How Success Exposes the Fakes (Not the Real Ones) Ep. 240 w/ Frank Stallone
In this episode of the Man of War Podcast, We sit down with Frank Stallone for a raw and powerful conversation about what it really means to survive in a world built on illusion.
Frank shares the truth about growing up under the weight of the Stallone name, what it felt like to be pushed aside in the industry, and how betrayal shaped his view of loyalty and legacy. This is not a Hollywood story. It's a lesson in grit, manhood, and standing firm in your values when everyone around you folds.
We talk about what it takes to stay grounded, why so many men lose themselves chasing recognition, and how to build something real that lasts.
If you're a man navigating adversity, dealing with identity, or fighting to carve your own path, this conversation will hit home.
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Becoming Unstoppable: Authentic Leadership, Service, and Faith with Mike “C-Roc” Ciorrocco | Ep. 239
On this episode of the Man of War Podcast, Rafa sits down with Mike “C-Roc” Ciorrocco entrepreneur, speaker, and author of Rocket Fuel to talk about how to live with purpose, lead with authenticity, and turn life’s setbacks into unstoppable momentum.
Mike shares his journey from a broken childhood to becoming a purpose-driven leader, the importance of self-development before serving others, and why authenticity is the currency of true influence. He opens up about his faith, the role it plays in his life and business, and why service is the foundation for lasting impact.
We dive into:
• How to become a man people respect and follow
• The difference between selling faith and living it
• Why vulnerability and service are non-negotiables in leadership
• Turning setbacks into fuel for growth
• Building a network that creates opportunities for others
Whether you’re a man seeking direction, an entrepreneur building your brand, or someone ready to live with intention, this conversation will inspire you to lead from the front.
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Chapters:
00:00 – Introduction to Mike “C-Roc” Ciorrocco
01:15 – From Brokenness to Self-Development
03:00 – Why Service Starts with Self-Mastery
05:00 – The Power of Authenticity in Leadership
08:35 – Living Faith vs. Selling Faith
12:15 – Vulnerability and Building Trust
17:15 – Respect: Why It Starts with You
23:53 – Entrepreneurship, Branding & the Attraction Model
30:20 – Marriage, Family & Service at Home
34:10 – Childhood Lessons that Shaped a Purpose-Driven Life
38:49 – Turning Adversity into Rocket Fuel
39:49 – The Next Five Years and Staying Open to God’s Plan
40:40 – Where to Find Mike “C-Roc”
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From Millionaire to Man of Honor: Elliot Wise on Marriage, Masculinity & Mission | Ep. 238
In this powerful episode of the Man of War Podcast, we sit down with Elliot Wise entrepreneur, husband, and father who built and lost a fortune by 21, only to come back stronger. But this isn’t just about money. It’s about what it means to lead a family, build a legacy, and become a man worth following.
Elliot and Rafa dive deep into the crisis of modern masculinity, the collapse of traditional values, and how weak men allow weak societies to rise. From the sanctity of marriage to self-reinvention after fatherhood, this conversation exposes what most won’t say out loud: modern men are soft, and it’s time to change that.
If you’re a man searching for purpose, power, or just the truth start here.
💥 Takeaways:
• Weak men create weak families and weak families collapse nations
• Marriage without shared vision is doomed
• Masculinity is not toxic—it’s necessary
• Confidence starts with becoming a man of value
• Leadership is earned through action, not entitlement
• Structure, physical fitness, and spiritual gratitude are non-negotiables
• A man without purpose is already defeated
⏱️ Chapters:
0:00 - Intro & Elliot’s Background
1:30 - The Role of Fathers & Male Role Models
5:00 - Society’s Attack on Masculinity
10:00 - How Weak Men Enable Cultural Collapse
15:00 - Building a Lasting Marriage Through Framework & Standards
23:00 - Vision, Values & Communication in Relationships
30:00 - Why Most Men Lack Confidence
36:00 - Reinvention After Fatherhood
42:00 - Why Real Men Do More Than Provide
46:00 - Power, Purpose & Mission
50:00 - What Real Leadership Looks Like
54:00 - Staying Physically and Mentally Sharp
58:00 - Final Thoughts & Where to Find Elliot Wise
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Bulldog Mindset: Destroying the Victim Mentality & Reclaiming Masculinity | Ep. 236 w John Sonmez
Men today are drowning in victim mentality and John Sonmez, founder of Bulldog Mindset, is here to crush it. In this powerful conversation, we break down:
✅ How to eliminate the victim mindset and take full responsibility for your life
✅ Why men must embrace pride, hardship, and masculine virtues
✅ The secret to mastering fear (and how John overcame crippling panic attacks)
✅ Stoic philosophy and emotional mastery for men
✅ Why self-worth comes from YOUR judgment, not others
This episode will challenge you to stop blaming the world and start becoming the man you were meant to be.
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Takeaways
• Responsibility over Blame: Your life is YOUR responsibility, regardless of fault.
• Masculine pride comes from hardship, not comfort.
• Fear dies when you face it head-on, not when you avoid it.
• Stop external validation: your opinion of yourself matters most.
• Emotional mastery means feeling deeply but staying steady—a true king’s mindset.
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Chapters
00:00 Intro: Why Masculine Mindset Matters
01:04 The Birth of Bulldog Mindset
03:39 Killing the Victim Mentality
07:49 Pride, Hardship, and Becoming a Man
11:02 Conquering Fear: John’s Panic Attack Story
16:55 Stoicism & Overcoming Life’s Hardest Challenges
24:18 Emotional Mastery for Men
31:14 Past Trauma vs Present Responsibility
39:51 Building True Self-Worth
46:54 Where to Find John Sonmez
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Programs for Men Ready to Lead:
Men of War Crucible – A rite of passage, not a retreat: https://www.manofwar.us/
The Odyssey Program – Father-son legacy through challenge: https://www.theodysseyprogram.com/ody…
Private Mentoring Protocol – 1-on-1 elite coaching: https://www.rafajconde.com/
House of Kings Mastermind – For warrior CEOs and legacy builders: https://www.thehouseofkings.com/
MAN of WAR Podcast – Unfiltered truth for modern men.
Explore all: https://www.manofwar.us
Follow Rafa on Instagram: @manofwarr
Facebook: @therealmanofwar
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#masculinity #mindset #stoicism #selfimprovement #mensmentalhealth #manofwar #bulldogmindset #victimmentality #mentoughness #masculineframe
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Why Men Are Lost & How to Fix It | Ep.235 w/ Adam Allred on Confidence & Leadership
Most men today are struggling not because they’re weak, but because they’ve been programmed to fail.
In this powerful conversation, Adam Allred breaks down:
• Why toxic messaging to men is destroying confidence
• How to reprogram your mind to win
• Why stacking daily wins builds real self-respect
• The truth about leadership in the home & relationships
• How to find your purpose & live with honor
This episode isn’t theory it’s real-world wisdom for men who want to reclaim their strength, confidence, and purpose.
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Takeaways:
• Confidence starts with self-respect
• Leadership begins by leading yourself
• Your purpose is to level up every day
• Stop blaming own your life
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Chapters:
00:00 – Intro & Adam’s background
02:11 – The toxic messaging destroying masculinity
05:12 – Why men fail to take action
07:18 – Reprogramming your mind for success
10:11 – Building confidence by stacking wins
14:11 – The power of a morning routine
18:00 – Leadership in the home & respect in relationships
30:45 – Reigniting the fire in soft men
39:01 – Extreme accountability & stopping self-deception
41:14 – Honor, integrity & keeping your word
44:12 – Finding purpose & leveling up as a man
46:03 – Where to follow Adam Allred
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Hashtags: #masculinity #selfimprovement #leadership #confidence #mensmentalhealth #discipline #mindset #purpose
Every episode, Rafa J. Conde, a combat-proven law enforcement veteran, combatives expert, and unapologetic leadership coach, reveals what it truly takes to become a Tier 1 man. This show goes beyond surface-level motivation and exposes how modern warriors are built. How they think, how they live, and how they lead in every area of life, from combat to business to fatherhood.
You’ll hear raw, unfiltered stories from elite performers. Men who have faced adversity head-on and emerged stronger. These conversations will dismantle your excuses and equip you with the mindset, discipline, and confidence needed to become the warrior you were meant to be.