
Avoidant Partners Who Shut Down, Self-Doubt and Confidence, & Depression in a Relationship - EL009
28/11/2023 | 39 min
Welcome to "Engineering Love," a relationship podcast where Kim helps you build better connections by troubleshooting communication and conflict resolution. This episode highlights these questions: Q1: How do I move to a more secure attachment style? How do I communicate with my avoidant partner? Q2: How do I handle self-doubt and build confidence? Q3: What are relationship tips for partners who both struggle with depression? Kim's next virtual workshop: How to Manage Guilt & Shame. To register or watch the replay: https://beacons.ai/kimpolinder To work with me in an affordable way, join my private membership community where you'll get access to ALL past and current workshops, exclusive video Q&A not posted on social media, journal prompts, and live chats with me to address any other challenges you're working through. Sign up here: https://engineering-love.mn.co/spaces/11088591 Kim's website: https://beacons.ai/kimpolinder Kim's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kp_counseling/ Kim's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kp_counseling108 Kim's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kp_counseling108 Submit a question for the podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/KimPolinder Podcast website: https://www.engineeringlovepodcast.com/

Trauma Bonds, Dating a Serial Cheater, & Drawing Boundaries with In-Laws - EL008
21/7/2023 | 46 min
Welcome to "Engineering Love," a relationship podcast where Kim helps you build better connections by troubleshooting communication and conflict resolution. This episode highlights these questions: Q1: My partner abused me for 8 years and says he has changed. How do I know the change is real? Q2: My boyfriend and I go in cycles where he cheats, acts devastated when caught, we get back together, and then he does it again. Q3: My father-in-law treated me horribly during my postpartum, and now I want to draw boundaries with him before our next child. How do I get my husband on board with this? Kim's next virtual workshop: Healing Betrayals & Infidelity. To register or watch the replay: https://beacons.ai/kimpolinder Are you frustrated that therapy is too expensive or every therapist you pursue has a waiting list? Then come work with me in my private workshop community. In my live virtual workshops, I teach you tools for managing triggers, increasing self-esteem, and improving communication in your relationships! Register now to work with Kim in her live workshops: https://engineering-love.mn.co/share/gqt40jODluLg4kyp?utm_source=manual Kim's website: https://beacons.ai/kimpolinder Kim's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kp_counseling/ Kim's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kp_counseling108 Kim's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kp_counseling108 Submit a question for the podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/KimPolinder Podcast website: https://www.engineeringlovepodcast.com/

Anxious Attachment, Ultimatums, & the Martyr Complex - EL007
01/5/2023 | 49 min
Welcome to "Engineering Love," a relationship podcast where Kim helps you build better connections by troubleshooting communication and conflict resolution. This episode highlights these questions: My partner avoids me and shuts down. How do I handle this being anxiously attached? My partner will not commit to marrying me, even though I communicated marriage being a priority early on. What should I do? I often take on tasks that no one else wants to do, like a martyr, and then feel resentful toward my friends. Where does this come from? Are you frustrated that therapy is too expensive or every therapist you pursue has a waiting list? Then come work with me in my private workshop community. In my live virtual workshops, I teach you tools for managing triggers, increasing self-esteem, and improving communication in your relationships! Register now to work with Kim in her live workshops: https://engineering-love.mn.co/share/gqt40jODluLg4kyp?utm_source=manual Kim's website: https://beacons.ai/kimpolinder Kim's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kp_counseling/ Kim's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kp_counseling108 Kim's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kp_counseling108 Submit a question for the podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/KimPolinder Podcast website: https://www.engineeringlovepodcast.com/

Self-Sabotage, Grief, & How to Be Empathetic - EL006
08/4/2023 | 51 min
Welcome to "Engineering Love," a relationship podcast where Kim helps you build better connections by troubleshooting communication and conflict resolution. This episode highlights these questions: How do I be empathetic with my partner? How do you support someone who is grieving or sad? How do I stop self-sabotaging? To book a complimentary consultation with Mason: https://kim-polinder.clientsecure.me/ Kim's website: https://beacons.ai/kimpolinder Kim's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kp_counseling/ Kim's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kp_counseling108 Kim's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kp_counseling108 Podcast website: https://www.engineeringlovepodcast.com/ Submit a question for the podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/KimPolinder

How to Draw Boundaries, Keeping the Peace, & Relationship Aggression - EL005
19/3/2023 | 23 min
Welcome to Engineering Love, a relationship podcast where Kim helps you build better connections by troubleshooting communication and conflict resolution. This episode highlights these questions: I'm caught in the middle between two people not speaking to each other How can my partner and I prevent microaggressions toward each other? How can I avoid feeling guilty when I draw boundaries? Kim's website: https://beacons.ai/kimpolinder Kim's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kp_counseling/ Kim's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kp_counseling108 Kim's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kp_counseling108 Podcast website: https://www.engineeringlovepodcast.com/ Submit a question for the podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/KimPolinder



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