Unwineding

“Women have a difficult time keeping the guys they like around and men have a hard time getting the girls they want.” 

Ok ladies, we’re revisiting one of my favorite episodes with dating coach & content creator, Ben Hart! Don’t tell him, but he’s one of my favorite voices in the dating space—I find his advice direct, fun, practical, and incredibly honest (which is what we sometimes don’t want but absolutely need). 

Think of this episode as your guide to modern dating—we’re exploring the messy, sometimes confusing early stages where most of us (hi, women who unfortunately date men) start to lose our power. We get into how dating content overload is making us over-intellectualize everything, why we’re obsessed with templates and rules, and what actually matters more than counting the hours between his texts.

We talk: • why we’re all over-consuming dating advice and under-listening to how we actually feel • the difference between being strategic vs. being hyper-tactical and counting every minute between texts • “matching energy,” reacting to his every move, and how that quietly gives your power away • why texting makes us *lose our minds* sometimes • how men are thinking about vulnerability • the art of FLIRTING (and how to get approached out in the wild) • worthiness, self-respect, and identity shifts for the relationship you want

If you want to feel more confident, more calm, and more in your power during the early stages of dating (and beyond), this episode is going to be your new best friend. As always, take whatever you needed today & leave the rest. LOVE YOU. x

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Your glow-up doesn't need another supplement... or does it?

This week, I'm unwineding with Doctor of Pharmacy and wellness creator Ariana Medizade for a conversation that completely challenged the way I think about health, supplements, stress, and what it actually means to feel good.

I asked Ariana which wellness trends she loves (& which should go away), the truth about supplements, peptides, cortisol, energy drinks (this one hurt me), GLP-1s, and why more information doesn’t always make us healthier.

We also get into something I think so many women can relate to: the pressure to optimize EVERYTHING. From tracking every calorie and macro to chasing the "perfect" wellness routine, we explore how easy it is to lose yourself in the pursuit of being healthy—and how to find a more sustainable middle ground.

We also chat:

• cortisol, stress & women's health• supplements that are worth it (and which ones aren't)• peptides, GLP-1s & wellness trends• energy drinks, caffeine & ADHD• healthy habits that are secretly hurting you• the problem with wellness culture online• creating a routine that actually fits your life• confidence, self-trust & the real meaning of a glow-up

As always, take whatever you need from this conversation and leave the rest. LOVE YOU. x

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Why do so many ambitious women still feel like they’re behind… even when they’re doing everything “right”?

In this episode, I’m opening up about ambition, perfectionism, self-worth, productivity, purpose, burnout, and the pressure to constantly become “more.” After one very honest conversation sent me into a spiral about fulfillment and identity, I started questioning pretty much everything. Remy (my podcast engineer and beautiful friend) joins me to chat about the psychology behind high achievement, the emotional weight of never feeling like you’ve done enough, and where I might be looking for bandaids instead of going deeper.

I also talk about:

• perfectionism & fear of failure• burnout, ambition & identity• wanting more purpose & meaningful work• self-worth tied to achievement• the pressure to constantly be productive• taking action before feeling ready• building a life that actually feels fulfilling

& more. I hope there’s something in this episode you needed (and if you feel identified, DM so we can chat. I’d literally love that). See you next week. xx

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Our favorite (& hottest) comedian bestie is back for another round of dating & friendship advice.

Zack Signore and I are talking love languages, emotionally unavailable men, chaotic friendships, mushroom ceremonies, attachment issues, open relationships, and the psychological warfare that is modern dating.

Zack and I were in a MOOD for this episode so you're welcome, good luck, and we love you. ENJOY. x

MORE ZACK ON UNWINEDING:

A comprehensive guide to falling in love ft. Zack Signore

How to meet your first husband ft. Zack Signore

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I love when you guys send me friendship questions because sometimes they inspire full episodes—like today’s. It’s just us this week, and I’m sharing my thoughts on this submission: “Is it normal for friendships to feel more transactional as you get older? Like everyone’s busy and it starts to feel like you’re scheduling each other in?”

We’re talking about friendship maintenance, changing dynamics in adulthood, one-sided friendships, emotional bandwidth, and why effort (and yes, even scheduling) in friendship isn’t a bad thing whatsoever. I also share my thoughts on adapting to different seasons of life, outgrowing certain friendships, and what healthy adult friendship actually looks like.

If friendship has felt different lately—or you’ve been struggling with the discomfort of changing dynamics as you grow up—I hope this episode makes you feel a little less alone. As always, take whatever resonates and leave the rest. LOVE YOU.

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