SoulTalk with Kute Blackson

• 405: The Lie of "Too Late" and The Truth About Divine Timing

  “Your soul doesn’t run on human time. It runs on sacred time.” What if the pressure you feel to “hurry up” and have it all figured out… is based on a lie? In this episode of Soul Talk, I dive into one of the most painful illusions we’ve been taught: the belief that we’re behind in life. Whether it’s love, purpose, abundance, or healing, many of us are carrying a quiet grief. Grieving the timeline we thought we should be on. The milestones we expected to hit by now. The version of life our ego mapped out, but our soul never signed off on. We compare ourselves to others. We ask, “Did I miss my moment?” “Am I too late?” But here’s the truth: You are not late. You are right on time. In this episode, I get real about what it means to trust your soul’s divine timeline, even when things feel delayed, quiet, or unclear. I unpack how societal pressure, ego, and unhealed wounds drive us to rush, to push, to force outcomes. But what if your delay is not denial… but divine preparation? I share personal stories from my journey and powerful spiritual wisdom to help you stop measuring your worth by deadlines or outcomes, and start aligning with the rhythm of your soul, where peace lives, purpose flows, and real miracles unfold. If you’ve ever felt stuck, anxious, or unworthy because your life doesn’t “look” like it’s supposed to, this is your reminder: You are becoming. You are preparing. And the timing of your life is sacred Tune in and learn how to trust your path, reframe your waiting season, and finally release the pressure to be anywhere other than exactly where you are. Timestamps: (00:03:13) -Society’s manufactured timelines and the myth of “being late” (00:04:32) - Why your delay is not a punishment but a preparation (00:06:24) - You cannot miss your destiny or screw up your divine timing (00:07:15) - The difference between linear time and soul time (00:08:26) - Surrender, patience, and divine trust (00:09:26) - Divine delays as protection and preparation (00:10:18) -  A personal story: why Kute wasn’t ready for love in his 20s (00:11:32) - Delay as divine grace and soul alignment (00:12:49) - Stop comparing your journey, trust your own soul’s curriculum (00:13:35) - Delay forces surrender and identity growth (00:15:15) - Reframing your waiting season as strengthening (00:16:06) -  You’re not forgotten, your delay is not denial (00:17:18) -  Why it will all make sense in time (00:18:11) - Don’t settle for “it works”, wait for what’s right (00:19:22) - Trust the unfolding; do not compromise Some questions I ask: Is it too late for me to manifest my dream? How can I stay grounded during long periods of waiting? What if I feel like I’ve missed my moment in life? Why does everyone else seem to be ahead? Can I trust the timing of my life even when nothing makes sense? In this episode, you will learn about: How to break free from the illusion that you’re “running out of time” and start aligning with your soul’s divine timing. Why delay is not denial, but a sacred part of your soul’s preparation for purpose, prosperity, and expansion. The hidden spiritual reasons your dreams may not have manifested yet, and how to shift from frustration to faith and flow. What secure, grounded love actually feels like so you can attract healthy, lasting relationships. How to trust the unfolding of your journey and surrender control so you can receive abundance, love, clarity, and fulfillment in the right season. The difference between ego timelines and soul alignment, and how to know which one you’re living by. Practical mindset shifts to help you stay grounded, patient, and purposeful while life prepares you for what you’ve prayed for. Get in Touch: Email me at [email protected] Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com   Resources with Kute Blackson: Kute’s Life-changing Path to Abundance & Miracles: https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com   Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW: https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com                

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• 404: Arielle Ford on Everything You’ve Been Told About Love is Wrong(And This Truth Will Set You Free)

  "Asking a man with no arms to hold you, that’s what it’s like to expect love from someone who doesn’t know how." What if the greatest block to love… isn’t your past, but the story you’ve been told about what love is supposed to be? In this raw and revelatory episode of Soul Talk, I sit down with Arielle Ford—bestselling author and spiritual teacher—for a soul-stirring conversation about what it really means to love and be loved. Together, we peel back the illusions that keep so many of us stuck in cycles of pain, confusion, or longing. From the myth that love should always feel magical, to the hard truths about emotional safety, forgiveness, and self-worth, Arielle shares relationship wisdom that cuts straight to the soul. We also explore her re-released romantic spiritual thriller The Love Thief—and how fiction can sometimes reveal truth in ways real life can’t. This episode is a deep invitation to let go of the fantasies, release the old stories, and step into the kind of sacred partnership that’s built on truth, not just chemistry. If you've ever felt disappointed in love, struggled to let go of betrayal, or wondered if your soulmate will ever arrive… this conversation will crack your heart open in the best possible way. Tune in and discover the love your soul has been waiting for. Timestamps:  (00:03:42) - The biggest myth about love: “Love is not a feeling.” (00:05:07) - What to look for in a partner. (00:08:30) - The spiritual purpose of relationships and why it’s not intuitive. (00:13:09) - The “Aging U Curve” and what to expect at different life stages. (00:14:05) - Wabi-Sabi love and the toothpaste metaphor. (00:22:44) - How to heal from heartbreak and betrayal. (00:27:50) - The “Love Detox” method to get over toxic partners. (00:30:56) - Why healthy love might feel boring (and why that’s okay). (00:34:16) - Can infidelity be healed? When to stay or walk away. (00:36:36) - Arielle’s 3-minute emotional healing mirror practice. (00:42:21) - Rituals and touchpoints that keep love alive in long-term partnership. Some Questions I Ask: What are the biggest myths we believe about love? How can someone heal from heartbreak? Can love exist without strong feelings or attraction? How do you know if someone is your soulmate? Is it ever possible to heal after betrayal or infidelity? How can we keep the spark alive in long-term relationships? What’s the line between attraction and emotional safety? In This Episode, You Will Learn:  Why real love is the gateway to lasting fulfillment, not fleeting feelings The surprising truth about emotional safety and how it fuels abundant relationships How to stop chasing chemistry and start choosing soul-aligned partnerships What Wabi-Sabi love teaches us about imperfect beauty and true connection A powerful self-forgiveness practice to reclaim your power and open to prosperity in love How to detox from heartbreak and raise your vibration for divine romance Simple rituals to reignite intimacy and create a foundation for lifelong joy.   LINKS ARIELLE FORD’S URL:  https://www.arielleford.com PRE-ORDER ARIELLE FORD’S NEW BOOK:  https://www.arielleford.com/the-love-thief/ ARIELLE FORD’S PREVIOUS SOUL TALK EPISODE:  https://kuteblackson.com/special-exclusive-interview-with-best-selling-author-arielle-ford/   Get in Touch: Email me at [email protected] Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com Free masterclass: Learn the Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible  Barriers to Attracting the Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW:  https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com            

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• 403: Real Love vs Trauma Bonding: How To Tell The Difference And Heal

  "Just because it feels intense does not mean it's love. Sometimes it’s simply your wounds shaking hands."  What if the intense connection you keep chasing… isn’t actually love? In this powerful episode of SoulTalk, I dive deep into the difference between true, soul-aligned love — and trauma bonding disguised as passion. So many of us have been conditioned to equate emotional chaos with chemistry. But real love? It doesn’t spike your anxiety. It soothes it. I break down how early wounds shape our patterns in relationships, why we confuse familiarity with fate, and how the nervous system plays a hidden role in who we’re drawn to. I’ll also share personal stories, raw truth, and grounded spiritual insights to help you recognize when you’re stuck in a trauma loop — and how to finally break free. If you’ve ever asked: “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of relationship?” “Why does love feel so exhausting?” …this episode will give you clarity — and a path to healing. You’ll learn how to rewire your nervous system, reconnect with your inner child, and feel the difference between drama and devotion. This isn’t about blame. It’s about liberation. Tune in now and discover what real, healthy, soul-nourishing love actually feels like — and how to stop calling chaos your soulmate. Timestamps:  (00:03:36) - Why Intensity Isn’t Always Love. (00:06:32) - Nervous System Conditioning: Why We Choose Familiar Pain. (00:09:01) - What a Trauma Bond Really Feels Like. (00:12:07) - The Truth: Trauma Bond ≠ Love. (00:14:10) - Real-Life Story: Kute’s Experience Meeting His Wife. (00:16:44) - How to Recognize Real Love. And What it's not. (00:20:11) - Reparenting: Healing the Inner Child. (00:21:18) - Breaking the Cortisol Loop and Restoring Safety. (00:25:39) - When Ordinary Moments Feel Sacred. Some questions I ask:  Is the love you feel calming or chaotic? Are you truly in love or addicted to feeling wanted? How can you tell if you’re stuck in a trauma loop disguised as passion? Why does love have to be hard? Is your “type” truly your preference or just your nervous system’s conditioning? In this episode, you will learn about:  How to recognize the difference between real love and trauma bonding to stop confusing emotional chaos for a soul connection. Why intense chemistry isn't always true love and how your nervous system may be drawn to familiar pain. The key signs that you're trapped in a trauma loop and how to break free from toxic relationship patterns. What secure, grounded love feels like, so you can attract healthy, lasting relationships. How to reparent your inner child to heal emotional wounds and stop choosing emotionally unavailable partners. Powerful tools to calm your nervous system and create the safety needed to experience real intimacy. Get in Touch: Email me at [email protected] Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com   Resources with Kute Blackson: Kute’s Life-changing Path to Abundance & Miracles: https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com   Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW: https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com                      

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• 402: Debra Silverman on How to Align with Your Soul’s Blueprint and Change Your Destiny

  “You can evolve your destiny. That’s why we study astrology, to take the high road of your nature.” What if the reason you're stuck, frustrated, or forcing life… isn’t because something’s wrong with you — but because you’re out of alignment with your soul’s true design?  In this powerful episode of Soul Talk, I’m joined by renowned astrologer, psychotherapist, and spiritual teacher Debra Silverman, author of I Don’t Believe in Astrology. Together, we explore how astrology isn’t about superstition or prediction — it’s about gaining deep permission to be who you were always meant to be. Debra breaks down how your rising sign reveals the keys to your destiny, the real difference between fate and free will, and what happens when you ignore your soul’s contract. We talk about the signs of misalignment, why burnout and confusion are often spiritual wake-up calls, and how reconnecting with your unique energetic blueprint can unlock greater clarity, peace, and purpose. This conversation will give you a radically compassionate lens to understand yourself and others. You’ll walk away with practical insights into how to stop chasing, forcing, and second-guessing—and instead start trusting your inner compass, living in sync with divine timing, and aligning with the life your soul intended. If you’ve ever felt like you're doing everything “right” but something still feels off… this episode is for you. Timestamps:  (00:01:42) - Debra’s background and her new book: I Don’t Believe in Astrology. (00:03:30) - What is astrology, and how much of life is destined? (00:04:30) - Kute’s full moon birth chart reading live on air. (00:07:00) - Free will vs soul contract explained through the rising sign. (00:14:50) - Understanding the Saturn Return and its role in destiny. (00:19:50) - Navigating tragedy and suffering (Gaza, illness, injustice). (00:23:01) - Why some people succeed and others don’t, destiny vs discipline. (00:26:10) - How to activate your destiny line practically. (00:35:00) - Debra's magical story of meeting Sting and trusting intuition. (00:38:30) - Kute shares how intuition led him to meet his wife. (00:41:55) - If you feel lost: practical actions to realign with your soul. (00:43:55) - Debra’s honest astrological forecast for the future of humanity. (00:46:00) - Debra’s school and how you can learn to read your chart. Some Questions I Ask: What exactly is astrology, and how much does it define our lives? Can you change your destiny, or is it fixed? How can someone know they’re on their soul’s path? Is suffering (like illness or global tragedy) predestined? What separates people who succeed from those who don’t? Can you shift your timeline? What role does discipline play in spiritual evolution? In This Episode, You Will Learn:  How your birth chart reveals the keys to your personality, purpose, and prosperity. Which parts of your life are divinely scripted and which are yours to shape with conscious intention. What is the sun, and how your sun and rising signs hold the secret to living with power, purpose, and peace. How to say yes to your divine path, even when it challenges logic or comfort. How consistency, gratitude, and integrity are key to activating your destiny and calling in your abundance. Grounded, practical tools to reconnect with your inner wisdom and open the flow of guidance. A real-world example of what happens when you trust the voice of your soul.    LINKS DEBRA SILVERMAN’S URL:  https://debrasilvermanastrology.com Get in Touch: Email me at [email protected] Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com Resources with Kute Blackson: Free masterclass: Learn the Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attracting the Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW:  https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com                      

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• 401: How to Navigate the Void: When You’re Not Who You Were, But Not Yet Who You’re Becoming

  "You must resist the temptation to go back and to cling to what you know because it's comfortable". What do you do when nothing makes sense anymore, when you’ve let go of who you were but haven’t yet become who you’re meant to be? In this powerful episode of Soul Talk, I explore the void, that sacred, often painful space between life chapters where transformation is quietly unfolding. Maybe you feel stuck, tired, uninspired, or disconnected. You're not broken. You're not lost. You're simply in the space between stories. I’ll guide you through how to embrace the unknown, trust the timing of your soul, and stop forcing clarity before it’s ready. The void is not the end, it’s the sacred pause before the beginning. Tune in and learn how to navigate the void with grace, surrender, and trust, so you can emerge renewed, realigned, and ready for your next level. Timestamps: (00:05:34) - What is the void, and why does it feel so terrifying. (00:07:25) - The ego’s temptation to cling to the familiar. (00:09:47) - The void as a sacred space of transition. (00:12:09) - Differentiating the void from depression, burnout, or failure. (00:15:10) - The void is not a punishment, it’s a portal. (00:17:05) -  Why the void is so intense: ego panic, identity loss, warped time. (00:18:08) -  The nervous system’s reset and transformation during the void. (00:20:34) - Practical steps to navigate the void: rest, grieve, feel. (00:23:59) - Deepening your spiritual practice during the void. (00:25:37) - The void is not the end, it’s the space before the beginning. Some questions I ask:  What is the void, and why is it such a sacred yet uncomfortable space? Why do we resist the void, and what happens when we try to rush through it? How can we navigate the void with trust, grace, and spiritual depth? What are the practical steps we can take when we’re “in between” lives? In this episode, you will learn about:  What “the void” really is, and why it’s one of the most sacred and transformational spaces in your life. Why the void can feel terrifying, confusing, or unproductive, and how to navigate it without losing yourself. How to resist the ego’s urge to cling to the past or rush into action just to feel safe. Why the void is not a punishment or failure, but a powerful pause where your soul rewires and resets. How to honor the emotions that arise in the void, grief, confusion, fatigue, and process them with compassion. A simple 3-minute daily technique Kute uses to rewire the subconscious and raise your vibration. How surrendering to the unknown blows your true self. Get in Touch: Email me at [email protected] Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com   Resources with Kute Blackson: Kute’s Life-changing Path to Abundance & Miracles: https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW: https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com    

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