Love in Action

Episode recap:   Subscribe to Marcel’s Substack here:   https://marcelschwantes.substack.com/subscribe     Marcel Schwantes opens Season 10 with gratitude and a renewed call for better leadership. He previews more solo episodes in 2026 and emphasizes that a leadership strategy only works when a leader’s character and inner operating system are solid. He reframes authentic leadership as humility, self-honesty, and service. Authenticity starts with self-awareness, supported by a weekly reflection: where you lived your values, where you drifted, and what triggered it. He links authentic leadership to well-being by urging leaders to remove friction, create clarity, support mental health, and help people connect to purpose—since burnout often stems from a loss of meaning, not just workload.    Bio:   Marcel Schwantes is a speaker, author, and acclaimed executive coach with a global following. Recognized by Inc. Magazine as one of the Top 50 Leadership and Management Experts in 2025, Marcel’s thought leadership reaches millions each month through global media like Inc., Time, Fast Company, Business Insider, and Forbes. Marcel delivers presentations, workshops, courses, and coaching programs about the human side of business and how cultures of care,  connection, and belonging power companies to thrive and outperform the competition.    Quotes:  "You become a far more effective leader the moment you stop performing leadership and start practicing it."  "Authentic leadership always, always starts with self-honesty."  "Humility is a performance enhancer, not just a personality trait."  "Great leaders aren't afraid of holding up the mirror; they invite feedback and treat it like data, not judgment."  "Real authentic leadership exists to meet real human needs."    Takeaways:  Authentic leadership begins with self-honesty and removing the mask.  Humility allows leaders to learn, grow, and truly connect with others.  Seeking and acting on feedback transforms workplace relationships.  Meeting the real needs of people is at the heart of effective leadership.  Redefining leadership with authenticity, humility, and service sets the stage for a thriving culture.    Timestamps:  00:00 Introduction & Podcast Purpose  03:26 2026 Podcast Direction & New Year Focus  06:00 Principles of Authentic Leadership  08:30 Practical Implementation Tips  14:45 Conclusion & Call to Action    Conclusion:  As we close out this episode, remember that real leadership begins with honesty, humility, and a genuine commitment to serving others. By embracing authenticity and staying true to your values, you create space for growth, trust, and lasting impact. Let this new year be your opportunity to lead with heart, listen deeply, and elevate the people around you. True change starts from within, and your leadership can set the tone for a better tomorrow.    Links/Resources:  Substack: https://marcelschwantes.substack.com/       LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marcelschwantes/   Twitter/X: https://x.com/MarcelSchwantes   YouTube: hhttps://www.youtube.com/@MarcelSchwantes1  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marcel.schwantes/  

Episode recap:   Subscribe to Marcel’s Substack here:   https://marcelschwantes.substack.com/subscribe     Marcel Schwantes opens Season 10 with gratitude and a renewed call for better leadership. He previews more solo episodes in 2026 and emphasizes that a leadership strategy only works when a leader’s character and inner operating system are solid. He reframes authentic leadership as humility, self-honesty, and service. Authenticity starts with self-awareness, supported by a weekly reflection: where you lived your values, where you drifted, and what triggered it. He links authentic leadership to well-being by urging leaders to remove friction, create clarity, support mental health, and help people connect to purpose—since burnout often stems from a loss of meaning, not just workload.    BIO:   Marcel Schwantes is a speaker, author, and acclaimed executive coach with a global following. Recognized by Inc. Magazine as one of the Top 50 Leadership and Management Experts in 2025, Marcel’s thought leadership reaches millions each month through global media like Inc., Time, Fast Company, Business Insider, and Forbes. Marcel delivers presentations, workshops, courses, and coaching programs about the human side of business and how cultures of care,  connection, and belonging power companies to thrive and outperform the competition.    Quotes:  "You become a far more effective leader the moment you stop performing leadership and start practicing it."  "Authentic leadership always, always starts with self-honesty."  "Humility is a performance enhancer, not just a personality trait."  "Great leaders aren't afraid of holding up the mirror; they invite feedback and treat it like data, not judgment."  "Real authentic leadership exists to meet real human needs."  Takeaways:  Authentic leadership begins with self-honesty and removing the mask.  Humility allows leaders to learn, grow, and truly connect with others.  Seeking and acting on feedback transforms workplace relationships.  Meeting the real needs of people is at the heart of effective leadership.  Redefining leadership with authenticity, humility, and service sets the stage for a thriving culture.  Timestamps:  0:00:03 — New Year’s Introduction  0:02:00 — Rejecting Negative Leadership Practices  0:05:00 — The Importance of Authenticity  0:07:00 — Humility as a Performance Enhancer  0:10:00 — Seeking and Acting on Feedback  0:13:00 — Meeting Human Needs  0:15:00 — Implementing Humane Leadership  0:18:00 — Conclusion and Call to Action  Conclusion:  As we close out this episode, remember that real leadership begins with honesty, humility, and a genuine commitment to serving others. By embracing authenticity and staying true to your values, you create space for growth, trust, and lasting impact. Let this new year be your opportunity to lead with heart, listen deeply, and elevate the people around you. True change starts from within, and your leadership can set the tone for a better tomorrow.  Links/Resources:  Substack: https://marcelschwantes.substack.com/       LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marcelschwantes/   Twitter/X: https://x.com/MarcelSchwantes   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9fO2r_ZQ3wy5ie522f-DTQ   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marcel.schwantes/  

Episode recap Vanessa Druskat, social and organizational psychologist and author of The Emotionally Intelligent Team, joined the Love In Action podcast to unpack what truly separates average teams from exceptional ones. Her decades of research reveal that it’s not brilliance at the top or superstar individual contributors that drive sustained performance. The real differentiator is a team’s emotional ecosystem—the shared norms, routines, and habits that create trust, belonging, and collaborative energy. By shaping the everyday habits discussed, leaders can create a culture where people feel safe, energized, and committed—conditions that ultimately drive exceptional performance.   Bio Vanessa Druskat is an associate professor at the Peter T. Paul College of Business and Economics at the University of New Hampshire. As an internationally recognized leadership and team performance expert, Vanessa Druskat advises leaders and teams at over a dozen Fortune 500 and Fortune Global 500 companies. She is the recipient of multiple research and teaching awards. She is the author of The Emotionally Intelligent Team.    Quotes:  “We spend a lot of time trying to hire the best people or fix people, but we don’t spend enough time asking the collective what it needs to work better together.”  “To experience belongingness, a person must feel seen, known, understood, and supported by the entire team. We are wired to perform at our best under these conditions.”  “Leaders have the power to change their teams’ cultures and add practices that respect members’ universal human need to belong.”  Takeaways:  Emotionally intelligent teams thrive by creating routines that build trust, psychological safety, and belonging.  Successful collaboration is driven by helping team members succeed, improving constantly, and seeking new ideas.  Understanding teammates’ unique strengths and personalities is key to engagement and high performance.  Addressing unacceptable behavior with caring, actionable feedback strengthens team dynamics.  Leaders should assess team needs regularly and set collective norms to foster a culture of continuous improvement.  Timestamps:  0:00:02 Introduction & Episode Overview  0:02:40 Guest Welcome & Background  0:05:32 Motivations for Studying Teams  0:07:10 Defining Team Emotional Intelligence  0:10:40 Team Norms & Three Core Buckets  0:15:33 Helping One Another Succeed  0:16:37 Understanding Team Members  0:18:55 Demonstrating Caring  0:23:15 Addressing Unacceptable Behavior  0:29:43 Measuring Team Success  0:32:11 Groupthink & Decision Making  0:33:29 Speed Round: Personal Insights  0:36:26 Hopes for 2026  0:37:53 Leadership, Love, and Final Advice  0:40:53 Connecting with Vanessa Druskat  0:41:41 Closing Remarks  Conclusion:  As we wrap up this episode, remember that extraordinary teams aren’t built by perfect individuals—they’re powered by collective trust, curiosity, and care. Let today be your reminder to reach out, understand, and uplift those around you. When we lead with empathy and foster true connection, the results speak for themselves. Here’s to building teams where every voice matters, and collaboration leads the way.  Links/Resources:  LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/vanessa-druskat/   Website - https://www.vanessadruskat.com/   Team EI Survey – https://www.vanessadruskat.com/survey   Book - https://www.amazon.com/dp/1647824877?tag=bk00010a-20&th=1&psc=1&geniuslink=true   University of New Hampshire -  https://paulcollege.unh.edu/person/vanessa-druskat  

Episode recap   What happens when a West Point–trained Army Ranger turns his convictions about faith, entrepreneurship, and country into a fast-growing, American-made apparel brand? In this episode, Marcel sits down with Dean Wegner, founder and CEO of Authentically American, to explore how military discipline, servant leadership, and a mission-driven business model are reshaping what “Made in the USA” can mean today.    Note: You can purchase one of the sweat-activated T-shirts here: https://www.authenticallyamerican.us/collections/army-west-point-screenprint    If you use the code FOUNDER, you will get 25% off.   Bio: Dean Wegner is the Founder and CEO of Authentically American, a Veteran-owned, American-made premium apparel brand. They are a company that celebrates patriotism, supports the American worker, and donates 10% of its profits to Veteran and First Responder charities. A West Point graduate, Dean served 7 years as a helicopter pilot and Army Ranger. Dean and Authentically American have been featured in Forbes, Inc. Magazine, FOX News, MSNBC, Nasdaq, Newsmax TV, and SiriusXM Radio.    Quotes:  “When things are really challenging, you cannot do it on your own. You need a team.”  “No one cares about how much you know until they know how much you care.”  “You do not get to sing second unless you have a tireless work ethic.”    Takeaways:  Servant leadership becomes even more important in moments of difficulty  Values create the foundation for how a leader shows up each day  Having a Ranger buddy or trusted partner increases your chances of success  Great ideas do not always come from the leader; they come from the team  Mission-driven work fuels perseverance and purpose    Timestamps:  [01:55] Dean joins and aligns with servant leadership  [02:13] Dean shares his personal story and values  [03:27] What Authentically American is and why American-made matters  [04:38] The impact of creating American jobs  [05:45] Business model explanation and pricing strategy  [06:49] Military experiences shaping Dean as a leader  [08:53] The meaning of sing second and respect in leadership  [11:15] Leadership lessons from Ranger School and corporate life  [15:20] Servant leadership during challenging times  [16:27] Counterintuitive leadership lesson about thought leadership  [18:15] Advice for aspiring founders and servant leaders  [19:16] Future growth and building a sales team  [20:34] Dean demos the sweat-activated T-shirt  [23:29] Custom apparel for businesses and nonprofits  [24:08] How Authentically American serves charities at cost  [25:09] Speed round: family, fitness, and inspirations  [27:29] Dean’s biggest hope for 2026  [28:33] Leading with practical love in action  [29:19] Final takeaway about having a Ranger buddy  [30:09] How to connect with Dean and the brand  [31:06] Closing remarks and Army-Navy game reminder    Conclusion:  Dean Wegner leaves listeners with a clear message that leadership is ultimately an act of service. Through his military lessons, commitment to American manufacturing, and daily devotion to putting others first, he demonstrates that meaningful leadership is built on humility, teamwork, and purpose. His story calls us to lead with care, stay rooted in our values, and pursue missions that create real impact in the lives of others.    Links/Resources:  Website: https://www.authenticallyamerican.us/     Dean Wegner on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/deanwegner93/  Facebook: @AuthenticallyAmericanCo   Instagram: @authentically_american  

Episode Recap This week on the podcast, I sat down with Dr. Jaime Goff — executive coach, therapist, and author of The Secure Leader. Our conversation goes deep into something many leaders feel but rarely explore: how our early attachment patterns quietly follow us into the workplace.    Dr. Jaime breaks attachment theory down into something extremely practical for leaders. At the core are two questions we all carry:  Am I worthy of connection? Can I trust others to show up for me?  Our answers tend to show up at work in three ways. One of those ways is that of a “secure leader”: Grounded, steady, and empowering — the hallmark of modern servant leadership.  Leaders who do the inner work of a Secure Leader create workplaces where people can flourish.    Guest Bio Dr. Jaime Goff is the founder of The Empathic Leader, LLC, where she specializes in helping leaders unlock their full potential through executive coaching, insightful workshops, and thought-provoking keynotes. Jaime holds a PhD in Couple and Family Therapy from Michigan State University and a graduate certificate in executive coaching from Southern Methodist University   Quotes:  “We are not prisoners to our previous patterns, because we all have the power to become more secure.”  “Your leadership is shaped long before you ever enter a leadership role.”  “To love others well as a leader, you first have to believe you are worthy of love yourself.”  “Emotional regulation is the first step toward showing up as a secure and present leader.”  “All behavior makes sense in context, especially when you understand your story.”    Takeaways:  “We are not prisoners to our previous patterns, because we all have the power to become more secure.”  “Your leadership is shaped long before you ever enter a leadership role.”  “To love others well as a leader, you first have to believe you are worthy of love yourself.”  “Emotional regulation is the first step toward showing up as a secure and present leader.”  “All behavior makes sense in context, especially when you understand your story.”    Timestamps:  00:02 Intro and podcast milestones  05:12 Meet Dr. Jaime Goff and her personal story  07:21 The “latchkey kid” upbringing and over-independence  10:55 Why she wrote The Secure Leader  13:26 Attachment theory explained  15:21 How unworthiness shapes controlling or approval-seeking leadership  18:50 Jaime’s aha moment as a young leader  21:34 Gaining awareness and deconstructing your story  24:07 Avoidant, anxious, and secure leadership styles  28:44 Trauma, triggers, and past patterns repeating at work  32:18 The cost of skipping inner work  37:49 First steps to becoming a secure leader  40:06 Where to take the Secure Leader style scan  41:37 Speed round  45:52 Jaime’s hope for more secure leadership  48:31 Leading with love and building self-worth  50:56 Final takeaway on moving slow to move fast  52:57 How to connect with Dr. Jaime Goff    Conclusion:  As we close this inspiring conversation, remember that real leadership begins within. When you commit to self-discovery, you build the foundation to lead others with empathy, purpose, and resilience. Growth is a lifelong journey where each step forward helps you make a positive impact on those around you. Lead with clarity, nurture meaningful connections, and watch your influence create ripples of transformation in your team and beyond.    Links/Resources:  Website (take the assessment)- https://drjaimegoff.com/   LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/drjaimegoff/   Amazon - https://www.amazon.com/Secure-Leader-Discover-Leadership-Story/dp/B0FBZ39H8Y/   Email Dr. Goff: [email protected]