Squiggly Careers

How do you get people to actually listen — and say yes — more often? In this Squiggly Shortcut, Helen shares three simple, research-backed ways to become more influential at work. Whether you're trying to get an idea across, shift an outcome, or build stronger working relationships, this episode will give you practical things you can do both in the moment and over time.

🎯 What You'll Learn

Why mirroring language (not just body language) is a subtle but powerful way to build connection– How likability works as a persuasion tool — and why it's less about being smiley and more about genuinely listening– Why reciprocity is a long game, and how to think about what you have to give

📚 Resources Mentioned

Influence with Robert CialdiniFor questions about Squiggly Careers or to share feedback, please email: [email protected]

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What does it actually take to go from good to great at work — and is "mastery" even the right word for it?

In this episode, Helen and Sarah borrow brilliance from The Big Think's collection of articles on mastery, and make it feel a lot more relevant to everyday squiggly careers than the word itself might suggest.

They explore two big ideas: how to master your response to tricky situations (think: the passive aggressive Canva comment, the "I'll just do it" default, or the unexpected tears in a meeting), and how to master your ability to succeed — including how elite athletes think about risk and failure in a way that's surprisingly useful for anyone with an ambitious goal.

🎯 What You'll Learn

How to move from a default response to a deliberate decision — and why that space in between is everything– What elite athletes do differently when things go wrong (and how to apply it to your own goals)– Why naming your version of success — and stress-testing the risks — makes you more likely to actually get there– How to reframe failure as a data point rather than a verdict on you

📚 Resources Mentioned

The Big Think newsletter

The Big Think — Mastery collection

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90% of us think we're good listeners — but we retain about 20% of what we hear. In this Squiggly Shortcut, Sarah shares five practical ways to close that listening gap, starting with the one thing most of us never even notice.
🎯 What You'll Learn
– Why listening isn't just about words — and what to pay attention to instead
– How the pressure to respond is the biggest enemy of good listening
– Why repeating back the words someone uses can unlock a whole new conversation
– What a no-interruption meeting feels like — and why it's worth trying with your team
– The simple summarising habit that will make you a noticeably better listener overnight
📚 Resources Mentioned
Episode 319 — Listening with Kate Murphy
You can also find Kate Murphy's book I Never Said I Was a Good Listener via your usual bookshop.
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What if the way you read could transform how much you actually learn, remember and use? In this episode, Helen and Sarah borrow brilliance from Ryan Holiday's video How to Read Like a Pro — and add a few rules of their own.
From building an anti-library (the books you'd never normally pick up) to treating your books like they're meant to be used, not preserved, this is a practical and personal exploration of how to get more from your reading. Helen also unveils her new Post-it® Note system, and there's a genuine debate about whether folding a page corner is an act of ownership or an act of disrespect.
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🎯 What You'll Learn
– What an anti-library is and why reading outside your comfort zone changes how you think
– How to read with a pen and Post-it® Notes in a way that actually sticks
– Why rereading a book you love can be more valuable than picking up a new one
– The five rules for reading nonfiction more intentionally — plus Helen and Sarah's personal additions
– Books Helen and Sarah would both reread and recommend right now
📚 Resources Mentioned
How to Read Like a Pro — Ryan Holiday (please swap in direct link if you have it)
Unreasonable Hospitality — Will Guidara
Right Kind Wrong — Amy Edmondson
Uncharted — Margaret Heffernan
The Wonder Box — Roman Krznaric
Mash-Up — Ian Sanders
How to Have a Good Day — Caroline Webb
The First 90 Days — Michael D. Watkins
Essentialism — Greg McKeown
Toby Sinclair on LinkedIn
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Does work feel a bit knotty right now? In this Squiggly Shortcut, Helen shares three practical ways to find your footing when everything around you feels uncertain — whether that's a restructure, a shifting role, or just the general noise of a complicated economic moment.
🎯 What You'll Learn
– Why focusing on what you do know is the best antidote to feeling overwhelmed by what you don't
– How to use uncertainty as a trigger for learning — and how to build a simple learning list that puts you back in control
– Why "mental time travel" — fast forwarding 12 months into the future — can help you get unstuck and decide what to do differently right now
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