Garden Dilemmas, Delights & Discoveries

After a harsh winter, Mary Stone reflects on healing in the garden and in life—sharing spring pruning tips, plant care insights, and a humorous tale of “hotdog flies”—all woven with a gentle reminder to slow down, notice beauty, and make room for joy.
Links to related Podcasts and Posts: 
Ep. 92: The Secret Life of Pinecones
Blog post: Remedies for Boxwood Leaf Miner 
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 Welcome to Garden Dilemmas, Delights, and Discoveries.

 It's not only about gardens; it's about nature's inspirations, about grasping the glories of the world around us, gathering what we learned from Mother Nature, and carrying these lessons into our garden of life. So, let's jump in, in the spirit of learning from each other. We have lots to talk about.

Thanks for tuning in, Mary Stone 
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As spring unfolds, I find myself reflecting on what remains, what falls away, and what—over time—returns to nourish us again.
In this episode, I share a walk in the woods that took an unexpected turn, along with listeners’ questions about using leaves or wood chips in the garden. From there, we explore the benefits of leaf mold versus traditional mulch—how to make it, when to use it, and why it may be one of nature’s most generous gifts.
With Easter upon us—a season that holds endings and beginnings in the same breath—I also reflect on a personal decision about letting go, inspired by the image of a leaf carried by water.
In nature, nothing is wasted.
And perhaps… neither are the moments in our lives.
🌱 In this episode:
• How deep to apply leaves in garden beds
• What leaf mold is and how to make it
• Leaf mold vs. wood mulch (including dyed mulch concerns)
• When fresh wood chips are appropriate
• The idea of “living mulch” in mature gardens
• Lawn tips to support pollinators
🌿 Garden of Life Reflection:
What falls away isn’t the end—
It’s part of what feeds what comes next.
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🔍 Keywords:
leaf mold, mulch, gardening tips, soil health, sustainable gardening, letting go, garden of life
🔗 Links to Related Posts and Podcast:
No-Mow May helps Pollinators - Blog Post
Ep 103 - No Mow May & Marvelous Moss
Early Spring Tending: What to Keep, What to Clear - Blog Post
Ep 246 - Early Spring Tending: What to Keep, What to Clear
 

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 Welcome to Garden Dilemmas, Delights, and Discoveries.

 It's not only about gardens; it's about nature's inspirations, about grasping the glories of the world around us, gathering what we learned from Mother Nature, and carrying these lessons into our garden of life. So, let's jump in, in the spirit of learning from each other. We have lots to talk about.

Thanks for tuning in, Mary Stone 
Garden Dilemmas? AskMaryStone.com
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Sometimes tending isn’t about removing—it’s about redistributing, restoring, and making space for what’s ready to grow.
As winter loosens its grip, early spring invites us to tend—clearing what’s too heavy, redistributing what can nourish, and making space for what’s ready to grow.
In this episode, I share what I’m learning as I step into full groundskeeping—raking matted leaves, supporting soil recovery, and embracing a “tapestry lawn” of violets, clover, plantain, and dandelions.
We explore:
·         When leaves help—and when they hinder 
·         Why clover and “weeds” deserve a second look 
·         What Creeping Charlie teaches about balance 
·         And how tending the land mirrors tending our lives 
🌱 Perhaps most of all, early spring reminds us:
Not everything needs to be removed
Some things need to be shifted
And something good is ready to grow
Link to the Companin Blog Post: Early Spring Tending: What to Keep, What to Clear 
🌼 Related Episodes and Blog Posts to enjoy: 
·    Ep 157 Benefits of Plantain and Dandelion Weeds
·    Ep 168. Pollinators Love No-Mow Clover Lawns
·    Ep 203 - A Violet and Pansy Season of Happiness
·   Plantain & Dandelion Benefits - Blog Post
·  Violet & Pansy Season of Happiness - Blog Post 
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 Welcome to Garden Dilemmas, Delights, and Discoveries.

 It's not only about gardens; it's about nature's inspirations, about grasping the glories of the world around us, gathering what we learned from Mother Nature, and carrying these lessons into our garden of life. So, let's jump in, in the spirit of learning from each other. We have lots to talk about.

Thanks for tuning in, Mary Stone 
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A roadside walk becomes a lesson in tending what doesn’t belong—and trusting what quietly blooms.
From plogging to snowdrops, this episode explores how small actions and nature’s signs guide us back to hope, healing, and the “lesson of belief.”
In this episode, Mary Stone shares how a roadside walk became a lesson in tending both the outer and inner worlds. What began as noticing litter turned into a practice of care—picking up what doesn’t belong, much like weeding the undesirables in the garden of life.
Along the way, snowdrops appear as if overnight, a snapping turtle tests the thaw, and a quiet realization emerges: The Lesson of the Leaf may also be… The Lesson of Belief.
Perhaps they are one and the same.
Thank you for tuning in—and for walking alongside me.
Link to the Companion Blog Post: Early Spring Reflections: What the Roadside Reveals About Belief
🌿 Related Episodes & Stories
If this episode resonated, you'll also enjoy:
Ep. 244 – A Late Winter Walk to Remember 
Ep. 129 – Saving Snapping Turtles Lifts Spirits 
Ep. 98 – Winter Flowers and Folklore 
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Small moments matter.
 Nature speaks—if we pause to listen.
 And even after disruption… growth returns.

More about the Podcast and Column:

 Welcome to Garden Dilemmas, Delights, and Discoveries.

 It's not only about gardens; it's about nature's inspirations, about grasping the glories of the world around us, gathering what we learned from Mother Nature, and carrying these lessons into our garden of life. So, let's jump in, in the spirit of learning from each other. We have lots to talk about.

Thanks for tuning in, Mary Stone 
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Some walks stay with us long after they end.
A quiet rainy walk through the late-winter woods becomes a meditation on healing, hope, and nature’s wisdom. On a misty morning, Mary Stone and her faithful companion, Jolee, head into the forest, where the rhythm of rain and the stillness of the trees create space for reflection.
Inspired by an earlier column, March Folklore of Hope, Mary reflects on weather sayings passed through generations, the promise of snowdrops pushing through winter’s frost, and the reminder that storms eventually give way to new growth.
Along the way, she recalls a lesson from her brother’s Tai Chi practice — the art of Pushing Hands, where strength comes not from resistance but from balance and redirection.
And in a meaningful moment at the end of the episode, Mary shares a breakthrough toward completing the manuscript for her forthcoming book, The Lesson of the Leaf. “
Sometimes the most memorable walks are the ones that help us see the path ahead more clearly.
Link to the Companion Blog Post: A Late Winter Walk to Remember & March Folklore of Hope
Related Episodes & Stories
🌱 Ep. 34 – Forest Bathing Helps Loneliness/ Willowwood Champion Trees 
🌱 Ep. 98 – Winter Flowers and Folklore
🌱 Ep 35 - Leaf Therapy, Essential Oaks
🌱 Ep 180 - Overview of The Lesson of the Leaf
Blog Post: Native vs. Invasive Plants: Who Decides What Belongs? To view Blaine Rothhuser’s stunning photo. 
 📖 Companion blog reflection: March Folklore of Hope

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I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories, as well as your thoughts on topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at [email protected].   
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Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life,
 Mary Stone
Columnist & Garden Designer

More about the Podcast and Column:

 Welcome to Garden Dilemmas, Delights, and Discoveries.

 It's not only about gardens; it's about nature's inspirations, about grasping the glories of the world around us, gathering what we learned from Mother Nature, and carrying these lessons into our garden of life. So, let's jump in, in the spirit of learning from each other. We have lots to talk about.

Thanks for tuning in, Mary Stone 
Garden Dilemmas? AskMaryStone.com
Direct Link to Podcast Page