Sleeping Around

What do your fantasies really say about you? Go to https://regain.us/alaynajoy to get 10% off your first month of couples therapy!

In this season finale, Dr. Justin Lehmiller— social psychologist, Kinsey Institute researcher, and author of Tell Me What You Want joins Alayna to unpack the science of sexual fantasies: why we have them, what they mean (or don’t), and how they can actually strengthen relationships.

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Connect with Justin:
Sex and Psychology Podcast: https://sexandpsychology.com/podcasts
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justinjlehmiller/
Tell Me What You Want: https://amzn.to/4bSVT2j
Upcoming study abroad courses in Iceland: https://sexualhealthalliance.com/2025-reykjavik-study-abroad-with-sha
Spain: https://sexualhealthalliance.com/2025-barcelona-study-abroad-sha

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What do your fantasies really say about you? Go to https://regain.us/alaynajoy to get 10% off your first month of couples therapy!

In this season finale, Dr. Justin Lehmiller— social psychologist, Kinsey Institute researcher, and author of Tell Me What You Want joins Alayna to unpack the science of sexual fantasies: why we have them, what they mean (or don’t), and how they can actually strengthen relationships.

FOR THE EXTENDED EPISODE join the Patreon community here ✨: https://www.patreon.com/AlaynaJoy

Connect with Justin:
Sex and Psychology Podcast: https://sexandpsychology.com/podcasts
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justinjlehmiller/
Tell Me What You Want: https://amzn.to/4bSVT2j
Upcoming study abroad courses in Iceland: https://sexualhealthalliance.com/2025-reykjavik-study-abroad-with-sha
Spain: https://sexualhealthalliance.com/2025-barcelona-study-abroad-sha

Don’t forget to follow the podcast on social media: https://www.instagram.com/sleepingaroundpod and subscribe for more episodes. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a comment and share it with someone who might benefit from our discussion!
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After infidelity, is healing even possible? In this episode, Alayna Joy sits down with somatic and couples therapist Rebecca Stone to explore betrayal trauma, what causes people to cheat, and how couples can move forward after an affair.

This week’s full extended cut (normally for Patreon members-only) is free for everyone. To get ALL the other extended cuts, join here: patreon.com/alaynajoy

Connect with Rebecca:

Website: affairrecoverycoach.com

Group Practice: brooklynsomatictherapy.com

https://www.instagram.com/affairrecoverycoach/

Don’t forget to follow the podcast on social media: https://www.instagram.com/sleepingaroundpod and subscribe for more episodes. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a comment and share it with someone who might benefit from our discussion!
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After infidelity, is healing even possible? In this episode, Alayna Joy sits down with somatic and couples therapist Rebecca Stone to explore betrayal trauma, what causes people to cheat, and how couples can move forward after an affair.

This week’s full extended cut (normally for Patreon members-only) is free for everyone. To get ALL the other extended cuts, join here: patreon.com/alaynajoy

Connect with Rebecca:

Website: affairrecoverycoach.com

Group Practice: brooklynsomatictherapy.com

https://www.instagram.com/affairrecoverycoach/

Don’t forget to follow the podcast on social media: https://www.instagram.com/sleepingaroundpod and subscribe for more episodes. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a comment and share it with someone who might benefit from our discussion!

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In this inspiring conversation, Alayna sits down with Abby and Bhupie—therapists and co-creators of Prospect Counselling + Training—to unpack the big, messy questions around trauma and healing. Are we all traumatized? What does healing actually look like, beyond the therapy room? And how do we unlearn harmful beliefs about what healing “should” be?

Whether you're in therapy, offering therapy, or dreaming of new models for care and community, this episode is for you.

Check out Prospect Counselling + Training : https://www.prospectcounselling.ca/

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Email : [email protected]

Don’t forget to follow the podcast on social media: https://www.instagram.com/sleepingaroundpod and subscribe for more episodes. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a comment and share it with someone who might benefit from our discussion!


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