It’s Pride Month, and with everything going on in the world right now, it feels especially important to pause and reflect.
In this special panel discussion episode, Reno Johnston is joined by three incredible guests—Mark Fleming, Keone Wales, and Jordan Layne—for a candid panel discussion on the meaning of Pride: where it began, how it’s evolved, and what it means to each of us today. Together, they explore questions like:
What does Pride mean to you?
What was your first Pride experience?
How has Pride changed since then?
What would you like Pride to become?
This conversation isn’t a history lesson or a debate. It's an open, honest sharing of lived experience. Whether you’re a seasoned activist or celebrating your first Pride, we invite you to reflect alongside us and consider what Pride means to you, not just this month, but all year round.
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Are LGBTQ Rights Under Attack?
In 2025, LGBTQ rights are facing renewed challenges- from the rise of far-right populism to legislative rollbacks and the rise of hate sweeping across the globe. But how serious is the threat? And if the fight is back on… are we ready?
This week, Michael is joined by author and longtime activist, Tim McCaskell, who’s been on the front lines of LGBTQ+ resistance for over five decades. From the bathhouse raids to the fight for AIDS treatment and beyond, Tim brings deep historical context and lived experience to the conversation.
Together, they explore what activism looks like in 2025, whether we’ve grown too comfortable, how activism has changed over the decades, and most importantly, what we need to do to show up and fight for our future.
Today's Guest: Tim McCaskell
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Has Pride Lost Its Meaning?
In today’s episode, we’re diving into a question many in our community have been quietly (or loudly) asking: Has Pride lost its meaning?
In this wide-ranging conversation, we reflect on how Pride has evolved from its radical roots in activism to its present-day celebratory scene shaped by media, politics, and corporate sponsorships. We talk about what’s been gained, what’s been lost, and what still needs to be reclaimed.
Some topics we explore:
The impact of corporatization and rainbow capitalism
How we’d reimagine Pride moving forward
The meaning Pride has for us personally
The importance of making Pride more inclusive for those still on the margins
The role media plays in shaping what Pride looks and feels like
How far our rights have come… and how fragile they still are
Whether you love Pride, feel disconnected from it, or land somewhere in between, this episode is an invitation to reflect, reimagine, and reconnect with what Pride means to you in 2025.
Today's Hosts:
Michael DiIorio
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Dating as a Demisexual
In this episode, Matt speaks with a panel of demisexual gay men about their experiences dating as demisexuals. What we want you to get out of this episode is greater awareness of yourself if you are demisexual, and to know you are not alone. We want to share our own experiences in the hope that you can learn ways to thrive as a demisexual. If you are not demisexual, this episode will offer you a greater understanding of demisexual men you might come across in dating. We also share helpful, practical dating advice, so stick with us until the end of the episode.
The concepts and questions we explore in this episode are:
How did you discover you’re demisexual?
What has been challenging for you about dating as a demisexual?
Where have you found success when it comes to dating as a demisexual?
What advice do you have for other demisexual men who might be struggling in their dating lives?
Related Episode:
Demisexuality: What is it?
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Andre-Lee Wills
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Ron Fisher
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Why Are Gay Friendships So Hard?
For many gay men, friendship is complicated, performative, and sometimes downright painful. We crave genuine connection but end up navigating cliques, comparison, and quiet loneliness.
In this episode, Michael and Pepper are doing an exposé on gay friendships to unpack what’s really going on beneath the surface and why so many gay friendships fall short of the depth and safety we actually want.
We’re breaking it down in three parts:
The Pretty Lies: Performative friendship, superficiality, and toxic group dynamics
The Ugly Truth: How shame, fear, and survival strategies get in the way of true friendship
True Friendship: What fun, nourishing gay friendship looks like and how we can build it
This episode is your invitation to shift from followers to friendship, and from competition to collaboration—and start building real connection.
Related Episodes:
Making Friends (Introvert Edition)
How to Make Friends with Gay Men
Today's Guest: Pepper Rojas
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Gay Men Going Deeper is a weekly podcast that showcases raw and real conversations about personal development, mental health, and sexuality - from an unapologetically gay perspective.
Hosted by Matt Landsiedel and Michael DiIorio, and featuring a wide range of special guests, you can expect to be inspired, entertained, and even a little triggered from time to time.
This provocative podcast is for anyone who craves deeper conversations on topics ranging from spirituality to sexuality - and everything in between.
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