The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick & Amy sit down with therapist Austin to unpack Stephen Covey’s classic book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People—but with a marriage twist!
We take all 7 habits and talk about what they actually look like inside a marriage, from taking responsibility for your own behavior to learning how to truly listen, creating win-win solutions, prioritizing your relationship, and continuing to grow together.
Because a strong marriage doesn't just happen. It takes intentional habits.
And one of the biggest takeaways? You don't have to have a perfect marriage to have a thriving marriage. You need two people who are willing to be intentional.
Whether you've been married for 6 months or 30 years, these 7 habits will give you something to think about—and something you can start doing differently today.
Listen now and ask yourself: Which of these 7 habits does our marriage need most right now?
🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com
and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it!
And guess what? After a year of development, we just released the brand-new UandI App—designed to take your marriage to the next level. Click HERE.
💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE
to explore our amazing products!
Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp
for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more.
Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at amy@ultimateintimacy.com
We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage.
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What if 20 simple questions could help you reconnect, reduce resentment, improve communication, strengthen emotional intimacy, and even improve your sex life?
In this fun, relaxed Tuesday episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast with Nick & Amy, we’re sharing our honest opinions, experiences, laughs, and what we believe can make a huge difference in your marriage.
We’re walking through our Weekly Marriage Meeting... 20 questions designed to help couples check in with each other before small issues become big problems.
We talk about everything from:
What went well in your marriage this week?
What stress are you carrying that your spouse may not know about?
How can your spouse better support you this week?
Are you on the same page financially?
What needs to be planned in your schedule?
How would you rate your intimate life?
What made you laugh together?
What is one thing you can improve together?
What are you grateful for about your spouse?
And here's the big reason we think this matters:
How can something get better if you're not talking about it?
This isn't about pointing fingers, keeping score, or starting an argument. It's about creating a safe space to say, “This is how I'm feeling. This is what I need. How can we work on this together?”
We’ve also created a FREE printable Weekly Marriage Meeting so you can actually do this with your spouse. Print it, save it to your phone, and try it for the next two weeks. Download HERE.
You might be surprised by what your spouse says.
And you might discover that the conversation you've been avoiding is actually the conversation your marriage needs most.
Download the free printable and keep the conversation going at UltimateIntimacy.com.
And if these conversations get you talking again, take it even further with the free Ultimate Intimacy app, packed with conversation starters, games, quizzes, and resources designed to help couples reconnect emotionally, physically, and intimately.
Because you can't improve what you aren't willing to talk about.
🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com
and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it!
💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE
to explore our amazing products!
Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp
for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more.
Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at amy@ultimateintimacy.com
We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage.

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What does respect really look like in marriage? It’s so much more than simply being polite or avoiding arguments. Respect is shown in the way we speak to our spouse, the way we respond when we disagree, the way we treat them when we’re frustrated, and the way we speak about them when they aren’t in the room.
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast with Nick and Amy, we’re talking all about what it means to truly show respect in your marriage—and why respect is such an important foundation for emotional safety, connection, trust, and intimacy.
🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com
and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it!
And guess what? After a year of development, we just released the brand-new UandI App—designed to take your marriage to the next level. Click HERE.
💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE
to explore our amazing products!
Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp
for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more.
Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at amy@ultimateintimacy.com
We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage.
Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Sex can be one of the most powerful ways a husband and wife connect. When intimacy is approached in a healthy way, it can deepen emotional connection, build trust, increase affection, and strengthen your marriage in incredible ways.
But the opposite can also be true. There are things couples can introduce into their sexual relationship that may seem harmless at first but can slowly create distance, hurt trust, or damage the marriage. That’s one reason we receive SO MANY questions from couples asking, “Is this okay?” or “Is this something we should be doing in our marriage?”
And honestly, some of these questions aren’t easy to answer with a simple yes or no. Every couple has different backgrounds, experiences, values, and comfort levels. What may be healthy and enjoyable for one couple may not be right for another.
So in this episode, we’re talking about some of these difficult and sometimes uncomfortable questions and sharing the guidelines we use in our own marriage to determine whether something is going to bring us closer together—or potentially create distance.
If you’ve ever wondered where the line is between what is healthy, helpful, and appropriate in the bedroom and what could ultimately hurt your relationship, this episode is for you.
We’ll give you practical questions and guidelines you can use to make those decisions for your own marriage, rather than simply following what everyone else says is “normal.”
🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com
and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it!
And guess what? After a year of development, we just released the brand-new UandI App—designed to take your marriage to the next level. Click HERE.
💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE
to explore our amazing products!
Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp
for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more.
Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at amy@ultimateintimacy.com
We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage.
*This episode was reposted from August 2022. 

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Should Your Spouse Really Come First?
It's one of the most controversial messages we share, and every time we talk about it, the comments explode.
Should your spouse come before your children? Before your career? Before your friends? Is putting your spouse first actually healthy... or is it outdated advice?
In this thought provoking episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy talk with Austin and tackle one of the biggest debates in marriage. They discuss why prioritizing your spouse is often misunderstood, and what "putting your spouse first" really looks like in a healthy relationship.
Whether you completely agree, strongly disagree, or have never thought about it before, this conversation will challenge your perspective and help you evaluate the priorities that shape your marriage every day.
This episode may just change the way you think about what it takes to build a lasting, passionate, and deeply connected marriage.
🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com
and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it!
And guess what? After a year of development, we just released the brand-new UandI App—designed to take your marriage to the next level. Click HERE.
💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE
to explore our amazing products!
Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp
for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more.
Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at amy@ultimateintimacy.com
We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage.

Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!