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Every couple has them — the things they're curious about but have never said out loud. Today we're pulling them into the light.
Deborah Kat — certified tantric educator, relationship coach, and host of the Better Sex podcast — walks us through the three categories couples are most curious about right now, and the part that matters most: exactly how to bring them up with your partner without it landing weird or killing the mood.
In this episode:
The three pillars of couple's play — and what each one really gives you
The difference between a kink and a fetish
Why the person in charge and the person letting go are both after the same thing: trust
Simple, low-pressure ways to start tonight — using nothing but your own body
The exact words to introduce something new (and what to do if you get shut down)
🔗 Find Deborah: https://www.deborahkat.com/ | Better Sex podcast | @deborahtantrakat
Deb's Free Gift! https://www.deborahkat.com/relationship-lab-opt
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The A-spot, or anterior fornix, is a deep erogenous zone on the front vaginal wall that many people have never learned about. First identified in clinical research in 1997, it's associated with increased natural lubrication, heightened arousal, and deeper, more full-body pleasure. This is a complete educational guide to understanding and locating it — whether you're exploring your own body or learning with a partner.
What you'll learn:
 ✔ What the A-spot is and where it's located, according to the research
 ✔ Why arousal is essential to accessing this zone comfortably
 ✔ How the clitoris, G-spot, and A-spot connect as a pathway
 ✔ Techniques, tools, and positions for exploring it safely
This is an educational sexual-wellness video intended for adult audiences.
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What if the woman you're with isn't "low libido" or "vanilla" at all?
What if she's spent her entire life being taught that wanting sex, enjoying pleasure, or expressing desire makes her a "bad woman"?
In this eye-opening conversation, I'm joined by sexologist and researcher Chanelle Jolly Marshall to unpack the hidden cultural conditioning that keeps so many women disconnected from their sexuality—and how it quietly impacts relationships, desire, intimacy, and pleasure.
We dive into:
Why so many women struggle to access their desire
The "Good Girl" trap and the shame surrounding female sexuality
How generational messages about sex shape your relationships today
Why some women feel guilty for wanting adventurous or passionate sex
Practical tools to reconnect with your body, communicate with your partner, and reclaim pleasure
Whether you're a woman trying to understand your own relationship with desire or a partner wondering why intimacy feels difficult, this episode offers compassionate, research-backed insights that can change the way you think about sex forever.
💬 I'd love to hear from you: What's one message about sex you were taught growing up that you're still unlearning? Let me know in the comments.
❤️ If you enjoyed this episode, please Like, Subscribe, and Share. It helps more people find honest, shame-free conversations about sex and relationships.
 Connect with Chanelle Jaali Marshall 
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Almost every woman has a kinky side she's never shown you — not because she doesn't trust you, but because she's waiting to find out if it's safe. This is the cheat sheet for using your words to unlock her fantasies.
What you'll learn:
 ✔ The opener that gets her to share the fantasy she's never said out loud
 ✔ Why "what if" is the most powerful two-word phrase for unlocking her desires
 ✔ Why feeling understood — not the filthiest line — is what actually turns her on
 ✔ Exactly what to say once you're in bed so she feels it twice
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What if AI could actually help you heal your sex life — and have the best sex of your life on the other side?
Women recovering from sexual trauma, bad relationships, and years of performing instead of feeling are turning to AI sexual companions — and what's happening is not what anyone expected. Today's guest didn't just use one. She built one. Morgan Hewett — two-time founder, former Meta, Harvard Business School grad, and founder and CEO of Devin — joins me to break down what these companions actually are, why women are turning to them, and what it does for their real sex lives with real partners.
In this episode:
What an AI sexual companion actually is — and how it's different from a toy
Why removing performance, faking, and pressure is uniquely healing for trauma survivors
What women discover about their own bodies with no one else in the room
What changes when she goes back to a human partner knowing exactly what she wants
The takeaway you can use tonight — with or without the tech
🔗 Find Morgan & Devin:
 Website: https://experiencedevin.com/
 TikTok & Instagram: @experiencedevin
 Follow Morgan's founder journey: @morgan.pink.founder
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