Sexology

Welcome to Episode 486 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Juliane Maxwald who speaks to me about understanding our sexual symptoms as deeper unconscious communications.
 
In this episode, we talk about how sexual problems are rarely just about sex. In this day and age, people are always looking for a quick fix or a medical solution to their personal problems. Julianne beautifully explains that symptoms like low desire or trouble getting an erection are often our bodies telling us about deeper emotional needs, unresolved trauma, or hidden worries. 
 
Juliane Maxwald, MA, LP, CST, is a licensed psychoanalyst, couples therapist and AASECT-certified sex therapist based in New York City. She has over fifteen years of experience working with individuals and couples across a wide range of concerns, including sexuality and intimacy, trauma, addiction and compulsive behaviors, mood and anxiety disorders, and relational and family-of-origin dynamics.
 
Her work is grounded in contemporary psychoanalysis and informed by trauma theory, somatic awareness, and relational, sex-positive frameworks. Juliane specializes in helping people move beyond symptom-focused treatment—whether the symptom shows up as sexual difficulty, burnout, overwork, emotional numbing, or relational conflict—and toward a deeper understanding of the unconscious patterns shaping their lives.
 
In this episode, you will hear:
 
·      Reconceptualizing Sexual Dysfunction as Emotional Communication
·      The Risk of Excessive Medicalization of Personal Issues
·      Getting to Know the Unconscious Messages Behind Low Desire
·      Anxiety about performance and the need for approval
·      Using Relaxation Techniques Such as Beach Showers
·      How Repetition Compulsion Relates to Past Trauma
·      Examining the Underlying Factors of Compulsive Sexual Behaviors
·      Unpacking the Hidden Themes in Pornography Usage
·      Sexual Behavior That Is Out of Control as a Way to Control Emotions
·      Getting over sexual shame with curiosity and kindness
 
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Welcome to Episode 485 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Sienna Sinclaire, who speaks to me about the art of oral sex and navigating the mental blocks that often surround it.
 
In this episode, we talk about real ways to improve your skills and boost your confidence. The goal is to treat sexual encounters like a playground for exploration. You can do this by using your hands as a tool and trying out different temperatures, like ice and warm water. We also talk about common worries about smell and body image, stressing the importance of being able to read and write about health issues and accepting yourself instead of feeling ashamed. 
 
Sienna Sinclaire is an award-winning author, creative director, certified sex coach, and lifestyle entrepreneur redefining modern sensuality through storytelling, design, and immersive brand experiences.
 
As the visionary behind Sienna Sinclaire Studios, Naughty Girl Shop, and Naughty Girl Motel, she has built a world where fashion, travel, artistry, and empowerment collide. Her work celebrates women who want to live boldly, merging glamour, self-love, and sensual confidence into an unapologetic lifestyle. Through her signature blend of luxury branding, cinematic storytelling, and experiential design, Sienna invites audiences into a universe that blurs fantasy and reality, inspiring others to create a life that turns them on.
 
In this episode, you will hear:
 
·      Unlearning Outdated Sexual Scripts
·      Navigating Performance Anxiety Blocks
·      Importance Of Active Feedback
·      Utilising Hands For Enhanced Pleasure
·      Addressing Body Image Insecurity
·      Facts About Natural Scent
·      Experimenting With Temperature Sensations
·      Limitations Of Pornographic Education
·      Exploring Diverse Genital Anatomy
·      Integrating Pleasure Enhancement Tools
 
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Welcome to Episode 484 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Genevieve Lejeune, who speaks to me about the evolution of sexual identity and the importance of creating safe spaces for exploration.
 
In this episode, we discuss the emotional complexities that arise when a partner begins to question or redefine their sexual orientation. This journey can often feel destabilizing for both individuals in a relationship, triggering fears of inadequacy or the worry that the relationship might be coming to an end. Genevieve and I discuss how to navigate these transitions by prioritizing emotional safety and curiosity over panic and control. 
 
Genevieve Lejeune is the founder of Skirt Club, a private members club for bi-curious & bisexual women. With more than 25,000 members globally, women are more interested in each other than ever. She was the first to curate luxurious global events where women can put their own desires first, and gain confidence from the bedroom to the boardroom. A leading figure in the movement for women’s sexual empowerment, Genevieve has been interviewed for high-profile publications such as Marie Claire, Elle Magazine, Cosmo, Bloomberg, Rolling Stone and the Sunday Times.
 
In this episode, you will hear:
 
·      Understanding Sexual Identity Evolution
·      Managing Relationship Fears And Insecurity
·      The Origin Of Skirt Club
·      Benefits Of Women Only Spaces
·      Avoiding Performative Sexual Pressure
·      Communication Strategies For Couples
·      The Role Of Emotional Safety
·      Exploring Physical Desire And Affection
·      Navigating Monogamy And Fluidity
·      Resources For Bisexual Exploration
 
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Welcome to Episode 483 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to have Courtney Boyer on the show. In this episode, Courtney talks to me about how she transitioned from living in a strict purity culture to living in a polyamorous lifestyle.
 
Courtney discusses her childhood in a strict religious setting where her worth and safety were closely linked to her ability to control her sexual urges. We talk about the "myth of the perfect Christian wife" and how many women in these communities feel pressured to keep up the act of sacrifice. 
 
Courtney Boyer, M.Ed., M.S., is a therapist-turned-relationship coach, writer, and speaker whose work centers on love, desire, and authenticity. She has been featured in The New York Post, Cosmopolitan, The Huffington Post, and BBC Radio Live. Drawing on her background in mental health and sex therapy, she brings a unique blend of professional expertise and lived experience to conversations around relationships and identity. When she isn’t writing or coaching, Courtney can be found chasing joy—traveling, reading, or savoring delicious coffee and deep conversation. She is passionate about helping women break free from shame, reclaim their bodies and voices, and create relationships rooted in honesty and autonomy.
 
In this episode, you will hear:
 
·      How Purity Culture Affects How You Feel About Yourself
·      Disputing The Myth Of The Ideal Christian Wife
·      Going From Being Monogamous To Being Polyamorous
·      How To Handle The Dynamics Of A Mono-poly Relationship
·      Setting Limits In Parallel Polyamory
·      The Significance Of Representation In Non-monogamy
·      Reclaiming Joy Through Bodily Embodiment
·      Building Self-trust After Being Controlled By Religion
·      Why Women Should Date Men Who Are Older Than Them
·      Finding Your Own Reason To Open Up
 
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Welcome to Episode 482 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Jessica Idoine who speaks to me about the role of the nervous system in erotic connection and how couples can move from the stress of daily life into a state that supports intimacy and foreplay.
 
Jessica and I talk about why a lot of people find it difficult to shift from the hectic nature of daily obligations to erotic connection. We examine how the nervous system is crucial to sexual responsiveness and why arousal and pleasure depend on a transition from a fight-or-flight response to a more relaxed, present-moment state.

Jessica is a licensed and certified relationship and sex therapist, retreat facilitator, and founder of Expansive Connections Retreats. She helps couples and individuals cultivate deeper intimacy, emotional safety, and honest communication through a trauma-informed, somatic, and evidence-based approach. With specialized experience supporting LGBTQIA+ clients, neurodivergent couples, and non-traditional relationships, Jessica is known for reframing relationship myths, normalizing complex dynamics, and offering practical, accessible tools for navigating intimacy, conflict, and long-term connection.
 
In this episode, you will hear:
 
·      The Nervous System’s Role In Sexual Arousal
·      Why Stress Blocks Erotic Connection
·      Moving From Fight Or Flight To Rest And Digest
·      Practical Co-Regulation Rituals For Couples
·      The Power Of Non-Demand Touch And Connection
·      Navigating Desire Mismatch In Relationships
·      How To Communicate A Loving “No” To Sex
·      Recognizing Signs Of Nervous System Shutdown
·      Using Rituals To Transition Into Intimacy
·      Small Shifts That Help Couples Feel Safer And More Connected
 
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