The Alpha Male Coach Podcast

In this episode, we're diving deep into one of the key aspects of Human Design: the difference between skills and systems. Now, as many of you know, I’m a projector, and this really shapes how I’ve experienced life, especially when it comes to learning new things. I’ve spent years living in different countries, totally immersed in the culture, working hard to learn languages like Spanish and Chinese, and yet—I still don’t speak them fluently. But then, I see my friends who are generators, picking up these skills almost effortlessly in a fraction of the time. It used to frustrate me, but it all makes sense once you understand the Human Design framework.Generators are built to master skills. They’re the doers. They have this natural energy for repetition, for practice, for honing in on a specific task until they perfect it. They’re like the chess pieces on a board—each with their unique strengths and abilities. But what about us projectors? Well, we don’t operate like that. While a generator might be able to dive into a skill and refine it, we’re here to see the big picture. Our gift lies in understanding the system behind that skill, in seeing how all the moving parts work together, and guiding others to their mastery.I’ve experienced this over and over in my life. Take music, for example. I’ve tried to learn instruments like the piano and guitar. I could sit there and practice for hours, but no matter how much time I put in, I just couldn’t get past being average. But here’s the thing: I understand the system of music perfectly. I can read music like the back of my hand. I know the notes, the rhythms, the scales. I just can’t play them well. And the same thing happened in sports—like when I was a competitive shooter. I never ranked high in competitions, but I could teach people how to shoot, and they’d become champions. Why? Because I understood the system behind shooting, the strategies, the techniques.This episode is about embracing that difference. As projectors, we’re not here to grind through skills and become masters of them ourselves. We’re here to guide. We’re here to teach. We’re here to see the big picture and help others reach their potential. It’s like the chessboard analogy: the generator pieces are focused on their individual moves, but we’re the player—we see the whole board and guide them to make the best moves.But I’m not saying projectors can’t learn skills or that generators can’t master systems. What I’m saying is that we have different strengths, and when we lean into those strengths, we thrive. Projectors need to stop feeling like they have to keep up with the generator hustle. Likewise, generators can benefit from having a projector to guide them through the systems that govern their world.Ultimately, it’s about celebrating our energetic differences. We’re all the same in essence—our essence is unity, vibration, light. But energetically, we’re all unique, and when we recognize that, we can better understand how to live in alignment with our true selves. So if you’re a generator, find yourself a projector to guide you. And if you’re a projector, embrace your role as the guide. Together, we elevate each other.

In this episode, we take a deep dive into two critical concepts: compassion and pity—and why understanding the difference between them is essential for your spiritual journey. On the surface, these two ideas may seem similar. Both involve recognizing someone else's suffering and taking action, but the energy and vibration behind them are completely different. Brothers, this is where the real work begins.Let’s break it down. Compassion comes from love, unity, and an understanding of the oneness of all beings. It recognizes that suffering is a projection of the mind—an illusion. When you see someone experiencing pain, you know it’s just a story they are telling themselves, just like the stories you tell yourself. Compassion isn’t about agreeing with the story; it’s about seeing the deeper truth. When you act out of compassion, you’re acting from a place of love. You help because you know that everything is connected, and by uplifting someone else, you uplift yourself. There’s no fear involved. It’s pure love. It's knowing that the person you’re helping is just another version of you, another aspect of the oneness we all share.Now, contrast that with pity. Pity comes from fear. You see someone suffering, and your mind immediately projects onto them, thinking, “I don’t want that to be me.” Pity stems from the fear that you might end up like the person you're helping. So you act, but your action is driven by fear, not love. You believe in the illusion of their suffering, and by believing it, you reinforce it. It’s still action, but it's not coming from the highest place. And brothers, if you’re acting out of fear, you’re still trapped in the lower vibration of the third dimension. You're reacting to the illusion instead of rising above it.This distinction is crucial, not just in how we interact with others, but also in how we treat ourselves. Are you practicing self-compassion or self-pity? When you’re in self-pity, you’re telling yourself a fear-based story, feeding into the illusion that you’re not where you need to be, or that you’re not enough. But when you practice self-compassion, you acknowledge where you are with love. You recognize that, yes, maybe you made a mistake, but that’s part of the process. It’s part of the illusion. There’s no fear in self-compassion, only love and growth.Throughout this episode, I challenge you to examine the root of your actions. Are you acting from love or from fear? Are you truly in compassion, or are you coming from a place of pity? This is the deep work, brothers—the spiritual practice of elevating your vibration, of shifting from fear-based action to love-based action. It’s easy to think you're being compassionate, but if there’s any fear involved, you're still stuck in pity.Remember, we are spiritual beings having a human experience, not the other way around. The world as we know it is not as it seems. It’s time to wake up, elevate your mind, and elevate your alpha. When you can act from a place of true compassion, both toward others and yourself, that’s when you break free from the illusion and step into your true power.

Elevate Your Alpha: Embrace the Now and ForgivenessIn this transformative episode of Elevate Your Alpha, we delve into the importance of maintaining a high vibration and embracing the present moment. Our host emphasizes letting go of past regrets and the negative impact of holding onto self-judgment and resentment. By focusing on forgiveness and love, we can elevate our energy and lead a harmonious life.This episode explores the teachings of Jesus and Buddha on forgiveness, love, and the impermanence of life. Jesus taught unconditional love and forgiveness, while Buddha highlighted the emptiness and impermanence of the external world. Both perspectives converge on the importance of maintaining a high vibration and living in the now.We discuss the significance of monitoring our vibration through mindfulness and meditation, starting with a focus on the body’s sensations. This practice helps us stay attuned to our feelings, allowing us to let go of negative emotions quickly. By doing so, we prevent the external world from affecting our inner peace.Practical examples, such as dealing with road rage, illustrate how being aware of our body's sensations can help us let go of agitation and maintain a state of peace. The episode also touches on the concept of death and the importance of facing it with acceptance and a high vibration. Whether one believes in reincarnation or other afterlife concepts, the key is to transition with a peaceful and loving energy.Join us as we uncover universal truths that transcend religious boundaries and offer practical steps to live a more mindful, loving, and vibrant life. Whether it's overcoming buffering behaviors, dealing with daily stressors, or contemplating the inevitability of death, this episode provides profound insights to help you elevate your alpha and embrace the now.Subscribe to The Alpha Male Coach Podcast to stay updated on future episodes where we continue to explore ways to elevate your life and energy. Until next time, keep your vibration high and elevate your alpha!

Hey brothers, I want to dive deep into a concept that might sound counterintuitive at first: the idea that depression is actually an upgrade for the human species. I know it sounds crazy, but stick with me here. When we start to move from our conditioned beta state towards neutrality and beyond, we begin to pierce the shell of our ego, our "I-ness." This initial breakthrough can feel like entering a dark, cloudy, and rainy world where nothing matters, much like the downtrodden side of the meme where a person is slumped over and unhappy.When you first confront the realization that nothing matters, it often leads to a state of depression. This isn't a bad thing. In fact, it's an important step in our evolution. Depression signals that our crisis monitoring system is lowering, helping us recognize that nothing, indeed, matters. This realization aligns with what mystics, saints, and sages have always known: everything is empty, a hologram, a dream state. We start to understand that our ego, our attachments, our possessions, and even our relationships don't really matter.Many people are uncomfortable with this idea because it contrasts sharply with our conditioning, which tells us that our lives and identities are supremely important. But the truth is, nothing matters. And that's liberating. It's the beginning of moving from ignorance to knowledge, from ego to true self.I know some coaches will tell you to strengthen your ego, to build a strong persona. And that's okay; it's not wrong. But if you want to move beyond the ego, to break through to the other side, you must let go of the idea that your ego matters. When you do, you’ll experience what’s on the other side of the meme: bliss, harmony, and love.Moving from ignorance to knowledge is like returning to the Garden of Eden. The story goes that we lost our true knowledge when we ate from the Tree of Knowledge and became aware of our ego. But when we regain this knowledge, we understand that nothing matters, and we can embrace this truth joyfully. This understanding leads to liberation and, ultimately, to a state of nirvana or heaven on earth.To know you’ve moved from ignorance to knowledge, look for that sense of bliss that isn’t tied to circumstances. It’s a bliss that comes from ego death, from truly understanding that nothing matters. This state can be reached through meditation, breathwork, plant medicine, or even listening to this podcast. When you get there, everything around you – the colors, the sounds, the mundane things – becomes vibrant, magical, and awe-inspiring. You merge with the world, experiencing its perfection and realizing that you are one with it.Doctors and scientists know so little about the body, just as we know so little about the universe. The arrogance of claiming we fully understand either is a product of our ego. But when we let go of the "I," we see the body and the world as the magical, vibrant entities they truly are.Brothers, if this resonates with you, come to the academy. It's one path among many, but it’s a path where we explore these truths together. Everything is impermanent, everything is in flux, and embracing that truth is key to your freedom. Until next week, elevate your alpha.