Conversations with Cam

In this episode, I sit down with sex therapist Vanessa and her husband Xander (from @vanessaandxander) to talk all things sex, intimacy, and relationships. We dive deep into how our upbringings shape our comfort around sex and why having open conversations around it is so important. Vanessa & Xander break down the difference between spontaneous and responsive desire, why mismatched libidos are totally normal, and how pleasure should be at the center of our sex lives. We get real about navigating sex after kids, using toys, and why foreplay doesn’t just start in the bedroom. Vanessa and Xander share practical tips on initiating sex, communicating needs with your partner, and the positions that actually work best.

Key Takeaway / Points:
What libido mismatch really means (and why it’s normal)

The different types of sexual desire (spontaneous vs. responsive)

Practical ways to initiate sex and navigate rejection from your partner

How couples can reconnect even during “survival mode” as parents

The role of toys and romance novels in your sex life

Sex beyond intercourse and the importance of focusing on pleasure

Why faking orgasms is so common amongst women

Vanessa & Xander’s take on scheduled sex and why it can be healthy for couples

How foreplay starts in the kitchen

Quickie sex questions: favorite positions, time of day, music vs. silence, and more

Link to the Tabu pillow HERE, use code PILLOWTALKS for 10% off

Ultimate foreplay guide HERE
Ultimate sex guide HERE

Listen to their podcast Pillow Talks HERE

Follow Vanessa & Xander:
Instagram: @vanessaandxander
TikTok: @vanessaandxander
Website: vmtherapy.com

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Instagram: @cameronoaksrogers
Substack: Fill Your Cup
Website: cameronoaksrogers.com
TikTok: @cameronoaksrogers
Youtube: Cameron Rogers

Friendship Series: In this episode, I sit down with my friend Carissa (@broccyourbody) for an honest conversation about friendship, new motherhood, and the realities of juggling it all while running your own business. Carissa shares her postpartum journey - from bonding and newborn giggles to unexpected challenges of motherhood and health anxiety. We talk about the power of low-maintenance friendships, making new “mom friends,” mental health during postpartum, and how our relationship with food and cooking has shifted after having kids. Carissa also shares tips for making cooking easier as a mom and how she’s prioritizing her self-care in this new season of life.

Key Takeaway / Points: 
The beauty of low-maintenance friendships and how to make new friends as a mom

Her honest postpartum experience and navigating early motherhood

Transitioning from breastfeeding to combo feeding

The unexpected mental load of motherhood

Our relationship with food and cooking after becoming moms

The stigma around childcare as a self-employed parent

Time-saving cooking tips and making meal prepping more realistic 

Order her cookbook Seriously, So Good HERE

Follow Carissa:
Instagram: @broccyourbody
TikTok: @broccyourbody
Website: broccyourbody.com

Follow me:
Instagram: @cameronoaksrogers
Substack: Fill Your Cup
Website: cameronoaksrogers.com
TikTok: @cameronoaksrogers
Youtube: Cameron Rogers

In this episode, my mom Cindy is back for an honest conversation about her journey starting anxiety medication, why she’s drinking less, and how she’s loving this current stage in her life. We talk about why she waited so long to try anxiety medication and the impact that it had on our relationship. She also gets candid about her recent cosmetic procedures, views on aging gracefully, and what it was like being a mother in her generation. Plus, more on why we are both proud of each other and how I think we are in the best stage in our relationship!

Key Takeaway / Points:
Cindy’s journey starting anxiety medication and the positive impact it’s had on her life

The challenges and rewards of cutting back on alcohol

On ditching her AirPods and the story behind “AirPod gate” 

The key to her long-lasting marriage

A rundown of the cosmetic work she’s done (more on her recent facelift)

Listener questions on aging, her favorite life chapters, and motherhood

This episode is sponsored by Roller Rabbit. Use code CAM20 for 20% off your order of $150 or more at www.rollerrabbit.com 

Listen to more episodes with Cindy:
My Mom, Cindy, on Close-Knit Families, Building a "That's My Sister" Dynamic, and How She's So Fabulous
My Mom, Cindy Linville, on Our Relationship and Being A Mother

Follow me:
Instagram: @cameronoaksrogers
Substack: Fill Your Cup
Website: cameronoaksrogers.com
TikTok: @cameronoaksrogers
Youtube: Cameron Rogers

In this episode, I sit down with Monica Padman, co-host and producer of Armchair Expert, for a conversation about her journey from aspiring actress to babysitter to speech writer to podcasting powerhouse. Monica shares how she navigated career pivots, the evolution of her role as co-host with Dax, and building confidence in real time. We dive into the behind-the-scenes of producing and editing episodes and new podcasts she’s created (like Beth’s Dead). Monica also talks about the impact of sharing her egg freezing journey publicly, the value of friendships, dealing with imposter syndrome, and recently being nominated for a Golden Globe. Finally, we dive into her favorite Armchair Expert moments, dream guests, our shared Friends obsession, and the process of moving into her new home!

Key Takeaway / Points:
Sharing my love for Armchair Expert as a long-time listener and Armcherry

Monica’s career evolution from nannying for Kristen Bell & Dax Shepard to becoming a co-creator and co-host of one of the top podcasts

How Monica built her confidence, found her voice, and developed her unique co-hosting style

Behind-the-scenes of booking, producing, and editing Armchair Expert episodes

How her relationship with Hollywood and celebrities has changed as a fangirl

Navigating opinions and feeling protective of her guests

What it was like sharing her egg freezing journey publicly, her current stance on family planning, and maintaining female friendships in different life stages 

Monica on the feeling of belonging, experiencing imposter syndrome, and her recent experience at the Golden Globes

Favorite Armchair moments, dream guests, and what guest surprised her the most

Rapid fire: Monica’s favorite hosting recipes, favorite TV show, current fashion pick, and most valuable lessons learned from Kristen & Dax

Listen to Armchair Expert HERE
Listen to Beth’s Dead HERE

Follow Monica:
Instagram: @mlpadman

Follow me:
Instagram: @cameronoaksrogers
Substack: Fill Your Cup
Website: cameronoaksrogers.com
TikTok: @cameronoaksrogers
Youtube: Cameron Rogers

In this episode, I sit down with filmmaker, Leslie Iwerks, to dive into the making of her documentary, Disneyland Handcrafted. Leslie reveals how Disneyland was built in just one year and the film’s fascinating archival process of never-before-seen footage from the 1950s. We chat about Leslie’s Disney family legacy, her favorite behind-the-scenes childhood memories, and how growing up surrounded by Disney magic has shaped her life. We also get into rapid-fire Disney favorites!

Key Takeaway / Points:
The behind-the-scenes of making the film, Disneyland Handcrafted

What it was like digging through the Disney archives, uncovering the stress of building Disneyland in one year, and the process of matching audio to the silent footage

Leslie’s childhood memories of growing up on Disney film sets and parks

The magic of her grandfather co-creating Mickey Mouse with Walt Disney

Disney rapid-fire favorites: Disneyland vs. Disney World, favorite Disney films and rides, and best food at Epcot

Watch Disneyland Handcrafted HERE

Follow me:
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Substack: Fill Your Cup
Website: cameronoaksrogers.com
TikTok: @cameronoaksrogers
Youtube: Cameron Rogers