In Bed With Alexa: Have Better Sex

• Why Taking a Break From Sex Might Be the Secret to Better Sex (ft. Catherine Drysdale)

  Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets back in bed with sex & relationship coach Catherine Drysdale for the most honest, nuanced conversation about voluntary celibacy you’ve ever heard. Together they break down how intentionally stepping away from partnered sex can reset your dating patterns, raise your standards, calm your nervous system, help you stop centering dating/sex, reconnect you to your body, and ultimately make your sex life better.In this episode, Catherine opens up about: What voluntary celibacy actually meansWhy she’s chosen celibacy multiple timesLibido dips during high-stress seasons– Prioritizing outercourse for better sexCelibacy as a tool for breaking validation cyclesHow to stop centering dating, sex and external validationDating while celibate & setting clear boundariesHow long a celibacy period should lastHow to decide when to re-enter sex or dating into your lifeWhat she learned about sexual compatibilityThe “reset effect” on desire and self-esteemHow celibacy helped her see red flags soonerWhy a sex break often leads to better sexHow to be more intentional once you start having sex againThank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 50% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: https://beducate.me/pd2548-alexa🔥 Want more? Join my ⁠Patreon⁠ for unedited episodes, behind-the-scenes tea on my personal dating & sex life, and access to my Close Friends on Instagram!

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• How to Give the Best Handjob of His Life (ft. Ashley Manta)

  Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with sex educator, pleasure expert, and the Handjob Queen herself, Ashley Manta (@cannasexual), for the most comprehensive handjob episode ever recorded, all from the middle of the Ionian Sea aboard a Desire Cruise.Together, they dive into Ashley’s entire sexual evolution, her journey into sex education, her non-monogamous love story, and her insanely detailed handjob techniques that go way beyond the basics. This episode is part sex education masterclass, part storytelling, part technique demonstration and entirely iconic.We cover:How Ashley de-centered penetration in her relationships and learned to prioritize warm-up, touch, and manual stimulationWhy she prefers clitoral stimulation with fingers over any vibrator / oralSquirting vs orgasm: why they’re different experiences and how Ashley experiences bothHandjobs in cars, the “blowjobs for rides” era, and giving a handjob in a DHL truckWorking at a sex shop and learning techniques from experts like Reid Mihalko, Ducky Doolittle, Tristan Taormino, and moreHer decade of learning technique through sex parties, workshops, and hands-on practiceThe “toxic tantra boyfriend” who was incredible at sex but emotionally manipulativeHow handjobs became Ashley’s specialty and why she teaches them professionallyUsing partners as “live demos” during workshopsHer handjob philosophy: connection, breathwork, presence, pressure, rhythm, and affirmationHow to handle soft cocks, why softness is normal, and how to help someone relax into arousalWhy lube is non-negotiable, why Ashley prefers silicone lube, and her love for the baby bottle warmer hackCircumcised vs uncircumcised penis techniques and what adjustments matterFull techniques breakdownWhy Ashley doesn’t enjoy giving blowjobs (TMJ + dislike of cum), and how she clearly makes up for itOutsourcing BJ duties during group play thanks to her and Nick’s non-monogamous dynamicAnal play safety and boundaries: how Nick discovered he loves anal, how they explored it safely, and hygiene must-knowsThank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA69 to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 65% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: https://beducate.me/pd2544-alexa

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• The Man Who Taught the World That She Comes First (ft. Ian Kerner)

  Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with Ian Kerner, sex therapist and author of the groundbreaking bestseller She Comes First, He Comes Next, and So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex. They talk about why his 2004 classic is still changing bedrooms two decades later, how the clitoris remains misunderstood, and what makes sex truly great.We discuss:- Why She Comes First is still a global bestseller 21 years later- ⁠The science of the clitoris and its internal structures- Why all orgasms are clitoral — and what “outercourse” really means- Why penetration-only sex leads to bad sex and performance anxiety- The most common sexual problems heterosexual couples face today- How to shift from intercourse-focused sex to pleasure-focused sex- Why rhythm and persistence are essential for clitoral stimulation- Why novelty helps early on but routine deepens connection- How rushing and orgasm-chasing have ruined slow sex- The differences between male and female arousal cycles- ⁠The three assurances every giver should offer during oral sex- Why enthusiasm is the sexiest thing a partner can show- How women’s insecurities (“I’m taking too long,” “Do I smell?”) block pleasure- Why giving oral sex might be the key to your erection problemsAn unfiltered, intimate conversation about why She Comes First is still essential reading and how better sex starts with slowing down, getting curious, and caring more.Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA69 to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 65% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: https://beducate.me/pd2544-alexa

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• BDSM, Choking & Aftercare: A Kink Masterclass (ft. Amanda Dames)

  Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with Amanda Dames, the kink consultant and sex & relationship coach, for a deep dive into the world of kink — from power dynamics and negotiation to choking, bondage, chastity, and aftercare. Amanda, a former dominatrix and current coach for couples and individuals, breaks down how to safely explore desire, communicate boundaries, and find confidence in both dominance and submission.We discuss:What a kink consultant actually does and how Amanda works with couples and individualsHow to talk about kink and start negotiating scenes with a partnerThe concept of core desires: what drives your kinks on a deeper levelPower exchange and why it’s one of the most common and misunderstood kinksHow to safely practice choking and the difference between sides and trachea pressureHow to create and close a scene, use safe words, and practice aftercareThe difference between a kink and a fetish (and why fantasizing isn’t cheating)What to do when one partner is kinky and the other isn’tThe importance of curiosity, consent, and mutual care in exploring desiresWhy choking porn shouldn’t be banned, it should be taught safelyHow to avoid nerve damage in bondage and the importance of safety scissorsHow to transition between dominance and submission when you’re a switchWhy chastity for men is on the rise and what makes it excitingThe realities of power play, punishment, and controlWhat good aftercare looks like: from cuddling to next-day check-insWhy communication before, during, and after sex prevents harm and deepens connectionThe role of negotiation, consent, and enthusiasm in every sceneWhy more women should take control in bed and why more men should learn to be submissiveHow lingerie, pegging, and roleplay are more common (and fun) than people thinkAmanda’s fetish for being punished and how fantasy enhances orgasm

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• I Slept with 70 Men in 10 Months and It Made Me Realize I’m Asexual (ft. Robyn Silber)

  Sexologist Alexa Andre (@⁠sexwithalexa⁠)⁠ sits on the couch with Robyn Silber⁠ — a former Google software engineer who slept with 70 men in 10 months and then realized she’s asexual. Robyn opens up about her “slut era,” sexual health, discovering demisexuality, navigating autism and dating, and why she’s now working to help lonely men build real connection.We talk about:Dating younger men and having 70 sexual partners in her first 10 months in NYCSexual health: chlamydia, BV, yeast infections, UTIs, and learning to advocate for herselfWhy only ~5 of 70 partners made her orgasm and how she wasn’t asking for pleasureThe difference between physical attraction and real sexual desireHow asexuality doesn’t mean low libido or lack of masturbationHer current relationship: emotional connection, sensuality, and slow intimacyWhy everyone should have a “slut era” and what to keep in mindHer idea to launch an online support group for men who aren’t getting laidThe male loneliness crisis and how empathy can rebuild connectionWhy men should focus on friendship, hobbies, and social skills before dating

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