The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

Get to know Nick & Amy like never before!
In this fun, honest, and personal episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're pulling back the curtain and answering some of the questions we get asked most often about our own marriage. After more than 24 years together, we've experienced incredible highs, painful lows, seasons of deep connection, and times when we had to intentionally fight for our relationship.
We're sharing real thoughts and lessons we've learned the hard way, and the things that have helped us build a stronger marriage through every season. We answer questions like:
What has been the biggest struggle in our marriage, and how did we overcome it?
Have we ever gone through seasons where we didn't feel emotionally or physically connected?
What's one thing we've learned about each other that still surprises us after all these years?
What's the best—and worst—marriage advice we've ever received?
Do we still argue, and what do we disagree about most?
How do we keep our marriage a priority while balancing work, parenting, and everyday life?
If we could give our newlywed selves one piece of advice, what would it be?
What's one thing we each wish the other spouse did more often?
How has our sex life evolved throughout the different seasons of marriage?
After all these years, why do we continue choosing each other every single day?
Whether you've been married for six months or sixty years, we hope this episode encourages you, makes you laugh, and reminds you that every great marriage is built one intentional choice at a time. Join us as you get to know us beyond the podcast, the apps, and the social media posts—and discover that even marriage experts are still learning, growing, and choosing each other every day.
If this episode resonates with you, be sure to subscribe, leave us a review, and share it with another couple who could use a little encouragement in their marriage journey.
🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com
and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it!
And guess what? After a year of development, we just released the brand-new UandI App—designed to take your marriage to the next level. Click HERE.
💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE
to explore our amazing products!
Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp
for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more.
Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at amy@ultimateintimacy.com
We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage.
Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Have you ever felt like something is missing in your marriage, but you just can't put your finger on it? Maybe your communication isn't terrible, your intimacy isn't nonexistent, and you still love each other... yet something feels off.
What if the real issue isn't your sex life or communication at all?
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy are joined by special guest and therapist Austin to explore the many different types of intimacy every marriage needs to thrive. From emotional, physical, sexual, and spiritual intimacy to recreational, intellectual, and more, they discuss how each type plays a vital role in creating a strong, connected marriage.
They share real life examples of couples who struggle because one area of intimacy is missing, like when spouses don't share the same spiritual beliefs, or when they never spend time enjoying hobbies and adventures together. You'll discover why neglecting just one area of intimacy can quietly affect every other part of your relationship and, more importantly, what you can do to rebuild it.
If your marriage feels disconnected, stuck, or simply not as close as it once was, this episode may help you uncover the missing piece you've been searching for.
🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com
and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it!
And guess what? After a year of development, we just released the brand-new UandI App—designed to take your marriage to the next level. Click HERE.
💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE
to explore our amazing products!
Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp
for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more.
Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at amy@ultimateintimacy.com
We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage.

Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Most couples never realize they've been believing lies about sex for years.
They compare their marriage to Hollywood, social media, or unrealistic expectations and then wonder why intimacy feels disappointing, frustrating, or disconnected. The truth? Many of the "rules" we've been taught about sex are actually the very things keeping us from experiencing the passionate, connected, and fulfilling intimacy we all want.
In this eye-opening episode, Nick and Amy expose some of the biggest myths about sex and reveal the truths that can completely transform your intimate relationship.
You'll discover why:
Waiting until you're "in the mood" may be hurting your sex life.
Your spouse can't read your mind (and why that's actually a good thing).
Women don't always take longer to become aroused.
Sex is far more than just a "want."
Talking about sex doesn't kill the mood—it creates better intimacy.
Spontaneous sex isn't the only (or even the best) kind of sex.
...and many more myths that could be holding your marriage back.
If you've ever wondered why your sex life isn't where you want it to be, this episode could change the way you think about intimacy forever. Stop believing the myths. Start creating the marriage and the intimacy you've always wanted.
🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com
and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it!
And guess what? After a year of development, we just released the brand-new UandI App—designed to take your marriage to the next level. Click HERE.
💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE
to explore our amazing products!
Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp
for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more.
Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at amy@ultimateintimacy.com
We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage.
Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In episode 433 with Austin Ellis, we talked about how a man can be a better husband and father and discussed safety in marriage. If your wife doesn't feel safe in your marriage, nothing else really matters. She needs to feel safe sexually, safe emotionally, safe physically, and safe spiritually. But what does that look like?
In this episode Nick and Amy have Austin back on to dive deeper into safety in marriage, and what it looks like to feel safe for a wife and husband. When your spouse feels safe, everything changes. 
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.

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If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.
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A few weeks ago, we did a podcast titled: 11 Things Every Husband Should Know (But Somehow Missed The Memo). Now it's time for the flip side. 
In this fun and honest episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy reveal 11 things every wife should know—but somehow missed the memo. From what husbands secretly long for to the little things that make a huge difference in marriage, they share practical insights that can transform your relationship. Whether you've been married for one year or thirty, this episode is full of "I never knew that!" moments you won't want to miss.
🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com
and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it!
And guess what? After a year of development, we just released the brand-new UandI App—designed to take your marriage to the next level. Click HERE.
💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE
to explore our amazing products!
Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp
for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more.
Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at amy@ultimateintimacy.com
We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage.

Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!