Sleeping Around

How can we break the cycle of conflict in our relationships without sacrificing our own boundaries? This episode is brought to you by Jane App: https://janesoftware.partnerlinks.io/sleepingaroundpodcast - you can get your first month on me with the code ALAYNA1MO
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In this episode, Alayna is joined by compassion-focused couples therapist and educator Michelle Becker to explore how compassion can transform the way we navigate conflict in relationships. They discuss why we get caught in cycles of conflict, how compassion can help, and why practicing compassionate communication doesn't mean giving up your own boundaries.
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How does your attachment style show up in the bedroom? This episode is brought to you by Jane App: https://janesoftware.partnerlinks.io/sleepingaround - you can get your first month on me with the code ALAYNA1MO!
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In this first episode of Season 2, Alayna is joined by Certified Sex Therapist Casey Tanner to explore how attachment shapes the way we experience sex, desire, and intimacy. They talk about what happens when your partner doesn’t want sex, the shame that can come up around desire and rejection, and how to have sexual attachment conversations with your partner.
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In this season finale, Dr. Justin Lehmiller— social psychologist, Kinsey Institute researcher, and author of Tell Me What You Want joins Alayna to unpack the science of sexual fantasies: why we have them, what they mean (or don’t), and how they can actually strengthen relationships.

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Sex and Psychology Podcast: https://sexandpsychology.com/podcasts
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After infidelity, is healing even possible? In this episode, Alayna Joy sits down with somatic and couples therapist Rebecca Stone to explore betrayal trauma, what causes people to cheat, and how couples can move forward after an affair.

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Website: affairrecoverycoach.com

Group Practice: brooklynsomatictherapy.com

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In this inspiring conversation, Alayna sits down with Abby and Bhupie—therapists and co-creators of Prospect Counselling + Training—to unpack the big, messy questions around trauma and healing. Are we all traumatized? What does healing actually look like, beyond the therapy room? And how do we unlearn harmful beliefs about what healing “should” be?

Whether you're in therapy, offering therapy, or dreaming of new models for care and community, this episode is for you.

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