Engineering Love is a podcast about relationships, where Kim helps you engineer a stronger relationship by troubleshooting conflict and communication. Whether i...
Avoidant Partners Who Shut Down, Self-Doubt and Confidence, & Depression in a Relationship - EL009
Welcome to "Engineering Love," a relationship podcast where Kim helps you build better connections by troubleshooting communication and conflict resolution. This episode highlights these questions: Q1: How do I move to a more secure attachment style? How do I communicate with my avoidant partner? Q2: How do I handle self-doubt and build confidence? Q3: What are relationship tips for partners who both struggle with depression? Kim's next virtual workshop: How to Manage Guilt & Shame. To register or watch the replay: https://beacons.ai/kimpolinder To work with me in an affordable way, join my private membership community where you’ll get access to ALL past and current workshops, exclusive video Q&A not posted on social media, journal prompts, and live chats with me to address any other challenges you’re working through. Sign up here: https://engineering-love.mn.co/spaces/11088591 Kim's website: https://beacons.ai/kimpolinder Kim's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kp_counseling/ Kim's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kp_counseling108 Kim's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kp_counseling108 Submit a question for the podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/KimPolinder Podcast website: https://www.engineeringlovepodcast.com/
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Trauma Bonds, Dating a Serial Cheater, & Drawing Boundaries with In-Laws - EL008
Welcome to "Engineering Love," a relationship podcast where Kim helps you build better connections by troubleshooting communication and conflict resolution. This episode highlights these questions: Q1: My partner abused me for 8 years and says he has changed. How do I know the change is real? Q2: My boyfriend and I go in cycles where he cheats, acts devastated when caught, we get back together, and then he does it again. Q3: My father-in-law treated me horribly during my postpartum, and now I want to draw boundaries with him before our next child. How do I get my husband on board with this? Kim's next virtual workshop: Healing Betrayals & Infidelity. To register or watch the replay: https://beacons.ai/kimpolinder Are you frustrated that therapy is too expensive or every therapist you pursue has a waiting list? Then come work with me in my private workshop community. In my live virtual workshops, I teach you tools for managing triggers, increasing self-esteem, and improving communication in your relationships! Register now to work with Kim in her live workshops: https://engineering-love.mn.co/share/gqt40jODluLg4kyp?utm_source=manual Kim's website: https://beacons.ai/kimpolinder Kim's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kp_counseling/ Kim's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kp_counseling108 Kim's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kp_counseling108 Submit a question for the podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/KimPolinder Podcast website: https://www.engineeringlovepodcast.com/
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Anxious Attachment, Ultimatums, & the Martyr Complex - EL007
Welcome to "Engineering Love," a relationship podcast where Kim helps you build better connections by troubleshooting communication and conflict resolution. This episode highlights these questions: My partner avoids me and shuts down. How do I handle this being anxiously attached? My partner will not commit to marrying me, even though I communicated marriage being a priority early on. What should I do? I often take on tasks that no one else wants to do, like a martyr, and then feel resentful toward my friends. Where does this come from? Are you frustrated that therapy is too expensive or every therapist you pursue has a waiting list? Then come work with me in my private workshop community. In my live virtual workshops, I teach you tools for managing triggers, increasing self-esteem, and improving communication in your relationships! Register now to work with Kim in her live workshops: https://engineering-love.mn.co/share/gqt40jODluLg4kyp?utm_source=manual Kim's website: https://beacons.ai/kimpolinder Kim's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kp_counseling/ Kim's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kp_counseling108 Kim's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kp_counseling108 Submit a question for the podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/KimPolinder Podcast website: https://www.engineeringlovepodcast.com/
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Self-Sabotage, Grief, & How to Be Empathetic - EL006
Welcome to "Engineering Love," a relationship podcast where Kim helps you build better connections by troubleshooting communication and conflict resolution. This episode highlights these questions: How do I be empathetic with my partner? How do you support someone who is grieving or sad? How do I stop self-sabotaging? To book a complimentary consultation with Mason: https://kim-polinder.clientsecure.me/ Kim's website: https://beacons.ai/kimpolinder Kim's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kp_counseling/ Kim's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kp_counseling108 Kim's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kp_counseling108 Podcast website: https://www.engineeringlovepodcast.com/ Submit a question for the podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/KimPolinder
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How to Draw Boundaries, Keeping the Peace, & Relationship Aggression - EL005
Welcome to Engineering Love, a relationship podcast where Kim helps you build better connections by troubleshooting communication and conflict resolution. This episode highlights these questions: I'm caught in the middle between two people not speaking to each other How can my partner and I prevent microaggressions toward each other? How can I avoid feeling guilty when I draw boundaries? Kim's website: https://beacons.ai/kimpolinder Kim's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kp_counseling/ Kim's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kp_counseling108 Kim's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kp_counseling108 Podcast website: https://www.engineeringlovepodcast.com/ Submit a question for the podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/KimPolinder
Engineering Love is a podcast about relationships, where Kim helps you engineer a stronger relationship by troubleshooting conflict and communication. Whether it's marriage, dating, family, or friendships, this podcast gives you tools to get to the root cause of the issues in your relationships.
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