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She holds it all together all day — the job, the kids, the house, everyone’s emotional weather. Then she gets into bed and still can’t stop managing. And orgasm requires the one thing she’s trained herself never to do: let go.
This week I sit down with Regina Thomashauer, better known as Mama Gena, founder of the School of Womanly Arts, New York Times bestselling author of Pussy: A Reclamation, and author of the new book On Our Knees. We get into why control quietly costs a woman her pleasure, and why surrender — not submission, not collapse — is the doorway back to her own body.
In this episode:
Why your nervous system is stuck in “brace mode” — and how pleasure interrupts it
The medicine-cabinet of chemistry your body makes on its own (and how to open it)
Why grief and erotic aliveness can live side by side — and heal together
A live truth-tantrum practice you can do tonight
Three ways to start a daily pleasure practice, no matter how “boss babe” your life is
This one got vulnerable. Bring a pen — you’ll want to write the practices down.
🎧 Find Regina at mamagenas.com and @mamagena on Instagram. Get On Our Knees wherever you buy books and on Amazon
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There's an entire ocean of online content teaching men about sex and women — and a huge amount of it is written by people who have no idea what they're talking about. Today I'm grading five pieces of the worst advice men are being fed, and giving you what actually works instead.
Savage on the advice. Kind to the men who got fed it.
What you'll learn: 
✔ Why "make her chase you" builds anxiety, not attraction 
✔ The size-and-pounding myth, and the anatomy fact that dismantles it 
✔ The lab study that proves women aren't "slower" — and what to do with those 10 minutes 
✔ The grain of truth in "alpha" advice — and the part that's dangerously wrong
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Everybody knows men want to be worshipped in bed. That's not news. The real question — the one nobody asks — is what's in it for the person doing the worshipping.
Because done right, cock worship isn't a favor. It isn't service with a fake smile. It's one of the hottest things you can do for your own pleasure — slow, powerful, deeply erotic, and the giver holds all the control.
Elle and Vee from Girls Gone Deep join me to break it all down: what phallus worship actually is, why it feels incredible on both sides, the healing it offers men carrying shame about their bodies, and then the full step-by-step how-to — setup, touch, the words, cock warming, aftercare — everything you need to try it tonight.
In this episode:
Why worship is completely different from regular oral (and why that's the point)
What's actually in it for the giver — pleasure, power, and connection
How it heals shame around size, ED, and performance
The exact step-by-step: setup, touch techniques, cock warming, and how to end
How to bring it up with your partner tonight
🔗 Find Elle & Vee: https://www.girlsgonedeep.com/
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The cervical orgasm is often described as the deepest, most full-body climax a woman can experience — and it's the one the fewest people know how to reach. First studied in depth by researchers mapping how different kinds of stimulation affect the brain, it turns out the cervix has its own distinct pleasure pathway, wired directly to the brain through the vagus nerve.
This is a complete educational guide to understanding it — including the safety essentials most videos leave out.
What you'll learn: 
✔ What a cervical orgasm is and why it feels different from every other kind ✔ The vagus-nerve science behind its full-body, rolling sensation 
✔ The safety essentials — who can enjoy it, who should be cautious, and how to avoid pain 
✔ How to build the arousal and use the positions that reach it safely
This is an educational sexual-wellness video intended for adult audiences.
 My toy picks for this episode — We-Vibe Rave 2 https://talksexwithannette.com/go/ss/we-vibe-rave-2 (for depth) & Womanizer Next Liberty (for the clitoral blend) https://womanizer-north-america.sjv.io/VmvR9J: 15% off with code ANNETTE15

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Every couple has them — the things they're curious about but have never said out loud. Today we're pulling them into the light.
Deborah Kat — certified tantric educator, relationship coach, and host of the Better Sex podcast — walks us through the three categories couples are most curious about right now, and the part that matters most: exactly how to bring them up with your partner without it landing weird or killing the mood.
In this episode:
The three pillars of couple's play — and what each one really gives you
The difference between a kink and a fetish
Why the person in charge and the person letting go are both after the same thing: trust
Simple, low-pressure ways to start tonight — using nothing but your own body
The exact words to introduce something new (and what to do if you get shut down)
🔗 Find Deborah: https://www.deborahkat.com/ | Better Sex podcast | @deborahtantrakat
Deb's Free Gift! https://www.deborahkat.com/relationship-lab-opt
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Subscribe for new episodes every week, and drop a comment if this helped.
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