Sexology

Welcome to episode 492 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Susanna Brisk, who shares with me her insights on reconnecting to desire, the energetic body and sexual intuition.

In this episode, Susanna and I talk about how sexuality is much more than just technique. We discuss the energetic body, the unconscious agreements we bring to our relationships, and how shame, religious guilt, trauma, gender roles and cultural expectations can subtly impact desire.

Susanna Brisk is a Sexual Intuitive® who teaches people how to trust what they feel, even when it contradicts what they believe. Her work centers on restoring self-trust by translating the body’s intuitive signals into clear, actionable insight. Born in Estonia and raised in Australia after emigrating through the U.N. Refugee Program, Susanna has lived a wide-ranging life—from being scouted as a model and booking national TV commercials to working as a writer, stand-up comic, actor, and solo performer. 

In this episode, you will hear:

Understanding The Energetic Body
Desire And Body Connection
Shame, Guilt, And Sexuality
Toxic Masculinity And Femininity
Power Dynamics In Relationships
Submission, Choice, And Consent
Abandoning Yourself Sexually
Wants, Needs, And Turn-Ons
Rethinking Intimacy And Pleasure
Self-Intimacy Touch Practice

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Welcome to Episode 491 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Alexander Giebel, who speaks to me about the history of lubricants, how to choose the right lube, and why quality is important for sexual health.

In this episode, Alexander shares how his interest in sexual health started during the HIV crisis of the 1990s, when condoms became a cornerstone of safer sex education. Working on those, he became fascinated with the silicone lubricant used on condoms, and eventually helped bring silicone-based personal lubricant to the broader market.

Alexander Giebel is the founder and CEO of pjur group, one of the world’s leading manufacturers of premium personal lubricants. As the inventor of the first silicone-based lubricant, he established a completely new category in sexual wellness when he founded pjur in 1995. Today, pjur products are available in over 70 countries across five continents, with the company remaining proudly founder-owned. 

In this episode, you will hear:

The History Of Lubricants
Silicone-Based Lubricants
Lubricants And The HIV Crisis
Medical-Grade Product Standards
Reading Lubricant Labels
Water-Based Vs Silicone Lubes
Avoiding Irritation And Discomfort
Choosing Lube For Anal Play
Lubricant And Toy Compatibility
Genital Skincare And Marketing Claims

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Welcome to Episode 490 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I am excited to be joined by Dr. Jordan Barber, who speaks to me about pain during sex.

In this episode, Dr. Barber and I discuss why so many people are told that “everything looks normal” when they are experiencing very real pain during sex. He explains how standard medical testing often misses muscle and nerve function, and why painful sex is rarely caused by one single factor.

Dr. Jordan Barber is a Doctor of Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine (DAOM) specializing in integrative pain care with a focus on pelvic floor dysfunction, chronic pelvic pain, and complex musculoskeletal conditions. His clinical work centers on advanced dry needling and neuromodulation-based acupuncture, targeting both tissue and nervous system drivers of pain. With over two decades of experience, he works at the intersection of traditional Chinese medicine and modern pain science to help patients restore function and break persistent pain patterns.
In this episode, you will hear:

Understanding Painful Sex
Muscle Pain Versus Nerve Pain
Why Tests Can Look Normal
Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy
Trauma And Pelvic Pain
Dry Needling Explained
Vagus Nerve Stimulation
Hormones And Lubrication
Building The Right Care Team

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Welcome to Episode 489 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Elana Auerbach, who speaks to me about navigating sexless marriages and reviving physical intimacy.

It is incredibly common for long-term relationships to experience a decline in physical intimacy over time. Often, couples fall into a routine where life gets busy, and cultivating a sexual spark drops to the bottom of the priority list. During our conversation, we explore why this happens and how unspoken frustrations and rejections can build up over time like invisible panes of glass between partners. 

Elana Auerbach is a lover, mother, mentor, activator, and priestess. She spent her childhood and young adulthood on what she calls 'the conveyor belt of life,' being the good girl and doing what others expected of her. This looked like graduating Phi Beta Kappa from UCLA, working on Wall Street for a Japanese investment bank, and marrying someone with whom she felt no chemistry.

It all fell apart in 2001 when Elana realized she’d been living a lie and found the courage to leave her marriage. She entered a world of sensuality and sex in a San Francisco pleasure-centered community. This is where she met Bill, who would become her loverman for life.

In this episode, you will hear:

Defining Sexless Relationships
The Myth of Spontaneous Desire
Understanding Responsive Desire
Navigating Discrepancies in Libido
The Impact of Unspoken Rejection
Introducing the Sure Thing Practice
Exploring Sensuality Without Pressure
Honoring Boundaries and Communicating Nos
Overcoming the Burden of Sexual Shame
Taking Accountability for Intimacy Goals

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Welcome to Episode 488 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Dr. Arthur Burnett who speaks to me about delayed ejaculation and loss of penile sensitivity.

In this episode Dr. Burnett and I discuss a topic that has been highly requested by many of our listeners and clients. We look at the complicated factors behind delayed ejaculation and the annoying loss of sensitivity some men experience. Dr. Burnett shares his urologic expertise on the role of physical health conditions such as diabetes or sensory neuropathies as well as the much-debated role of testosterone levels.

Arthur L. “Bud” Burnett II, M.D., MBA, FACS, is a trail-blazing and globally recognized urologist, educator, and researcher at Johns Hopkins University, where he has worked for more than 40 years. He serves as the Patrick C. Walsh Professor of Urology, Director of the Male Consultation Clinic.
 
As a barrier-breaking leader, he is recognized as the first Black person to have achieved milestones in the urology profession as professor of urology at Johns Hopkins University, President of the Sexual Medicine Society of North America (SMSNA), and Board Member of the American Urological Association.
 
In this episode, you will hear:
 
Multilayered Causes of Delayed Ejaculation
Impact of Diabetes and Neuropathy on Sexual Health
The Role of Testosterone in Ejaculatory Function
Potential Side Effects of Weight Management Drugs
Retraining Sensitivity Altered by Masturbation Habits
How Alpha Blockers and Antidepressants Affect Climax
The Connection Between OCD and Ejaculatory Control
Debunking Myths About Attraction and Performance
Constructive Ways Partners Can Offer Meaningful Support
Safe Practices for Using Constrictive Devices and Toys

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