The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

In life, we become what we consistently consume. The content we take in whether from social media, movies, music, or TV gradually shapes the way we think, feel, and interpret the world around us.
For example, if someone regularly scrolls through social media filled with posts promoting distrust in relationships or extreme views about the opposite sex, it can slowly influence how we perceive our own spouse even our their real-life relationship is healthy and strong.
In the same way, if a person repeatedly consumes content that objectifies others, it can distort how they view relationships and intimacy, potentially impacting how they treat their spouse.
The bottom line is simple: what we consume influences who we become or how we view our spouse and marriage. That’s why it’s important to be intentional about the media we allow into our minds.
This idea is also supported by research. A study published in the Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology found that individuals who spend more than 30 minutes a day on social media report higher levels of depression and anxiety.
In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss the importance of being mindful about what we consume, and how choosing healthier, more positive influences can lead to a more fulfilling life and stronger relationships, whether in marriage or in preparation for one.
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and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it!
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Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp
for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more.
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One of the biggest perks of having a large audience is that we hear everything—and we mean everything. Every day, we get flooded with messages from couples sharing what’s really going on behind closed doors.
And one theme shows up again and again:
Wives expressing why they’re not interested in sex… and husbands feeling confused, rejected, and frustrated by the lack of intimacy in their marriage.
So in this powerful episode, Nick and Amy sit down with special guest Austin, a certified sex therapist, to unpack one of the most requested topics we’ve ever received:
The 7 real reasons wives often lose interest in sex within marriage.
This conversation is honest, eye-opening, and packed with insight that could change the way you see intimacy in your relationship.
If you’re in a marriage where sexual connection feels strained, distant, or just not where you want it to be—or if you’re a wife wondering why your desire has faded—this episode is for you.
🔥 Haven’t checked out the Ultimate Intimacy App yet? Now’s the perfect time! Find “Ultimate Intimacy” in the app stores or visit ultimateintimacy.com
and discover how to bring real connection, excitement, and fun back into your marriage. It’s FREE to download, and with close to 1 million happy users, it’s no wonder couples are raving about it!
And guess what? After a year of development, we just released the brand-new UandI App—designed to take your marriage to the next level. Click HERE.
💥 Want to spice things up in your relationship? YES, PLEASE! CLICK HERE
to explore our amazing products!
Stay connected with us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp
for app updates, fun polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes, and more.
Got thoughts, questions, or topics you want us to cover on future episodes? Shoot us an email at [email protected]
We love hearing from you! And don’t forget to leave us a review, it really helps us keep bringing you content that strengthens your marriage.

Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this powerful episode, Nick and Amy dive into a bold and insightful quote they read.
"By God's good design, a man's sex drive is strong. If it is harnessed and intensified within marriage, it can be an incredible force fastening a man's affections and passions to his wife. I believe that it is right and godly to claim your husband's sexual desire as a potent source of influence in your marriage. This power was intended for you and for no one else. Unfortunately, if you don't claim it, someone or something else will."
Nick and Amy unpack the deep truth behind these words, not only about sexual desire but also about the emotional intimacy in marriage as well. They explore how neglecting to intentionally claim your spouse’s affection, emotionally and physically, leaves your marriage vulnerable to distractions, temptations, or outside influences.
If you want to strengthen your marriage and guard the precious bond between you and your spouse, this episode is a must-listen.
Tune in now and discover how to claim what’s yours to protect, cherish, and celebrate your spouse like never before.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.

WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at [email protected] and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.
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We often talk about the important of both emotional intimacy and sexual intimacy and how they go hand in hand. But which comes first? For many men, they need the physical connection to become more emotionally connected to their wife. And for most women, they need to be emotionally connected before desiring the physical connection. So which comes first?
We took a poll and asked the following questions: "Could your marriage use more emotional intimacy?"
53% said Absolutely YES! 30% said they need a little bit more - That means 83% of wives polled said they need more emotional intimacy in their marriage!
Then we asked: "Do you agree that strong emotional intimacy comes 1st (Before sexual intimacy?) 94% said YES!
So 83% of wives want more emotional intimacy and 94% said it should come 1st, before sexual intimacy! We hope the husbands are hearing this.
In this podcast episode we talk with marriage therapist Austin Ellis about why strong emotional intimacy is the key to having good sexual intimacy. 
If you are a spouse that is frustrated with your intimate life, or want more emotional intimacy in your relationship, then this episode is for you!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.

WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at [email protected] and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.
Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode, Nick and Amy dive into a simple but powerful question: are couples wishing more for a better marriage instead of actually doing the things that build one? After surveying married couples, the answers revealed something surprisingly consistent about what people feel is missing in their relationships.
Husbands and wives shared a desire for more emotional connection, quality time, appreciation, less screen distraction, and feeling more prioritized. These aren’t complicated needs—they’re the everyday things that often get lost in the busyness of work, kids, and life responsibilities.
What stood out most is that many of these desires aren’t out of reach. They don’t require a different spouse or a different season of life. They come down to small, intentional choices—how we communicate, how we show up, and what we prioritize when life gets full.
In today’s conversation, Nick and Amy go through real survey responses and talk about what they actually look like in marriage. If you’ve ever found yourself wishing things felt different, this episode is meant to help you shift from wishing to doing in your own relationship.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.

WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at [email protected] and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!