#97 - Interview with Dr. Deborah Heiser: Mentorship, Midlife, and Legacy
In this episode of Poder Aprender, I speak with Deborah Heiser, a developmental psychologist, TEDx speaker, professor, and founder of The Mentor Project. Deborah is reshaping the way we understand mentorship, aging, and legacy. Her book The Mentorship Edge explores how each of us—regardless of age—can offer guidance and purpose through meaningful connections. In our conversation, we dive deep into the emotional and developmental value of mentorship in midlife and beyond.Deborah opens by defining what mentorship truly is—and what it’s not. Rather than a corporate label or one-off career advice, real mentorship is a relationship rooted in five key elements: generativity, intrinsic motivation, meaningful connection, trust, and clear goals. She stresses that a mentor is someone who gives freely, not for payment or prestige, but out of a desire to share what they’ve learned. And mentees, far from passive receivers, play a vital role by offering relevance, value, and a sense of purpose to their mentors.We explore how mentorship is not limited to hierarchical relationships. From grandparents passing down culture to peers supporting each other at work, Deborah introduces the idea of lateral mentorship, emphasizing how everyday interactions carry profound opportunities for impact. She also differentiates between coaching and mentorship, highlighting that while coaches are hired for performance goals, mentors invest in the whole person, often without financial compensation.The conversation also touches on aging, and how midlife can be a time of renewal rather than decline. Deborah explains how the urge to give back is a natural developmental milestone. Contrary to popular beliefs, our happiness increases with age, and mentorship can be a powerful way to channel our accumulated wisdom into lasting impact. Stories of clients reinventing themselves in retirement or finding new creative outlets illustrate how vibrant and expansive this stage of life can be.Finally, we learn more about The Mentor Project—a global initiative that brings together world-class experts and students in a wide variety of fields. Deborah shares how the project is evolving, the launch of new mentorship subscription services, and the vision behind her book The Mentorship Edge. Whether you're in your thirties or your sixties, this conversation is an invitation to recognize your power to guide, uplift, and contribute—now and into the future.These are the topics of episode #97:The True Nature of MentorshipMentorship as Generativity and LegacyModern and Lateral MentorshipAging, Identity, and Reinvention¡Sigan aprendiendo y acuérdense de practicar bien!---------------------------------------------------------------Deborah Heiser: https://deborahheiser.comThe Mentor Project: https://mentorproject.org---------------------------------------------------------------Sitio web: https://poderaprender.comInstagram: https://instagram.com/poder.aprenderYouTube: https://youtube.com/@poder-aprender---------------------------------------------------------------Sitio personal: https://walterfreiberg.com
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