Beyond the Letter

In today’s episode, we start off with some pure fun—laughs, random rabbit trails, and the kind of real-life banter that feels like you’re sitting at the table with us. But halfway through, the conversation takes a sharp (and honestly needed) turn into something a lot of couples don’t realize they’re doing: overspiritualizing marriage in a superstition-based way.We react to a wedding trend and unpack the deeper issue behind it—how people start treating marriage like it can be “cursed,” contaminated by someone else’s “energy,” or protected by rituals… while ignoring actual wisdom, character, and spiritual authority. If you’ve ever felt anxious about vibes, jealousy, “evil eye” thinking, or letting fear shape your relationship, this conversation will help bring clarity, laughter, and a much healthier perspective.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this episode, Adam and Haron react to a viral clip where a speaker claims, “I do not believe Christ died for our sin,” critiques the sacrificial system, and calls penal substitution “problematic.” Instead of just trading opinions, they slow it down and ask the real question: what does Scripture actually say about sin, judgment, and the cross?They walk through why “penal substitutionary atonement” is a theological label (like the Trinity) used to describe what the Bible teaches—namely that Jesus carried what we deserved and paid the price our sin owed. They also address popular lines like “Jesus didn’t save us from God,” clarifying the difference between God’s love and God’s righteous judgment against sin. If you’ve ever heard a deconstruction-style argument that sounds convincing but ignores the text, this one will help you rebuild your footing on the Word.--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Haron Kaisa https://www.instagram.com/kaisaclan/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

In this episode, we unpack a topic every marriage runs into: rest. After coming back from Japan, we talk about the difference between a “vacation” and a family trip, and how family experiences can be meaningful—even when they’re not restful. Then we react to a viral clip of a husband sitting in the car for some quiet time before walking into the house, and we get real about why so many men (and honestly, so many people) need a few minutes to decompress.But it doesn’t stop there… because the conversation turns into a real-time argument about expectations, communication, and what happens when your spouse asks, “What time are you coming home?” (and you respond in a way you probably shouldn’t 😅). If you’ve ever felt overstimulated, misunderstood, or like you just needed 10 minutes to breathe—this one’s for you.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

In this episode, Sammy, Allan, Gabe, and Haron break down what healthy teams are actually built on — and why talent alone can’t carry a culture. Using the lens of a coach, they talk leadership that’s practical: setting expectations, communicating clearly, and creating accountability that helps people grow instead of drift.They also get into what silently destroys teams: unclear communication, tolerating toxic behavior because someone is “good at their job,” and leaders trying to do everything themselves. If you’re building a team at church, at work, or even in your home, this conversation will help you define your culture, repeat it consistently, and defend it when it matters most.--Connect with:Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Allan Walters https://www.instagram.com/alllanwalters/Gabriel Guzman https://www.instagram.com/salinascyy/Haron Kaisa https://www.instagram.com/kaisaclan/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Life gets loud—work, schedules, pressure, responsibilities—and before you know it, you and your spouse are in the same house but living on two different planets. In this episode, Adam and Ashlee keep it real with a wide-ranging conversation that lands on one big idea: staying connected in marriage takes intention, not just feelings. They talk about what it looks like to keep choosing each other in small ways, how to communicate when you’re tired, and how to reset when you feel off.Whether you’re in a busy season, feeling emotionally distant, or just trying to keep your relationship healthy with everything on your plate, this episode is for you. It’s honest, practical, and encouraging—reminding you that healthy marriages aren’t built by big moments only, but by consistent rhythms and the humble choice to keep showing up.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com