If I Speak

* Last call for our show at Crossed Wires in Sheffield this Saturday, 4th July! Final tickets: https://crossedwires.live *

A brush with an old enemy brings up big questions about letting go and moving on. What does forgiveness really mean in a secular society? Is punishment ever the answer? Plus: advice for a special one who fears they’ve outgrown their 15-year relationship.

Send us your dilemmas: ifispeak@novaramedia.com

Music by Matt Huxley.

* We’ll be at Crossed Wires festival in Sheffield on 4th July! Final tickets: https://crossedwires.live *

‘Tis the season! Moya and Ash explore the etiquette of the modern wedding, from cringey hen do to lavish ceremony to nightmare groupchat. And how does anyone afford it?! Plus: are we expecting too much from single straight men?

Send us your dilemmas: ifispeak@novaramedia.com

Music by Matt Huxley.

* We’ll be at Crossed Wires festival in Sheffield on 4th July! Final tickets: https://crossedwires.live *

Moya has a big theory about why wealthy elites seem to have stopped caring about culture, which leads to wondering if addiction and dependency are the best framework for understanding modern society. Plus: when you’re body-shamed by a much younger hook-up.

Send us your dilemmas: ifispeak@novaramedia.com

Music by Matt Huxley.

* Come to see us at Crossed Wires in Sheffield on 4th July! https://crossedwires.live *

Moya tunes into the background hum of money worries. Does our upbringing predict our attitude to finances? And does more money always equal more freedom? Plus: when to let go of a long-term romantic hangup.

Send us your dilemmas: ifispeak@novaramedia.com

Music by Matt Huxley.

* Come to see us at Crossed Wires in Sheffield on 4th July! https://crossedwires.live *

Ash talks to Moya about falling birth rates and the ‘crisis of association’ that’s stopping people from connecting with each other. It’s a big theory that touches on trust issues, getting offline and the coming backlash. Plus: a dilemma about financial infidelity.

(Sorry about the banging. It’s builders outside Ash’s window.)

Send us your dilemmas: ifispeak@novaramedia.com

Music by Matt Huxley.