, get into cheating fantasies, forbidden doctor-patient porn, tentacles (yes, tentacles 😂), and the spicy books that keep BookTok busy.

It’s funny, filthy, and unexpectedly thoughtful, with plenty of conversation about shame, boundaries, and owning what turns you on.

Come get comfy with us. Just maybe don’t press play with your mother-in-law in the room. 😉

😉👑 Host: @DirtySecretsPodcast @kateShelor
🔥 Guest: @lovelylofree

Dirty Secrets Ep 058

“Taylor Vixxen – Corporate Life, Hotwife Marriage & Wild Requests”

Taylor Vixxen spent almost 20 years climbing the corporate ladder before deciding she’d rather start living out the fantasies she’d been keeping behind closed doors. 😈

We talk about going from finance executive to adult performer, her hotwife marriage, swinger clubs, picking up younger guys in Vegas, being dominant with women and submissive with men, her boundaries on set, and some of the wildest custom requests she’s ever received.

One involved faking an entire heart attack for a cardiovascular surgeon. Yes. Really.

And just when I thought THAT was going to be the craziest story, Taylor gives me a dirty secret involving a very hot boxer from her gym, a swinger club, performance anxiety and something she just happened to have in her bag that saved the night. 😂

Trust me, stay for the ending.

@DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor
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Dirty Secrets Ep 057
“Derek Kage – From the DOD to Adult Films”

Derek Kage went from working for the Department of Defense to becoming an award-winning adult performer… and somehow that’s only the beginning of this story.

Derek opens up about growing up gay in Alabama, living two completely different lives while working in D.C., and why walking away from the stable career everyone told him to keep ultimately changed his life.

We also get into his accidental first studio scene, being “straight for pay,” the shame men attach to certain fantasies, why there shouldn’t be a rulebook for intimacy, and what working with men, women and trans performers has taught him about communication.

Plus, BDSM, voyeurism, pegging, monster fantasies and one VERY memorable dirty secret from Germany.

This conversation goes places. 😂

@DirtySecretsPodcast @kateShelor @derek_kage

Dirty Secrets Ep 056
“Ray Ray - Hotwife Life & The Woman Chasing 100”

Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Ray Ray
Most people have a bucket list. Ray Ray has a goal of sleeping with 100 men... in one day. 😳

Known as the "Queen of the Gang Bang," Ray Ray pulls back the curtain on what really goes into organizing an event with 80 men, why she does it for the challenge instead of the camera, and the surprising athletic mindset behind pushing herself to the limit.

We also talk about ethical non-monogamy, life with her husband, why mainstream adult scenes are nothing like real sex, and how she's building a brand around cinematic storytelling instead of shock value.

Whether you're curious, skeptical, or just fascinated, this conversation is funny, thoughtful, and unlike anything you've heard before.

@DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @TheRTrain

Dirty Secrets Ep 054

“Missy Davis – Nip Slip Fame, Monogamish Marriage & The Truth”

One accidental TikTok nip slip changed Missy Davis' life forever... and somehow TikTok never even took it down. 😏

In this episode, Missy shares how a viral moment led her into OnlyFans, the emotional journey of telling her parents what she really does for a living, and why getting caught forced her to finally stop living a double life.

We also dive into monogamish relationships, stag/vixen dynamics, play parties, and the biggest misconceptions people have about ethical non-monogamy. Plus, hear the hilarious story of the Barbie-themed play party that completely changed her perspective on intimacy, and why a kiss turned out to be more controversial than everything that came after.

Come laugh with us... and maybe question a few things you thought you knew.

@DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @Missfitdavis