Are you afraid that processing your sexual fantasies might lead to a relapse? Do you have concerns based on your understanding of the Bible? Does your wife have concerns? In this episode, you'll hear three reasons why processing your sexual fantasies can feel threatening, and what it looks like to do this work safely.Register now for the Sexual Fantasy Workshop: HMA In A Day (Saturday, July 12) at husbandmaterial.com/workshopExamples of safely processing sexual fantasies:Unburdening Sexual Arousal (Dr. Peter Malinoski working with Drew Boa)The Guy In The Locker Room (Drew Boa working with Jordan Castille)How To Analyze A Sexual Fantasy (Drew Boa and Dr. Doug Carpenter working with each other)The insights on how to support your spouse's individual recovery and protect your marriage came from Stephen Thomas Consulting.Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!
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How To Stay Porn-Free During Trips And Vacations (with Jake Kastleman)
Do you find yourself more susceptible to sexual temptation while traveling? Jake Kastleman helps you prepare to for the challenges of trips, vacations, and other disruptions to your daily routine—especially during the summer. You'll get tips on setting healthy expectations, creating structure while letting go of perfectionism, and preventing relapse.Jake Kastleman is a porn addiction recovery coach and the founder of No More Desire. He holds a degree in Psychology from Utah Valley University. Now over 10 years sober from porn, Jake coaches men one-on-one across the world using a multi-dimensional approach rooted in neuroscience, psychology, parts work, emotional mindfulness, and spiritual growth. His work helps men not just quit porn, but overcome the root causes of cravings and reclaim their purpose and connection to what matters most.Learn more and connect with Jake:No More Desire (Intensive Porn Addiction Recovery)The 8 Keys to Lose Your Desire for Porn (Free Workshop)10 Quick Mental Techniques to Stop Porn Cravings (Free eBook)Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!
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Same-Sex Attraction, Porn, Marriage, and Jesus (with Christy and Mark Summers)
When one person has a history of same-sex attraction and another has a history of relying on porn, how is a Christ-centered marriage possible? Christy and Mark Summers tell their incredible story, both individually and as a couple.Christy and Mark Summers are the co-founders of Redeemed Seasons Ministries, where they care for and support Christian men and women seeking healing and wholeness through Jesus in their relationships, their identity, and their sexuality. Christy and Mark offer one-on-one and couple-to-couple soul care and spiritual direction. They also facilitate support groups for family and friends of LGBTQ-identified loved ones. Learn more at redeemedseasons.orgResources from Redeemed Seasons:Rescue & Restoring (free 12-week healing & discipleship course)At My Right Hand (support group for family & friends of LGBTQ loved ones)Spiritual Direction (request an appointment)Other ministries mentioned in this episode:Restored Hope NetworkLiving Waters (Desert Stream Ministries)Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!
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The Sexual Development Model (SDM): A New Perspective on Unwanted Sexual Attraction
Do you feel confused or overwhelmed by trying to understand unwanted sexual attraction from a Christian perspective? In this episode, you'll hear the strengths and limitations of Side A, Side B, Side X, Side Y—and a new perspective on unwanted sexual attraction: the Sexual Development Model (SDM).Download the Sexual Development Model chart at https://husbandmaterial.com/sdmReferenced in this episode:Differing Views on Christian Doctrine, Identity, and Homosexuality by Jason Thompson (chart)The 5 Streams: Differing Responses To LGBTQ by Linda Seilor (chart)How My Sexual Fetish Shifted Over Time (podcast) by Drew BoaHealthy vs. Unhealthy Sexual Development (DVD) by Clifford and Joyce PennerSupport the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!
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How Breathwork Can Help You Outgrow Porn (with Burke Atkerson)
What is breathwork and how can it help you outgrow porn? Burke Atkerson masterfully explains the value of breathwork by drawing from Christian spirituality, neuroscience, and powerful personal experiences. If you stay until the end, you'll learn an extremely effective breathing technique called the physiological sigh. I loved this episode and I know you will, too.Burke Atkerson is the founder of Fire Nights and Men Fully Alive. He is an author, coach, and breathwork instructor—as well as a recovering addict, a failed missionary, and an undeserving husband and a grateful father of six.Buy Burke's book, Fire Nights: Forging Brotherhood That Heals.Learn more and connect with Burke at menfullyalive.com.Register now for the Husband Material Retreat at https://husbandmaterial.com/retreat!Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!
So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode makes it easier for you to achieve lasting freedom from porn—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually mature man of God.
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