Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, Cam is joined by his brother Callum to explore the story of Geddings David Osbon, an automotive shop worker from South Carolina who invented the penis pump. Key points:01:33 Geddings' Early Life and Family09:50 The Birth of the Penis Pump17:52 Challenges and Acceptance25:33 FDA Approval and Market Breakthrough30:05 Family Legacy and Business Expansion43:09 Third Generation and Modern Era44:52 Reflections and Final Thoughts

In this episode of #mensexpleasure, Isiah McKimmie, a couples counselor and sexologist with 15 years of experience, discusses strategies for helping individuals and couples build healthier relationships and improve their sex lives. Isiah emphasizes the importance of discussing difficult topics outside the bedroom in low-stakes situations to foster better communication inside the bedroom. She highlights the impact of sexual challenges on overall well-being and offers insights into addressing common issues such as mismatched libidos, sexual dysfunction, and emotional disconnection. The discussion also covers the benefits of engaging in playful activities to bond with partners and new approaches to therapy, including couples retreats designed to provide a relaxing yet insightful experience. The conversation is rich with practical advice and underlines the need for empathy, structured communication, and creative solutions in nurturing intimate relationships.Key Points:02:39 Two-Way Street of Sexual Dysfunction09:51 Games and Activities to Improve Intimacy15:57 Navigating Mismatched Libidos22:53 Understanding Rejection Sensitivity in Relationships23:45 The Need for Non-Sexual Physical Intimacy29:02 Exploring the Erotic Menu Concept32:53 Introducing Couples Retreats for Relationship Enhancement37:50 Addressing Anxiety and Pressure in Romantic Getaways

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, Jessica Soares, also known as the Erotic Muse or the Holy Hedonist, shares insights into her unique career as an erotic artist and experience designer. Jessica discusses her passion for fostering creativity and helping individuals live authentically. She delves into the nuances of creating erotic audio content aimed at arousal and its impact on both creator and consumer. Additionally, the conversation explores the complexities around authenticity, societal perceptions of erotic content, and the importance of paying for such artistry. We also touch upon Jessica’s methods for cultivating a shame-free environment and the evolving landscape of sexuality work.Key points:00:32 Meet Jessica Soares: The Erotic Muse04:48 Navigating Public Perception and Erotic Content16:21 Permission vs. Prescription in Sexual Expression27:06 Embracing Arousal in Practice27:31 Creating Erotic Audio for Men28:20 Guided Self-Pleasure Practices29:04 Retention and Edging Techniques31:53 Defining Pornography and Erotica42:17 Supporting Erotic ArtistsRelevant links:https://patreon.com/HolyHetairawww.theroticmuse.comCODE for 25% off first month of membership: MSP25

In this episode, Mike Andryszewski shares his personal and professional journey in the realm of bodywork, sexuality, and spirituality. Mike discusses his background as a bodyworker and the various modalities he incorporates into his practice, including Thai massage, myofascial release, and craniosacral therapy. He emphasizes the importance of integrating mind-body connection and addressing deeper emotional issues through therapeutic touch. Mike also opens up about his experiences with premature ejaculation, sexual shame, and the transformative power of open communication with partners. The conversation delves into Mike's time as a celibate monk in a Hari Krishna ashram, his subsequent sexual renaissance, and how he reconciles his spirituality with his sexuality. The discussion culminates in the significance of connecting with nature and sensuality as a means to enhance both sexual and spiritual well-being.Key points:00:00 Introduction and Hot Seat Questions00:20 Mike's Background and Passion01:57 Exploring Body Work04:53 Integrating Coaching and Body Work07:48 Personal Journey and Sexual Renaissance12:22 Overcoming Premature Ejaculation20:16 The Role of Communication in Sexual Health27:46 Managing Shame and Expectations in Sexual Experiences30:33 The Importance of Communication in Sexual Relationships32:26 Exploring Spirituality and Sexuality38:30 Integrating Spiritual Practices into Sexual Experiences42:41 Connecting with Nature and Sensuality47:13 Final Thoughts and Practical Advice

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, Cam intterviews Alex, a men's sex coach, about authenticity in male sexuality. Alex shares his personal journey and experiences with societal pressures that shaped his early sexual experiences, including performance anxiety and the influence of substance abuse. Cam and Alex discuss the transition towards a more genuine, shame-free sexual expression. They explore how societal messages and stereotypes impact not only their sex lives but also their broader relationships and mental health. They emphasise the importance of open communication, vulnerability, and self-exploration to understand one's unique sexual blueprint. By overcoming fear and anxiety, they advocate for embracing one's authentic sexual self. The episode also touches on the significance of nervous system regulation in dealing with sexual anxieties and the role of men's support groups in facilitating open conversations about these issues.Key points:00:00 Introduction and Opening Questions00:47 Defining Authentic Sexuality01:52 Societal Expectations and Masculinity03:05 Personal Struggles with Sexual Performance05:30 Journey to Sobriety and Self-Discovery07:23 Facing Shame and Embracing Authenticity15:33 Navigating Nervous System Responses17:22 Breathwork and Nervous System Regulation21:08 Communicating Sexual Desires with Partners25:10 The Importance of Vulnerability29:46 The Struggle of Asking for Help30:05 Acknowledging the Need for Help31:07 Vulnerability in Discussing Sexual Issues31:59 Exploring Sexuality and Self-Understanding33:20 The Power of Erotic Blueprints35:14 The Fluidity of Sexual Desires38:31 Breaking Free from Masturbation Habits40:39 Navigating Shame and Self-Pleasure42:29 The Anxiety Around Ejaculation49:10 The Importance of Vulnerability in Men's Groups50:16 Closing Thoughts and Where to Find More