Ep. 365 - How to Manifest the Love You Desire with Jillian Turecki
What if your patterns didn’t define you, but showed you EXACTLY where you can grow?Why do we keep choosing the same people—even when we know better?If you’ve felt luckless, stuck, or so far away from the loving partnership you want in life, we’ve got the MOST expansive episode for you.In this powerful conversation, Jessica welcomes renowned relationship teacher and NYT best-selling author and podcast host, Jillian Turecki, for a grounded, radically honest look at why our love lives can feel stuck, painful, or endlessly cyclical—even after doing years of self-help work.They explore what it really means to take accountability without blame, why nervous system regulation is the missing piece in most relationship advice, and how to tell the difference between a need and a wound. Jillian opens up about her own divorce, how her father’s betrayal shaped her patterns, and what it took to fully reclaim her worth.You’ll also hear practical tools for pausing reactivity, unpacking unhealthy dynamics, and moving from “I am this” to “I’m working on this.” Whether you’re heartbroken, dating, partnered, or reflecting on your past, this episode will give you a new framework for conscious love.Healing your relationship patterns isn’t about finding the perfect person—it’s about becoming your truest self so the most aligned dynamic can find you.**Trigger Warning: Brief mention of “Big T” childhood traumas between 50:35 through 51:18 **Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast Resources: Join the Pathway MembershipUse code EXPANDED for 20% off your first month! Join our membership to access the TBM Money Challenge Now Live!The Pathway Membership gives you unlimited access to all of our manifestation workshops—including How to Manifest, Unblocking Your Inner Child, Shadow, Love, Money, Rock Bottoms, Ruts, and Energetic Updates —plus 70+ self-hypnosis tracks designed to unlock your full potential.LEARN MORE HERE Get the latest from TBMJoin our Money Challenge - 3 weeks to your next level of abundanceTake our Free Money Quiz - find out what level of wealth consciousness you are at Join the Pathway now to get full access to our Money Challenge when it launches June 2nd, 2025 – Join the Pathway (use code EXPANDED for 20% off first month) New to TBM? Free Offerings to Get You StartedLearn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial LibraryReady to find out what’s holding you back? Try our Free Clarity Exercise Be an EXPANDER! Share Your Manifestation StorySubmit to Be a Process GuestWhat did you manifest during the Money Challenge? Share a voice note of your question, block, or Process to be featured in an episode! This Episode is brought to you by: Seed - Use 25MAGNETIC at checkout for 25% off your first month@seed’s DS-01® Daily Synbiotic Bon Charge - 15% off with code MAGNETIC Infrared PEMF MatThe BON CHARGE Infrared PEMF Mat is my absolute go-to product! I use it almost daily to ground my nervous system, drop in deeper into my meditations & help my body recover after big hikes. The highest quality and most biohacking stacked mat I’ve seen on the market! Use code MAGNETIC at checkout for 15% off. us.boncharge.com/MAGNETIC In This Episode We Talk About:How to take accountability in relationships without falling into self-blameThe connection between childhood wounds and adult relationship dynamicsRecognizing emotional needs vs. surface-level triggers in partnershipWhy reactivity destroys connection—and how to build the pause muscleThe myth of finding “everything” in one personHow trauma bonds are formed through shared emotional woundsHow personal accountability and nervous system regulation can lead you to your highest selfMoving from fixed identity (“I am avoidant”) to fluid healingTools for catching black-and-white thinking and inner protector partsShifting from victimhood to empowerment in family relationshipsWhy your partner is a mirror—and how to read the reflectionChoosing partners as a reflection of your evolving self-worth Mentioned In the Episode: Jillian’s book: It Begins With You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life Find our Money Challenge plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership (Including the Conflict DI, Self-Love DI, and Reset DI) Connect with Jillian!Jillian on IG @jilliantureckiJillian’s podcast On LoveIt Begins With You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life
Where To Find Us!@tobemagnetic (IG)@LacyannephillipsLacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here@Jessicaashleygill@tobemagnetic (youtube)@expandedpodcast
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Ep. 364 - Most Common Money Blocks Part 2: Q&A with Lacy and Jessica
What if your biggest financial breakdown is actually the start of your breakthrough?Even when it doesn’t feel like it, the universe always has our back—gently (and sometimes not-so-gently) redirecting us toward our manifestations. It uses financial rupture as a wake-up call—an invitation to shed ego, release shiny carrots, and build a new foundation rooted in authenticity. In Part 2 of our Money Challenge Q&A episode, Lacy and Jessica dive into a range of financial topics inspired by questions from the community. Whether the rug has just been pulled out from under you, or you’re ready to step into your next financial level, this conversation offers valuable insight into what might be holding you back—and the next steps to take. You’ll hear empowering guidance on the role of aligned action and how to move through a rock bottom with grace, integrity, and nervous system regulation. They share tangible steps to take your financial power back, release ego-driven spending, and accelerate your return to abundance.The good news? Whether you’re deep in a rock bottom or reaching for your greatest manifestation to date, the TBM tools are here to support you with continual unblocking, steady growth, and deep expansion. Your safety is within. Your authentic goals are already in motion. Your abundance is here, right now. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast Resources:SALE IS LIVE but ONLY FOR A FEW MORE DAYS!$22/monthJoin the Pathway MembershipSale ends SUNDAY July 20th at 11:59pm PSTJoin our membership to access the TBM Money Challenge Now Live! The Pathway Membership gives you unlimited access to all of our manifestation workshops—including How to Manifest, Unblocking Your Inner Child, Shadow, Love, Money, Rock Bottoms, Ruts, and Energetic Updates —plus 70+ self-hypnosis tracks designed to unlock your full potential.LEARN MORE HERE Get the latest from TBMJoin our Money Challenge - 3 weeks to your next level of abundanceTake our Free Money Quiz - find out what level of wealth consciousness you are at Join the Pathway now to get full access to our Money Challenge when it launches June 2nd, 2025 – Join the Pathway (use code EXPANDED for 20% off first month) New to TBM? Free Offerings to Get You StartedLearn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial LibraryReady to find out what’s holding you back? Try our Free Clarity Exercise Be an EXPANDER! Share Your Manifestation StorySubmit to Be a Process GuestWhat did you manifest during the Money Challenge? Share a voice note of your question, block, or Process to be featured in an episode! This Episode is brought to you by: Ned Mellow MagnesiumGo to Foriawellness.com/TBM for 20% off or use code TBM at checkout Sundays for Dogs - 40% off with code TBMGet 40% off your first order of Sundays. Go to sundaysfordogs.com/TBM or use code TBM at checkout.In This Episode We Talk About:Navigating financial rock bottoms with nervous system regulationThe power of aligned action in times of financial instabilityWhy sacrifice is the bridge, not the destinationHow to rebuild from nothing at any ageThe critical role of financial literacy in manifestationUsing high-yield savings accounts and investing as aligned actionGamifying frugality to make it a portal, not a punishmentThe illusion of success without financial autonomyUntangling self-worth from income or career statusJoint finances and opening personal abundance portalsAuthenticity over shiny carrots: identifying ego-based spendingThe two keys to true financial freedom and how anyone can start now Mentioned In the Episode: Ep. 361 - Most Common Money Blocks Part 1: Q&A with Lacy and JessicaEp. 162 - Dr. Daniel Amen - Get Your Brain Healthy & Your Mind Will FollowLacy’s substack on financial freedomFind our Money Challenge plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Reset DI, Validation DI, Letting Go DI and Unblocked: Money DI)
Where To Find Us!@tobemagnetic (IG)@LacyannephillipsLacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here@Jessicaashleygill@tobemagnetic (youtube)@expandedpodcast
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Ep. 363 - From Rock Bottom to Manifesting $50k & Soul-led Success - The Process with Alyah
“Can I really get paid for being me?”This Process episode with Alyah proves that you can. And not only that, you can thrive in a way that feels deeply aligned, peaceful, and expansive. In this powerful episode, she shares how she went from underpaid and overlooked in a corporate job to building a $50K FU fund, paying off debt, and launching a soul-led freelance business—all while moving through a period of profound personal upheaval.This isn’t just a story of manifestation wins—it’s about reclaiming your worth, honoring ancestral roots, and redefining what safety and abundance look like. Alyah reveals how tools like the Reset DI, Unblocked Money, and the TBM Money Challenge helped her shift out of fear and into magnetic trust, all while allowing her authenticity, sweetness, and feminine power to lead.Know that whatever season you're in, it's not too late to reclaim your worth and manifest the life you were meant to lead.Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast Resources: SALE IS LIVE but ONLY FOR A FEW MORE DAYS!$22/monthJoin the Pathway MembershipSale ends July 20th at 11:59pm PSTJoin our membership to access the TBM Money Challenge Now Live! The Pathway Membership gives you unlimited access to all of our manifestation workshops—including How to Manifest, Unblocking Your Inner Child, Shadow, Love, Money, Rock Bottoms, Ruts, and Energetic Updates —plus 70+ self-hypnosis tracks designed to unlock your full potential.LEARN MORE HERE Get the latest from TBMJoin our Money Challenge - 3 weeks to your next level of abundanceTake our Free Money Quiz - find out what level of wealth consciousness you are atJoin the Pathway now to get full access to our Money Challenge when it launches June 2nd, 2025 – Join the Pathway (use code EXPANDED for 20% off first month) New to TBM? Free Offerings to Get You StartedLearn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial LibraryReady to find out what’s holding you back? Try our Free Clarity Exercise Be an EXPANDER! Share Your Manifestation StorySubmit to Be a Process GuestWhat did you manifest during the Money Challenge? Share a voice note of your question, block, or Process to be featured in an episode! This Episode is brought to you by: Bon Charge - 15% off with code MAGNETICInfrared Sauna Blanket Osea - 10% off with MAGNETIC10Undaria Algae Body ButterUndaria Algae Body OilOcean Wave Cleanser In This Episode We Talk About:How Alyah manifested $50K after originally aiming for $14KTransitioning from a toxic corporate job to full-time freelancingHow grief became a gateway to deeper alignment and clarityReceiving her LLC on Juneteenth as a sign from her ancestorsDIs and other tools that help her regulate and root down in authenticityOvercoming imposter syndrome through daily action and self-trustLaunching an Etsy income portal rooted in creative authenticityLiving proof that sweetness and sensitivity are powerful in businessReframing financial fear through energetic and practical toolsLearning to rest, receive, and allow flow in her workweekEmbodying feminine energy as a business leaderFeeling supported from the inside out Mentioned In the Episode: Ep. 89 - Ramit Sethi on Navigating Finances During Challenging Times Part 1I Will Teach You To Be Rich by Ramit SethiExpanded x Ep. 355 - From 6-figure Debt to Authentic Abundance - The Process with MayssaFind our Money Challenge plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Reset DI, Validation DI, Letting Go DI and Unblocked: Money DI) Connect with Alyah!byalyah.combyalyah.co on IGBy Alyah on YoutubeAlyah's Substack
Where To Find Us!@tobemagnetic (IG)@LacyannephillipsLacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here@Jessicaashleygill@tobemagnetic (youtube)@expandedpodcast
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Ep. 362 - How To Create Financial Freedom - Best Of
What does money represent to you? Rent, a good life for your children, stability, freedom, luxury or peace?For most of us, it’s a combination. And all too often, the real urge to manifest money may be hidden behind factors such as ego, fear, and a lack mentality. But to manifest, it is so important to get clear on the “why.” Those of us who just finished our Money Challenge will know this well (it’s still available on demand, get started at tobemagnetic.com).For today’s episode of Expanded, we wanted to resurface one of our most popular episodes of all time for you, one full of timeless advice and resources around manifesting money, whether you’re at the start of your journey or well on your way. Some questions to consider: Why do you want to open income portals? What is the root of that desire to bring in more money? In this episode, we invite you to root down into your authenticity to find that deeper why.You’ll hear Lacy, Jessica, and Grace dive deep into the energetics of abundance, sharing personal stories of financial struggle, limiting beliefs, and the exact tools they used to rewire their relationship with money. You’ll hear how Lacy went from being broke at 30 to running a thriving company and building lasting wealth through strategic investments. Grace opens up about dismantling her financial glass ceiling by letting go of ego-based spending and creating a plan for long-term freedom. Jessica shares a magical manifestation she called in with her partner, reminding us about patience and ultimate trust in the universe, and truly enjoying the gifts we manifest.If you've ever thought, “Will I ever feel financially safe or free?” this episode proves you can. And it’s not about a dollar amount—it’s about unblocking, alignment, trust, and clarity. This conversation is your roadmap to reprogramming your beliefs, finding your authentic money code, and creating a financially magnetic life that’s built to last.Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast Resources: SALE IS LIVE$22/monthJoin the Pathway MembershipSale Ends July 20th at 11:59pm PSTJoin our membership to access the TBM Money Challenge Now Live! The Pathway Membership gives you unlimited access to all of our manifestation workshops—including How to Manifest, Unblocking Your Inner Child, Shadow, Love, Money, Rock Bottoms, Ruts, and Energetic Updates —plus 70+ self-hypnosis tracks designed to unlock your full potential.LEARN MORE HERE Get the latest from TBMJoin our Money Challenge - 3 weeks to your next level of abundanceTake our Free Money Quiz - find out what level of wealth consciousness you are atJoin the Pathway now to get full access to our Money Challenge now!Follow Grace:IG @HowToGoFreelanceTikTok @AskGraceWebsite HowToGoFreelance.comSubstack HowToGoFreelance New to TBM? Free Offerings to Get You StartedLearn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial LibraryReady to find out what’s holding you back? Try our Free Clarity Exercise Be an EXPANDER! Share Your Manifestation StorySubmit to Be a Process GuestWhat did you manifest during the Money Challenge? Share your stories of expansion and manifestation here This Episode is brought to you by: ARMRA - Use code TBM for 15% offColostrum: Immune Revival - Immune barrier superfood Fatty15 - go to fatty15.com/TBM use code TBM at checkout to get an additional 15% off your 90-day subscription Starter Kit In This Episode We Talk About:What an authentic money code is and how to define yoursThe energetics behind financial empowerment and abundanceHow subconscious beliefs and inner child wounds shape money patternsShifting from scarcity and avoidance into trust and intentionalityHow Lacy rebuilt her finances from zero and now manifests wealthThe importance of investing, even with limited fundsIdentifying low self-worth patterns around moneyFinding security and freedom through financial clarityHow to turn skills into security and long-term abundanceExpanding through others’ financial success storiesStep-by-step practical tools to start your financial manifestation journeyMentioned In the Episode: We want to know what came through for you during this challenge! Share your stories of expansion and manifestation hereEp. 211 - How To Create Financial Freedom Part 2Ep. 89 - Ramit Sethi on Navigating Finances During Challenging Times Part 1Ep. 96 - Ramit Sethi on Creating Your Rich Life Part 2I Will Teach You To Be Rich by Ramit SethiDavid Bach’s booksRich Dad Poor Dad by Robert KiyosakiFind our authenticity challenge plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Unblocked: Money DI and Inner Child DI)Connect with Grace!IG @HowToGoFreelanceTikTok @AskGraceWebsite HowToGoFreelance.comSubstack HowToGoFreelance
Where To Find Us!@tobemagnetic (IG)@LacyannephillipsLacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here@Jessicaashleygill@tobemagnetic (youtube)@expandedpodcast
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Ep. 361 - Most Common Money Blocks Part 1: Q&A with Lacy and Jessica
What do control, perfectionism, and money have in common? For many of us, they’re deeply rooted in childhood wounds, and they’re the very blocks standing between us and our manifestations.In this heartfelt Q&A episode, Lacy and Jessica respond to powerful community questions that crack open the real energetics behind love, money, motherhood, and glass ceilings. Whether you’re navigating burnout, trying to call in more income, or craving peace while juggling life’s many demands, this conversation offers guidance, tools, and expansion to help you move forward. You’ll hear personal revelations from Lacy and Jessica about their own inner child programming around control; how it shows up in work, relationships, and even wedding planning. And they offer expansive, grounded advice to two listeners: one manifesting full-time motherhood and another trying to break through a financial glass ceiling while living paycheck to paycheck.This episode is for anyone working through the TBM Money Challenge, or anyone asking: “Why do I still feel stuck?” Because often, the block isn’t what you think—it’s what you’ve normalized. So tune in for deep permission to slow down, reassess, and come back into alignment with what’s truly authentic for you. The abundance you’re calling in might just require a little less effort—and a little more letting go. Stay tuned for Part 2 in a few weeks!Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast Resources: SALE IS LIVE$22/monthJoin the Pathway MembershipSale ends July 20th at 11:59pm PST Join our membership to access the TBM Money Challenge The Pathway Membership gives you unlimited access to all of our manifestation workshops—including How to Manifest, Unblocking Your Inner Child, Shadow, Love, Money, Rock Bottoms, Ruts, and Energetic Updates —plus 70+ self-hypnosis tracks designed to unlock your full potential.LEARN MORE HERE Get the latest from TBMNeed motivation during the Money Challenge? Join Jessica’s Free IG Money Challenge Chat!Join our Money Challenge - 3 weeks to your next level of abundanceTake our Free Money Quiz - find out what level of wealth consciousness you are atJoin the Pathway now to get full access to our Money Challenge now! New to TBM? Free Offerings to Get You StartedLearn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial LibraryReady to find out what’s holding you back? Try our Free Clarity Exercise Be an EXPANDER! Share Your Manifestation StorySubmit to Be a Process GuestShare your Money Manifestation Expander Story! Share a voice note of your Process to be featured in an episode! This Episode is brought to you by: Seed - Use 25MAGNETIC at checkout for 25% off your first month@seed’s DS-01® Daily Synbiotic Bon Charge - 15% off with code MAGNETIC Red Light Neck and Chest Mask Everyday Dose - Go to everydaydose.com/TBM and use code TBM for 45% off your first order.Get 45% off your first subscription order of 30-servings of Coffee+ or Bold+. You’ll also receive a starter kit with over $100 in free gifts. In This Episode We Talk About:How perfectionism and control are rooted in childhood trauma and old patterningThe connection between love and moneyThe inner child belief: "If I let go, it will all collapse"Defining your authentic “why” for abundanceReframing beauty as spiritual and energetic nourishmentThe abundance found in nature and somatic peaceConnecting to sensory environments that regulate and groundRevisiting authentic code to reflect internal expansionNavigating motherhood, generational trauma, and money energeticsBreaking consumerist hypnosis to create true financial freedomUsing “the opposite is the medicine” for financial and personal growth Mentioned In the Episode: Channeling with Lacy - 2025 EnergeticsTake our Free Money Quiz - find out what level of wealth consciousness you are atShare your Money Manifestation Expander Story! Share a voice note of your Process to be featured in an episode!Find our authenticity challenge plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Stripped DI, Embodied DI, and Inner Child DI)
Where To Find Us!@tobemagnetic (IG)@LacyannephillipsLacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here@Jessicaashleygill@tobemagnetic (youtube)@expandedpodcast
The Expanded Podcast is the leading manifestation podcast, hosted by Lacy Phillips, founder of To Be Magnetic™ and co-hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer, Jessica Gill. It’s based on Neural Manifestation™, TBM’s unique process that’s rooted in neuroscience, psychology, epigenetics, and energetics– with a little spirituality sprinkled on top.
While Expanded ranks as one of the best spiritual podcasts, our focus is really on the science and psychology behind manifestation. Our goal is to normalize the practice of manifestation and empower you to get into the driver's seat of your life in order to manifest the experiences, relationships, and things that most align with your authenticity.
We cover topics like inner child healing, shadow work, boundaries, how to reprogram your subconscious mind (and why this is so important), clarity, how to manifest dreams, create magnetism, and harness intuition.
Part of our manifestation process entails “expanding” past your limiting subconscious beliefs. So, by tuning into this podcast with interviews from experts, thought leaders, spiritual teachers, scientists, and those with Neural Manifestation™ success stories, you are starting the process of “Expanding” your subconscious in order to ‘see to believe’ that anything you desire is possible. And by pressing play, the process begins!
Create your daily manifestation practice in The Pathway, our all-access workshop membership, found on tobemagnetic.com.
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