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the myth of women's overconsumption
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"proposing to my bf after 14 years and 4 kids"
Anti Anti Intellectualism Club Hoodie - https://bit.ly/48B6Qo6Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribeFull show notes, sources, and transcript + exclusive content 💌: https://manifestelle.substack.comFollow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelleIn this episode, we will cover the viral Tiktok series of a woman proposing to her boyfriend after 14 years and 4 children together. We will explore why women proposing to men feels fundamentally wrong to so many and why that feeling is valid. Drawing on sociology, personal anecdotes, and research on domestic labor and maternal mortality, we argue that women's intuition doesn't need to be intellectualized to be legitimate. We examine how the "we're equal now" narrative erases the reality that women still shoulder the majority of domestic and caregiving work in heterosexual marriages, and how pregnancy and childbirth carry real, measurable risks. At its core, we frame a man's proposal not as outdated tradition, but as a crucial test of his readiness and willingness to show up in a partnership where women are already carrying so much.keywords:women proposing to men, gender roles in relationships, marriage proposals and equality, female intuition and women's instinct validation, the sociology of marriage proposals, domestic labor, Pierre Bourdieu habitus theory, finding your soul before your soulmate, viral TikTok proposalSubstack articles mentioned:“The Sociology of Begging Someone to Marry You” - https://tellthebeees.substack.com/p/the-sociology-of-begging-someone“find your soul before your soulmate” - https://hasifff.substack.com/p/find-your-soul-before-your-soulmate
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all I want for Christmas is a RING! - the pre-engagement psychosis
Show your nails some love with https://iloveislashop.com Use code FALL10 to get 10% off your first order.Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribeFull show notes, sources, and transcript + exclusive content 💌: https://manifestelle.substack.comFollow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelleIn this episode, we cover the phenomenon of women "going crazy" when waiting to be engaged. This is due to programming that teaches women to be male-centered and base their self-worth on their affiliation with men. This programmed obsession manifests in the pre-engagement psychosis which presents during a period of time when a woman feels that a proposal is imminent. The goal of the episode is to validate women’s desire to be engaged/married while giving actionable advice as to how to alleviate this obsession and feelings of guilt for not yet being engaged/married. The bottom line is it is understandable why women are obsessed with getting engaged.
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Nobody is Hitting the Wall - the biological clock myth
Show your nails some love with https://iloveislashop.com Use code FALL10 to get 10% off your first order.Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribeFull show notes, sources, and transcript + exclusive content 💌: https://manifestelle.substack.comFollow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelleIn this episode we dismantle the myth of the "biological clock" and challenges the deeply gendered discourse around fertility and aging.We explore how the concept was weaponized against women beginning in the 1980s as they entered the workforce in greater numbers, and reveal that men also have a biological clock—something rarely discussed in mainstream conversations. We also talk about the troubling rise of terms like "hitting the wall"—originally fringe misogynistic slang, now normalized in everyday discourse—and argues that reducing anyone to their reproductive capacity is dehumanizing. Ultimately, Elle calls for better research, less shame, and a rejection of value systems that equate human worth with fertility, reminding listeners that biology just is—it doesn't define our value.keywords: biological clock myth, women's fertility and age, men's biological clock, paternal age effects, advanced maternal age, hitting the wall debunked, sperm quality decline with age, male fertility research, DNA fragmentation in older fathers, selfish sperm hypothesis, reproductive aging in men and women, geriatric pregnancy facts, feminist critique of biological clock, patriarchal control of women's bodies, age-related infertility causes, misogyny and fertility discourse, women's value beyond reproduction, egg reserve and ovarian aging, menopause and perimenopause care, advanced paternal age risks, pregnancy complications older fathers, autism and paternal age, chromosomal abnormalities aging eggs, male factor infertility statistics, TikTok biological clock discourse
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addressing the soft life controversy - the gender sleep gap
Show your nails some love with https://iloveislashop.com Use code FALL10 to get 10% off your first order.Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribeFull show notes, sources, and transcript + exclusive content 💌: https://manifestelle.substack.comFollow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelleIn this episode, Elle explores the gender sleep gap and its connection to the viral soft life trend. She examines how women experience poorer sleep quality and more insomnia symptoms than men due to both biological factors and social pressures, particularly the unequal burden of unpaid domestic labor. Elle traces the origins of the soft life movement. While the trend originally centered on women recognizing their inherent worth beyond productivity, Elle critiques how it has been aestheticized and co-opted into problematic narratives about dependence and economic insecurity. Ultimately, she argues for reclaiming the soft life's original meaning—that women deserve rest, comfort, and safety without earning it through exhaustion—and encourages listeners to resist the sinister pipelines that distort women-created concepts into tools that strip away their agency.keywords: gender sleep gap, soft life controversy, women's sleep quality, insomnia in women, unpaid domestic labor gender gap, mental load women, soft life trend origins, gender differences in sleep,TikTok soft life, bed rotting trend, tech neck solutions, work from home wellness, self-care philosophy, rest as resistance, women supporting women
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