Surgeons with Purpose

My TEDx journey started while I was pooping on a very fancy toilet in NYC. But before I say more about that...
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Back to that fancy toilet in NYC…
I was with my family on spring break, and an email from Cesar somehow showed up in my inbox. Next thing I knew, I had the thought, "I can do a TEDx talk." I booked a call with Cesar, and that same year I landed my first talk. Then I landed a second talk, which was selected for the coveted Editor's Pick (an honor reserved for less than 0.1% of TEDx talks). You can watch my first talk, How to save lives with two minutes of listening here and my second talk, Can we end fear-driven healthcare? here.
Cesar Cervantes was the kind of child whose parents concluded early that he was going to need a stage: theater camps, commercials, and a father he first learned to be funny with. He started doing stand-up and was touring by nineteen, work that eventually took him into war zones, performing at lunchtime on forward operating bases to service members. He calls it the worst possible setup for comedy and the most fulfilling work he has ever done.
What he ran into was the limit of the medium. He wanted to create transformation, not just laughter, so he went to graduate school and began teaching comedy inside a theater department. The keynote he built out of those classes drew a different question from other speakers: how do I get on a stage like that? And Top Talks grew out of answering it.
His case for humor is more serious than you might expect. Humor is catharsis. Pain and joy are both part of being a person, and comedy is where we metabolize the overlap; it is a celebration of the flawed human state. Pain plus time equals comedy, which also means a story told too soon is not ready for a stage. We also get into how badly a story suffers when the teller makes themselves the hero of it, a habit that feels like confidence and lands like distance, and one accomplished people fall into without noticing.
On TEDx, Cesar talks about how the stage is for ideas and how ideas change things, rather than motivational speaking or a personal story of overcoming. Ten to twelve minutes is the sweet spot, and the goal is a talk your audience can leave holding in one sentence. Getting there takes laser focus on your throughline, a clear sense of where the audience starts and where you intend to move them, a refusal to get precious about everything you write, and what he calls an "Oh My Gift" moment.
The structure runs in eight beats: an attention getter, an unequivocal reveal of the problem, the throughline, the solution stated plainly, then building the problem out, revealing the solution, the Oh My Gift moment, and a call to action. TED, he notes, loves reason-based thinking that arrives somewhere.
His advice on getting selected is unglamorous and correct. Land the idea, learn to communicate it, submit to events you would genuinely travel to, and separate the outcome from the process. Once selected, get a coach. TED is its own form. As a two-time TEDx speaker, I can vouch for this.
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This episode discusses a recent suicide. Please listen carefully, or if this is particularly triggering for you, forgo listening completely.
On July 23, 2025, Vaibhav Duggal turned 24. He spent the morning of his birthday in a women's health clinic in El Paso, on his OB/GYN rotation as a third-year medical student at Texas Tech University Health Sciences Center. Six days later he was dead.
In this episode, I share more details that have come to light about this case, including the processes the institution followed to address the complaint against Vaibhav, what the culture was like inside the institution, and the conversation between the Dean of the school and Vaibhav's parents.
Please go back and listen to the first episode #111, Vaibhav's Story, before listening to this one.
If you or someone you know is struggling, the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline is available 24/7 by call or text in the U.S. Medical students and physicians can also reach the Physician Support Line at 1-888-409-0141, staffed by volunteer psychiatrists.
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Dr. Erik Pearson grew up the son of an X-ray tech, trained in Dublin, and matched in Utah, where watching the pediatric surgeons at work made the decision for him. It wasn't only the operations. It was the weight of being trusted with someone's child.
After fetal intervention research at Children's Hospital of Philadelphia and pediatric surgery training at Emory, he found a growing practice in Las Vegas looking to build out its ECMO program. Ten years later, he joins us to talk about what that work actually asks of a person.
We get into the parts of pediatric surgery that don't make it into the training curriculum: the driveway moments after a hard case and learning to compartmentalize without going numb. Erik describes the mental shift that let him keep doing this work: I get to be there to help. Not so much be the hero.
The second half of the conversation turns to October 1, 2017. Erik was on call at Sunrise Hospital when victims of the Las Vegas mass shooting began arriving. He walks us through the organized chaos of the ER, the improvised triage bay in the ambulance parking lot, the color category the team invented on the spot because the standard system didn't fit, and the five hours he spent with a single gunshot patient alongside a scrub tech he had never met. He also describes the leadership he saw that night: a CEO in a purple polo whose entire job became removing barriers so clinicians could work.
It's a conversation about competence, grief, transparency with families, and what every hospital and every physician should be asking themselves before the worst night of their career arrives.
The numbers Erik shares from that night
124 patients with gunshot wounds requiring treatment
129 patients admitted that night
16 mortalities, 14 of them dead on arrival
58 surgeries in the first 24 hours
516 blood products used

Swarm leadership: the five principles
A model first identified in the response to the Boston Marathon bombing (observed in flocking birds) that Erik saw play out in real time:
Unity of mission
Generosity of spirit in action
Staying in your lane
No ego, no blame
Trust-based relationships

Dr. Erik Pearson is a pediatric surgeon in Las Vegas, where he has practiced for the past ten years as part of a physician-owned group. He is known as Citizen Surgeon on Instagram. Follow him here. Check out his website here.

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Decades of research point to the same conclusion: social support is one of the strongest protective factors in the face of trauma. But what happens when the way we've learned to relate to others gets in the way of that connection, especially in a profession where repeated trauma exposure is routine?
In this episode, Dr. Sacha McBain joins me to talk about the intersection of attachment, community, and trauma-informed care in medical settings. We start with the research: Australian psychologist Richard Bryant's work following the Black Saturday bushfires showed that it wasn't just individual relationships that predicted recovery; it was the shape of a person's whole social network. People who were diversely connected, and whose connections were also connected to each other, fared better. The overlapping network itself served as a buffer.
From there we turn to what happens inside hospitals. Sacha describes sitting in on resident onboarding and hearing the scare tactics used to keep new physicians in line: it's not if you'll be sued, it's when. Patients will find you in parking garages. Never admit you were wrong. The message underneath is essentially "be perfect, or a patient could destroy you.” And it makes co-regulation almost impossible with the very person you've been taught to fear.
What shifts when you see a distressed patient as a frightened, vulnerable human rather than a threat to your livelihood? What do you do when you can't find any empathy left and you're already overwhelmed? Sacha shares a piece of advice from a mentor that reframes curiosity as the thing you reach for when compassion isn't available. And we close on trauma-informed care as something fundamentally pragmatic, not a soft add-on, but a working set of practices around safety, transparency, power, collaboration, and cultural humility.
Sacha McBain, PhD, is a clinical psychologist and associate professor at Rush University System for Health in Chicago. A national leader in medical traumatic stress, she has published peer-reviewed research on the conceptualization and treatment of medical trauma, led national clinical trainings, and helped shape best practices for mental health screening and intervention after traumatic injury.
Previously at the University of Arkansas for Medical Sciences, she developed and led the Trauma Surgery Psychology Consult Service at Arkansas's only Level 1 Trauma Center and served as associate director of the Center for Trauma Prevention, Recovery, and Innovation. She contributed to the American College of Surgeons Mental Health and Substance Use Disorder Best Practice Guidelines Work Group and is an active member of the International Society for Traumatic Stress Studies.
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In today's episode, you will learn the three success tenets to create success and sustainability in surgery:
Protect the asset
Serve the patient
Diversify your professional identity

When we master these three things, life as a surgeon becomes easy and fulfilling. Even in the face of moral injury, decreasing reimbursement, litigation fear, complication fear, and the public's mistrust of the medical profession in general. I know because I'm living proof.