Trin Told Me

Have you ever wondered if having a roster actually helps your dating life... or if it's secretly making it harder to find a real connection?
In this episode, KJ and I are debating the pros and cons of having a roster and whether keeping your options open is actually the move. We talk about the psychology behind the paradox of choice, share our own dating experiences, and discuss why having too many options can sometimes leave you feeling even more confused.
We also get into emotional availability, self-worth, and whether people keep rosters because they're protecting their hearts or just avoiding commitment. Plus, we share our honest opinions on whether a roster helps you find the right person or keeps you from giving someone a real chance.
If you've ever had a roster, been on someone's roster, or you're just trying to figure out what actually works in dating, this episode is for you. 💗
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In this episode, I'm sharing my favorite tips for becoming more attractive by focusing on what truly matters on the inside. I talk about how building confidence, finding hobbies you genuinely love, taking care of yourself, and knowing your worth can completely change the way you show up in the world. I also share why gratitude has become such an important part of my life and how embracing your authentic self is the ultimate glow up. If you've ever wanted to feel more confident, radiant, and secure in who you are, this episode is for you. Let's work on becoming the best version of ourselves together because real beauty always starts from within.

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In this episode I did a full Q&A where I answered your questions and literally nothing was off limits
We got into everything from relationships and dating to self-love, travel, and just real life situations that you guys are going through. Some of the questions were funny, some were a little crazy, and some were actually really deep, but I answered all of them honestly
I talked about how to make a man obsessed with you, what actually matters in relationships, and how to stop overthinking every little thing when it comes to guys
I also shared some of my experiences traveling, little life updates, and just random stories that came up while answering your questions because somehow everything always connects
This episode is very unfiltered, a little chaotic, and just feels like you’re sitting with me while we talk about everything you’ve ever wanted to ask
If you like honest advice, random stories, and real answers without sugarcoating anything, you’re gonna love this one 💋
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In this episode I’m basically oversharing again but this time we’re getting into mental health relationships and all the little things your brain and body are trying to tell you that you keep ignoring
We talk about how starting certain habits just to cope can actually mess with you more than you think and why avoiding your feelings is not the vibe even though it feels easier in the moment and yes I’m calling myself out too
Then we get into relationships because why are we always confused about men when sometimes the answer is literally right in front of us I break down how proximity can trick you into thinking you like someone more than you actually do and why your body will straight up tell you when something is off like those random icks or weird feelings you cannot explain yeah those mean something
We also talk about boundaries communication and being honest about what you actually want because if you are just going along with something to fill a void it will catch up to you every single time
This episode is a mix of life lessons mistakes realizations and me just trying to make sense of everything like the rest of you
Moral of the story listen to yourself stop ignoring obvious signs and maybe stop putting yourself in situations you already know are not it
You are allowed to take your time you are allowed to figure things out and you are allowed to choose what actually feels right for you 💋
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In this episode, I’m talking about growth, creativity, and really stepping into your life with intention.
The main focus of this episode is that I picked a bunch of stories to read and react to, all centered around one thing we’re always trying to figure out… how to tell if a guy actually likes you or not. I break down the patterns, the signals, and the moments that make it obvious versus the ones we tend to overthink.
I also share what I’ve been working on creatively, how I’ve been thinking about turning ideas into something bigger, and why your mindset, your environment, and the people around you play such a huge role in your success.
We get into relationships and understanding romantic signals in a real and honest way, because the truth is, when a guy likes you, it’s usually obvious. And when it’s not, that tells you something too.
I also touch on staying productive during the summer, using your time intentionally, and not letting your goals fall to the side just because life feels more relaxed.
This episode is your reminder to trust yourself, be bold with your feelings, and stop overcomplicating things that are meant to feel simple
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