Stop Shrinking, Start Living with Christina Aaliyah

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Why Relationships Confuse Men (2025)
0:00 Intro1:40 Vulnerability is a superpower7:05 My dating story10:52 The invisible workload placed on women15:27 Women feel objectified21:24 Men want to feel needed, women want to feel chosen.In 2025, men and women approach dating so differently, I asked you guys what are some things men need to understand more about women… and you came through with your responses.In this video we’re unpacking why dating confuses men, what are some of the things men need to be aware of when it comes to relationships, how men can empathtise and understand the struggle of women in dating + much more.Comment down below what are some things you think were missed 👇🏽And comment down below what are some things women need to understand more about men?Attached by Adam Levine book https://amzn.to/3ILlb8w
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Why You Feel Behind In Your 20s
⭐️ FREE Value Gap Workbook grab yours here https://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.com/vgwWe’re told that success will make us happy, but for many high achievers, it does the opposite. In this video, I uncover the hidden cost of ambition: the burnout, loneliness, and loss of identity that come when your worth is tied to achievement.From perfectionism to imposter syndrome, we’ll explore why “doing more” never feels like enough and how to find peace in a world that rewards constant productivity. If you’ve ever felt exhausted by your own goals, this one’s for you.It’s time to redefine success, not as constant striving, but as finally feeling enough.📖The 6 Pillars of Self Esteem *purchase here → https://amzn.to/499CZEXTimestamps0:00 - Intro3:17 - You are fluent in the language of fear4:53 - Pseudo self-esteem8:36 - Outrunning the shame we have about ourselves11:23 - Fear will always run faster than you16:07 - Unmet needs18:54 - The almost done trap19:54 - Worshipping your fruits 👯 discordjoin here → https://discord.gg/CuZrjBR4Dn⭐️ free 'Cringe to Confident' workbook grab yours here https://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.com/ctc📖 my ebookGrab 'Stop Shrinking Start Living' here → https://christina-aaliyah.com/🌱 sign up to my newsletterhttps://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.com/newsletter💌 contact: [email protected]*affiliate link, I make a small commission at no extra cost to you :) Thank you for supporting the channel!
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The Problem With Female Friendships (Men Don't Get It)
what do you think? lmk in the comments!
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Burnout Isn’t the End, It’s the Beginning of Real Success
This is a different video for me 👀Today, I sat down with Sophie Ash, an intuitive business coach and founder of Prospology, we unpacked some of Invisible weight so many of us carry: people-pleasing, tying our worth to productivity, ignoring our emotions until burnout hits, and struggling to feel safe choosing our own path.We talk about:• Breaking the cycle of self-sacrifice and overworking• How childhood patterns secretly drive our adult choices• Learning to self-soothe and feel safe instead of chasing external validation• Redefining success so it’s aligned with you, not hustle culture• Building real confidence and self-trust without burning outIf you’ve been stuck in survival mode, doubting your value, or chasing accomplishments that don’t feel fulfilling when you get them — this episode will give you a calmer, kinder way forward.Subscribe if you want more honest conversations about mental health, career pressure, burnout recovery and building a life that actually feels good.Follow Sophie here:Prospology IG: https://www.instagram.com/prospology/Sophie IG: https://www.instagram.com/sophieashofficial/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sophieash/Prospology: https://prospology.com/00:00:00 – Intro00:02:45 – What “grounded” actually means 00:03:55 – Early burnout signs & quick grounding00:06:43 – Is burnout avoidable?00:08:30 – Urgent vs Important: self-awareness first00:11:44 – How to break the self-sabotage cycle00:15:08 – Goals without suffering or pressure00:23:30 – Practical vs emotional healing (band-aid vs root)00:24:02 – Habits & identity: why change feels hard00:27:16 – Know your needs so others can support you00:29:52 – The post-goal “anti-climax” & redefining success00:31:10 – Authenticity & alignment (“What else could it be?”)00:36:14 – Intuition vs self-doubt: telling the difference00:38:20 – If you felt safe: how would you act/feel?00:41:50 – Where self-worth actually comes from00:43:51 – What Sophie’s working on now00:44:06 – Coaching & channels (business vs personal)01:09:26 – Success as alignment with yourself01:10:36 – Practising pride (being proud of yourself)01:16:11 – Closing reflections
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Men Are Choosing AI... Over Real Women
AI relationships... Let's talks about it.I know it's easy to see AI relationships as gross and sleazy, but tbh I kinda feel bad.For the people that have to resort them, as a girl who struggled with severe loneliness a few years ago, I can't even imagine what I woul dhave done if I hadn't come out of my shell and learnt to meet new peopleI think there's a lot more going on that just disgusting and fetishy relationships, in this video I wanted to speak on the complexities that go into why people seek out AI relationships and what this means for men, women and the future...0:00 intro2:56 The Cost4:48 Why7:30 AI won’t reject you9:48 My boyfriend is AI12:01 People are still lonely14:44 Taking the pressure off of women18:14 The real problem⭐️ free 'Cringe to Confident' workbook grab yours here https://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.com/ctc📖 my ebookGrab 'Stop Shrinking Start Living' here → https://christina-aaliyah.com/🌱 sign up to my newsletterhttps://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.com/newsletter💌 contact: [email protected]
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