The Audaci-Tea

In this week's episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign get messy and give you all the advice you'd need if you really wanted to date like men do.

 

From testing men for their sexual compatibility and subservience, to keeping a full roster, outsourcing relationship decisions to your friends, and making sure you never get too emotionally invested, Lisa and Sovereign flip the script on modern dating and imagine what would happen if women adopted the same dating behaviors traditionally associated with men. The result? Absolute chaos. Or, as men might call it, casual dating.

 

They explore situationships, side chicks, marriage, cheating, emotional detachment, and the ways women are often encouraged to play by a completely different set of rules when it comes to relationships. They also dig into why women should take their time, maintain their independence, prioritize their own ambitions, and stop treating a relationship as the ultimate prize.

 

But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign discuss the Cornell University scandal, take a look at what Christian Nationalist pastors are saying about women's independence and social media, and react to another viral video from Semaj In Focus offering advice on how to vet a man before dating him.

 

Finally, they open up the mailbag and hear from a self-described recovering pick-me who has been completely single, celibate, and hasn't even masturbated in three years, and wants to know if she should finally dip her toe back into the dating pool or just invest in some rechargeable batteries.

 

🎧 This episode flips the script on modern dating and explores exactly what it would look like if women stopped following the traditional rules of dating and started playing the game the way men do.

 

🎙️ Topics Discussed:
• What dating might look like if women adopted traditionally male dating behaviors
• Why women should take their time and avoid emotional over-investment
• Testing sexual compatibility and making sure a partner actually brings something to the table
• Situationships, side chicks, marriage, and why women don't have to rush toward commitment
• Keeping a full roster and outsourcing relationship decisions to trusted friends
• Why women should prioritize their independence, ambitions, and personal goals
• The double standards around women's dating behavior and men's dating behavior
• How women can maintain high standards while being more strategic about relationships
• Mailbag: Three years of celibacy, dating again, and the rechargeable battery dilemma

 

✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:
Cornell rape accuser’s attorney says the school and law enforcement failed a young woman
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/cornell-rape-allegations-fraternity-rcna600381

Christian Nationalist Pastor Brian Sauvé Says It's 'Insane' To Allow Women Unsupervised Access To Social Media
https://www.peoplefor.org/rightwingwatch/brian-sauve-says-its-insane-allow-women-unsupervised-access-social-media

Turning Point USA’s New ‘Wife School’ Teaches Women How to Be Biblically Submissive Wives
https://christiannightmares.substack.com/p/turning-point-usas-new-wife-school

Questions To Ask Before Dating Someone - Semaj in Focus
https://www.tiktok.com/@semajinfocus/video/7690378375210208542

 

📚 This Week's Recommendation:
Reality Decoded by Therese Lee
https://thereselee.com/reality-decoded/

 

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🕰️ Episode Chapters:
00:00 Welcome and Tea Time!
03:30 Cornell University Scandal
13:07 Video React: Unsupervised Women???
19:48 Turning Point USA's Wife School
23:38 Video React: Questions Before Dating
27:43 What If Women Dated Like Men?
34:09 Marriage, Situationships, and Side Chicks
42:27 Testing Sexual Compatibility and Subservience
55:25 Outsourcing Relationship Decisions
01:00:39 Leveraging Relationships for Personal Gain
01:09:53 Always Have a Full Roster
01:17:10 Make Men Choose Better
01:22:29 Play Games With Men
01:28:15 Mailbag: Celibacy or Hook Ups?
01:48:58 Poll Results

 

🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio, video, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.

 

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In this week's episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign take a closer look at one of the strangest contradictions in modern masculinity: why are men so obsessed with other men's bodies?

 

From penis size and physical strength as teenagers to income, status, dominance, and body counts as adults, men are constantly comparing themselves to other men and measuring where they stand within the male hierarchy. Lisa and Sovereign explore how much of male beauty, fitness, and status culture is actually driven by the approval of other men, even as men often claim they don't care about attention or validation.

 

They dig into the male gaze, body image, competition, homosocial behavior, and the ways men can become so focused on earning male approval that they lose sight of what women actually want. They also explore how these dynamics can affect men's relationships with women and why women are so often expected to manage and protect men's egos.

 

But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign discuss the FAA's deployment of AI in air traffic control, the controversy surrounding Ed Sheeran and Macklemore, and react to a viral video about what to say to men to help calm them down.

 

Finally, in "This You?", Lisa reads an unusually wholesome story from Reddit's "Girl Dinner Diary" about a woman who fell in love with her partner after a rattlesnake, her dog, and an act of bravery brought them together.

 

🎧 This episode explores why men so often compete with and seek validation from other men, how male body image and status are shaped by those dynamics, and what all of this means for women and their relationships with men.

 

🎙️ Topics Discussed:
• Why men are so focused on other men's bodies, physical attributes, and appearance
• How male competition and hierarchies shape body image, status, and masculinity
• Why male validation can be more important to men than women's approval
• How homosocial behavior and the male gaze influence men's relationships and self-image
• Why women are often expected to manage men's egos and navigate their insecurities

 

✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:
FAA debuts its AI-powered tool for managing flight traffic
https://www.politico.com/news/2026/09/21/faa-ai-tool-flight-traffic-01086258

Pentagon Investigators Say Overreliance on Palantir AI Tech Contributed to U.S. Strike That Killed 123 Iranian Children
https://gizmodo.com/pentagon-investigators-say-overreliance-on-palantir-ai-tech-contributed-to-u-s-strike-that-killed-123-iranian-children-2000814477

Everything we know about the Ed Sheeran and Macklemore controversy
https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c64gvqg0k27po

Melissa Barrera: Actress fired from Scream 7 over Israel-Gaza posts
https://www.bbc.com/news/entertainment-arts-67494374

 

📚 This Week's Recommendation:
Lorena
https://www.imdb.com/title/tt9134666/

 

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🕰️ Episode Chapters:
00:00 Welcome and Tea Time!
02:23 FAA AI Air Traffic Controllers Concerns
07:06 Ed Sheeran and Macklemore Controversy
12:45 Video React: Calming Men
16:25 Why Are Men Obsessed With Other Men's Bodies?
25:23 Women Don't Like Big Muscles
30:09 Body Image and Competition Among Men
38:41 The Nature of Male Dominance
47:10 The Confusion of Attraction: Men and Their Bodies
54:44 Men Living Vicariously Through Other Men
01:02:33 Understanding Homosocial Behavior
01:09:07 This You? A Heartwarming Tale
01:19:34 Poll Results

 

🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio, video, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.

 

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In this week's episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign are joined by special guest Christina Green, also known online as the Feminist Divorce Lawyer, for a conversation about what women need to know before they decide to leave a marriage.

 

Christina demystifies divorce, breaks down how women can protect themselves legally and financially, and explains what women should consider doing first once they decide they need to leave. Together, they discuss maintaining your identity and independence during marriage, protecting your assets and important documents, the changing landscape of custody rights, and the emotional challenges that can come with ending a marriage.

 

They also get into the double standards around independence in relationships, why women are often made to feel selfish for pursuing their own interests, and how taking the first step toward divorce can ultimately become an act of empowerment.

 

But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign react to a viral clip of Aaron Rodgers discussing his breakup with actress Shailene Woodley, celebrate Ciara and Russell Wilson expecting their fifth child, and react to a viral TikTok from a mom who says she's NOT raising her son to be a good husband.

 

Finally, they open up the mailbag and hear about a listener's friend who matched with a guy on a dating app, received pictures of a very impressive package on Snapchat, and then got a very different delivery in person. Naturally, she wants to know whether the ladies think she should have just walked out the door.

 

🎧 This episode explores what divorce can look like for women, how to prepare before making a major move, and why protecting your independence and resources can make a difference when leaving a marriage.

 

🎙️ Topics Discussed:

• What women should know and do before initiating a divorce
• How women can protect their finances, assets, and legal interests during divorce
• Why maintaining your identity and independence can change the way you experience marriage and divorce
• The changing landscape of custody rights and what women should know about family court
• Taking the first step toward divorce and reclaiming your independence, happiness, and personal power

 

✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:
Aaron Rodgers Makes Explosive Claims About Shailene Woodley Relationship
https://www.instyle.com/aaron-rodgers-explosive-claims-shailene-woodley-relationship-12114991

Ciara Is Pregnant! The Singer Is Expecting Her Fifth Child With Russell Wilson
https://www.vogue.com/article/ciara-pregnant-with-her-fifth-child

Women More Likely Than Men to Initiate Divorces
https://www.asanet.org/women-more-likely-men-initiate-divorces-not-non-marital-breakups/

 

📚 This Week's Recommendation:
Follow Christina!
https://linktr.ee/thefeministdivorcelawyer

 

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🕰️ Episode Chapters:
00:00 Welcome and Tea Time!
02:54 Aaron Rodgers on Shailene Woodley Break Up
08:43 Ciara Pregnant With Fifth Child
13:26 Video React: A Boy Mom Sounds Off
19:16 Welcome Christina Green!
28:53 Identity Rooted In Marriage
36:02 Preparing for Divorce and Mistakes Women Make
50:02 Emotional Challenges in Divorce
57:56 Taking the First Step: Empowerment in Divorce
01:04:08 Safety Protocols for Women in Divorce
01:09:28 Having High Standards and Self-Interest
01:16:20 Mailbag: False "Package" Advertising?
01:34:57 Poll Results

 

🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio, video, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.

 

📩 For business, press, or advertising inquiries: info@sirensound.co

 

💡 Disclaimer:
The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week's episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign are joined by special guest Bri Speaks for a powerful conversation about motherhood, narcissistic abuse, and what happened when she finally stopped playing by her baby daddy’s rules.

 

After years of custody battles, manipulation, and narcissistic abuse, Bri made the decision to give her son’s father full custody. What sounds like a devastating loss turned out to be a major turning point, giving Bri the freedom to rebuild her life, step away from a toxic dynamic, and reclaim her own happiness. She opens up about her experience with motherhood, recognizing abusive patterns, navigating the family court system, and awakening to the larger systems of control that shape women's lives.

 

Together, they discuss patriarchy, consciousness, personal power, and why sometimes the most empowering choice a woman can make is the one that other people would never understand.

 

But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign pay their respects to the late Gloria Steinem, react to a video exposing how "nice guys" really view their female friendships, and listen to a man explain to his wife how he would make sexual advances toward her while she was "mid-momming."

 

Later, in Therapy Or The Void, Lisa and Sovereign react to the film The Drama starring Zendaya and Robert Pattinson, deciding which characters desperately need therapy and which ones need to be cast directly into the void.

 

🎧 This episode explores narcissistic abuse, custody battles, motherhood, and the difficult process of reclaiming your freedom and personal power after years of being controlled by someone else.

 

🎙️ Topics Discussed:
• Bri's experience with narcissistic abuse and a years long custody battle
• Why giving her baby daddy full custody ultimately gave Bri more freedom
• Recognizing manipulation and patterns of narcissistic abuse
• The pressures and isolation of single motherhood
• How the family court system can affect mothers and children
• Public perception and the impossible expectations placed on mothers
• Patriarchy, consciousness, and deconstructing systems of control
• Setting boundaries and reclaiming your personal power
• Why leaving a toxic relationship can be an act of self-preservation
• Therapy Or The Void: The Drama

 

✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:
Gloria Steinem, fierce feminist trailblazer, dies at 92
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/gloria-steinem-fierce-feminist-trailblazer-dies-age-92-rcna10708

Girls more resilient than boys in troubled families
https://www.latimes.com/archives/blogs/booster-shots/story/2009-02-11/girls-more-resilient-than-boys-in-troubled-families

Girls often maintain stronger academic performance even when facing difficult home conditions
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/articles/200105/hear-them-roar

 

📚 This Week's Recommendation:
Follow Bri!
https://linktr.ee/Bri.Speaks

 

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🕰️ Episode Chapters:
00:00 Welcome and Tea Time
02:24 Paying Respects to Gloria Steinem
04:33 Nice Guys?
06:48 Husband Confessions
14:50 Welcome Bri!
24:54 Bri's Story: From High School Sweetheart to Custody Battle
31:48 Recognizing Patterns of Narcissistic Abuse
35:53 The Struggles of Single Motherhood
37:33 The Custody Battle Begins
45:56 Decisions, Sacrifices and Public Perception
56:55 Reflections on Parenting
59:57 Courtroom Drama and Emotional Turmoil
01:06:04 Advice for Women Facing Narcissistic Partners
01:09:06 The Three C's of Dealing with Narcissists
01:18:10 Therapy Or The Void: The Drama
01:44:51 Poll Results

 

🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio, video, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.

 

📩 For business, press, or advertising inquiries: info@sirensound.co

 

💡 Disclaimer:
The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

In this week's episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign dig into the growing number of women who are "quiet quitting" their marriages.

 

Together, they explore the emotional toll of feeling trapped, the expectations placed on women within marriage, and the often invisible labor they carry. They break down the warning signs of emotional disengagement, the imbalance of domestic and emotional labor, and why so many women feel unseen in their own relationships. Ultimately, they make the case for maintaining independence and setting non-negotiables before ever saying "I do," and why women deserve to prioritize their own lives and interests rather than sacrificing them for a partner.

 

But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign react to a viral trend among men called "pheromone-maxxing," which is really just a fancy excuse to skip showers. They also break down a fraud scheme in which a man posed as an NFL player to scam women out of their money.

Later, they open up the mailbag and hear from a listener in her early twenties who is still living at home with a father she describes as an extreme narcissist, and who wants to know how to cope in the meantime, and eventually heal, as she saves up to move out.

 

🎧 This episode explores how married women are emotionally checking out, matching their husband's energy, and quietly plotting their escape routes, all because their husbands refuse to be equal partners.

 

🎙️ Topics Discussed: 

• What "quiet quitting" looks like inside a marriage 

• The warning signs of emotional disengagement between partners 

• The unequal burden of domestic and emotional labor on women 

• Why setting non-negotiables before marriage protects your future self 

• Decentering men and prioritizing your own life and fulfillment

 

✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: 

Some Gen Z men are 'pheromone-maxxing.' What does that mean?

https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/health-wellness/2026/08/31/gen-z-men-pheromone-maxxing-skipping-showers-women/91464620007/

 

49ers owner Jed York arrested On Prostitution Charges https://www.kron4.com/news/bay-area/49ers-ceo-jed-york-arrested/

 

Man posed as 49ers player to scam women out of $1.3m, FBI says 

https://www.theguardian.com/sport/2026/aug/28/fake-49ers-player-romance-scam-daejon-love-fbi

 

📚 This Week's Recommendation: 

When It's Time To Go: The Documents Women MUST Secure 

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTDENck6j/

 

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🕰️ Episode Chapters: 

00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 

02:33 Men's New Hygiene Trend 

10:34 Fake NFL Player Scam 

20:34 Video React: Men's Hypocrisy 

23:53 Exploring Women's Quiet Quitting in Marriages 

31:14 The Emotional Toll of Marriage and Signs of Disengagement 

42:03 The Check-Out Point 

55:55 The Future of Marriage 

01:12:45 The Importance of Non-Negotiables 

01:20:38 Mailbag: Coping with Narcissistic Family Dynamics 

01:35:46 Poll Results

 

🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio, video, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.

 

📩 For business, press, or advertising inquiries: info@sirensound.co

 

💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.