Queer Collective Podcast

You think your dating choices are yours… but there's invisible rules shaping your sex, love, and identity. However, there is a disruption that queer, kinky, and non-monogamous people are leading, exposing amatonormativity, and the fantasy of desire that isn’t actually yours. To break down how to unlearn, rebuild, and finally choose yourself, we put Feeld’s new Reflections tool to the test; because self-discovery shouldn’t feel like homework. The script stopped working. Now what?

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00:00 intro

00:54 Do we make our own choices?

07:44 The bedroom crossover

16:54 Subliminal beliefs we hold

25:50 social rewards and punishments

34:01 ananormativity

29:44 grow out if it

44:49 compulsory heteronormativity

46:43 can't name it can't claim it

50:31 finding your true desires

53:11 scary things that won't kill you

57:39 are you happy?

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The Church might be one of the gayest institutions in history and no one’s talking about it. We’re diving into the hidden queer and kinky world inside religious life. From lesbian nuns to closeted clergy, and how centuries of repression shaped it all. Connecting history, theory, and lived experience to ask: does religion suppress desire, or secretly create it? Because once you see it, you can’t unsee it.

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00:00 Intro

00:59 Growin up with gay clergy?

06:00 Deep in it

11:45 All priests are gay

17:19 The nuns are gay too

21:25 All falling apart

33:08 The shame is too strong

40:53 What religion teaches us about sexuality

48:40 Saying goodbye to Jesus

53:19 Kink will save us

1:00:34 Morality is in question

1:08:02 Religion is Kink in cosplay

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Vox crowned 2025 the year of decentering men. But lesbians were doing it first. We’re unpacking whether “man-hating” is a dead-end, a coping mechanism, or a misread of a much older feminist strategy, with Olivia (aka Olisunvia).

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00:00 Intro

01:00 Man-hating vs de-centering

05:39 Choice vs radical feminism

11:27 the real hate for men

24:13 Second wave feminism

34:15 The feminist manifesto

48:07 Ideal vs reasonable change

57:29 What's in our best interest?

1:07:39 Are women healthier without men?

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Studs aren’t a vibe, they’re a lineage. We’re unpacking the history, politics, and lived reality of Black masculine lesbians at the crossroads of race, gender, and desire. From the swagger and softness, Harlem Renaissance sapphics, stud vs butch, AGs, Stud4Stud discourse, toxic masculinity, and why Black masculinity plays by different rules. Joined by Elisabeth Clarke, Nadine Wiltshire, and Kiké, we dig into stereotypes, erasure, dating myths, and the radical tenderness at the core of stud identity.

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00:00 What is a stud?

05:00 The toxic expectations

12:11 Recreating masculinity

19:12 It's because you're black

24:31 Stud on stud clash

35:03 Who can be a stud?

1:03:04 Know your stud history

1:16:04 Black vs white lesbian division

1:31:21 What can femmes do better?

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The feral, gender-defiant life of a Canadian WWI veteran who ditched a wealthy upbringing, lived alone in the woods, enlisted three times, fought on the Serbian front as a man, got captured as a prisoner of war, fell in love in a prison camp, and spent decades confusing barbers and bureaucrats alike. We’re queering the Great War, unpacking gender outlaw survival, and asking the spicy question: early non-binary icon or radical dissident woman?

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00:00 Intro

01:19 Our hero's early life

07:27 The radical of it all

13:52 What was it like for women in 1900s?

21:00 How did a woman get into war?

27:54 Enlisting as a man

36:37 First love interest (as a man?)

43:43 Actually non-binary?

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