If I Speak

The girl boss is back – and this time she’s working class, mixed race and fully therapised. Moya asks Ash how we should make sense of Skims entrepreneur Emma Grede and the success of her book, Start With Yourself. Plus: which fantasy archetype are you?

Come to see us at Crossed Wires in Sheffield on 4th July! Tickets available here: https://crossedwires.live

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Music by Matt Huxley.

Moya and Ash answer a mystery question about why so many people are going ‘no contact’ with their parents. How do our elders understand this epidemic of estrangement? Plus: How to deal with a jealous ex-boyfriend who lives down the road.

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Music by Matt Huxley.

Ash went to the Songkran water fight in Thailand and now has a few questions about health and safety culture. Where do we draw the line between personal safety and freedom to take risks? Plus: should you chase a holiday romance?

Come to see us at Crossed Wires in Sheffield on 4th July! Tickets available here: https://crossedwires.live

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Music by Matt Huxley.

Ash and Moya are reunited and ready to answer a mystery question, inspired by Lena Dunham’s memoir Famesick: do we need more women mentors? Plus: a homesick ex-pat struggling to stay in contact with his family.

Come to see us at Crossed Wires in Sheffield on 4th July! Tickets available now: https://crossedwires.live

Send us your dilemmas: [email protected]

Music by Matt Huxley.

With the manosphere back in the headlines, we’re republishing our 2024 interview with the authors of Clown World – the book that exposed Andrew Tate’s cult-like grip on young men around the world. Jamie Tahsin and Matt Shea explain how they infiltrated Tate’s inner circle and what they found inside.

Ash and Moya will be back from their well-earned break next week. Send us dilemmas: [email protected]

Remember our show in Sheffield is coming up on 4th July. Tickets: https://crossedwires.live

Music by Matt Huxley.