Are You Sleeping with a Narcissist? 13 Red Flags You Can’t Afford to Miss | Dr. Becky Spelman PT 1 (Fan Fav)
This is a fan fav episode. I’ve got another incredible 2 part episode of Women of Impact, where we're taking a deep dive into a topic that's plagued too many women with confusion and pain - dealing with narcissistic partners.
Psychologist and mental health advocate, Dr. Becky Spelman joins me to spin a new twist on narcissistic behaviors that trip women up in the bedroom. We’re talking about the complex dynamics of sleeping with a narcissist - an experience that can destroy your confidence, your sanity, and your self-love.
Dr. Spelman exposes 13 tell-tale signs that you're sharing your bed with a narcissist. She also discusses why transitioning from toxic relationships to healthy ones can feel surprisingly challenging, even boring.
Because I want to flood you with practical information you can actually use to change your life, we’re unpacking the goods and exposing new insights and views to help you escape narcissistic abuse and narcissistic romance in the bedroom.
*Why making you climax one minute and ignoring you the next is a power play they love
*How narcissists gaslight you and totally bullsh*t themselves at the same time
*The horrendous experience of being ghosted and devalued and why the “too good to be true” first dates are a major red flag.
*How being dominated and submissive in the bedroom can go from fun and kinky to toxic and tragic fast!
Original air date: 9-20-2023
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Stop Being ‘The Nice Girl’—How to Say No Without Guilt | Lisa Bilyeu (Fan Fav)
This is a fan fav episode. On this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, we explore the importance of setting boundaries to avoid feeling worthless and being pushed around in any relationship, and why speaking up and pissing people off is essential to have your own back and maintain your self-respect.
Lisa also delves into how cultural or societal pressures can impact decision-making and why prioritizing oneself is crucial in the long term.
Original air date: 4-10-2023
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If Your Family Feels Toxic, You’re Not the ‘Bad Guy’ for Setting Boundaries | Nedra Glover Tawwab (Fan Fav)
This is a fan fav episode. Learning how to deal with your family as an adult is an ongoing struggle many of us still haven’t figured out. When unhealthy family dynamics make it difficult to visit your grandparents and the thought of visiting your parents brings on dread and anxiety, there’s definitely issues you’ll want to address.
If you’re finding yourself trapped in a turbulent family relationship you don’t know how to escape, Nedra Glover Tawwab, world renowned clinical psychologist, relationship expert and queen of boundaries, is sharing everything you need to know to set important boundaries, become who you want to be, or cut ties if needed.
Nedra’s latest book, Drama Free, is all about better managing unhealthy relationships and no longer accepting the dysfunction within families that keeps people tied to misery, dishonesty, disrespect and abuse long after they have the power and ability to say enough is enough.
Original air date: 2-27-2023
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#1 Divorce Judge Exposes Cheaters, Liars & How to Know if it’s Love or a Lie | Judge Lynn Toler - PT 2
Part 2
In Part 2 of this powerful Women of Impact conversation, Lisa Bilyeu and Judge Lynn Toler turn their attention to the crossroads of staying, leaving, and starting over. Judge Lynn shares her strategies for staying calm in the face of deep disrespect, the art of navigating difficult conversations, and the emotional intelligence tactics that have kept her grounded in and out of court.
This half dives into the psychology behind why people don’t leave unhappy relationships… from fear of change and financial insecurity to the hope things might get better and the social myths that hold women hostage. Judge Lynn reveals what truly makes or breaks a partnership, why couples should treat their marriage like a business, and her personal journey of loss and resilience following 34 years of marriage.
Here's exactly what we dive into:
The power of giving voice to your emotions… at the DMV, and beyond
Reading people in court: The dance of emotional intelligence
How women lose confidence and identity in relationships
The “us against the problem” mindset
How to safely exit abusive relationships
What happens after Divorce Court: Stories of hope and healing
The compatibility test: Questions every couple should ask before marrying
Why understanding men (and women) is key for deeper compassion
The secret to Judge Lynn’s lasting marriage
Peace Over Violence helps women get out of dangerous relationships: https://www.peaceoverviolence.org/
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#1 Divorce Judge Exposes Cheaters, Liars & How to Know if it’s Love or a Lie | Judge Lynn Toler - PT 1
Part 1
In this compelling first half of a two-part Women of Impact, host Lisa Bilyeu welcomes the legendary Judge Lynn Toler, the longest-serving judge on Divorce Court, for a candid, no-nonsense conversation about the truths of relationships. Judge Lynn, renowned for her unfiltered wisdom and emotional intelligence, draws from her 14 years on the bench to reveal the patterns, pitfalls, and powerful dynamics that shape why we choose to love, cheat, stay, or leave.
Get ready for an engaging game of "Men vs. Women: Who's More Likely?" as Judge Lynn uncovers surprising truths about cheating, forgiveness, snooping, and lying… from both genders. They break down why women often feel trapped in unhealthy relationships, the difference between emotional and physical affairs, and the impact of social media on modern romance.
Here's exactly what we dive into:
How men and women rationalize infidelity differently
The deeper needs that lead women to seek attention outside a relationship
The evolution of cheating in the age of social media
Who’s more likely to snoop through a partner’s phone?
Who's more likely to forgive a cheater?
Why women secretly plot their exits and why men may not see it coming
Using the court system for revenge
How friendships and community help women rebuild
Why “feeding the marriage” is crucial
Daily habits that build long-term intimacy
Serial cheaters… from “I make the money, I make the rules” to lack of impulse control
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