The Speak Confident English Podcast

There's a feeling that says, "Yes, this is my place. These are my people." And there's the opposite, when everyone is kind to you but you're still standing on the outside of the conversation. This lesson is about how to talk about feelings like these in English: belonging, trust, connection, and what it's like to be left out.
Here's what you'll learn:
You'll get the phrases English speakers use to welcome someone in, like to make room at the table and to bring someone in. You'll learn the language of trust, including to let your guard down and to let someone in. And you'll get the words for the other side of the experience, when you feel shut out: to be on the outside looking in, to freeze someone out, to give someone the cold shoulder, and to put your walls up.
Near the end, I'll give you a moment to stop and think about your own life: where you feel like you're on the inside, and whose circle you're in.
Get my free training, Say What You Want in English: https://www.speakconfidentenglish.com/say-what-you-want-in-english/
Read the full written lesson: https://www.speakconfidentenglish.com/english-phrases-for-belonging
Once you have these words, you'll start hearing them everywhere. In a friend's story, a colleague's frustration after a meeting, a podcast, a song.
 
Episode Timestamps:
00:00 Why Belonging & Trust?
03:28 Welcoming Others
06:18 Feeling Trust
08:30 Feeling Connected
11:59 Feeling Distance
 
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The grocery store is one of the first places you have to speak when you live in or travel to an English-speaking country, and it can feel stressful. This lesson gives you the real phrases people actually use at the grocery store in English, from making your list to asking for help to checking out.
You'll learn natural ways to talk about what you're running low on and need to stock up on, how to ask someone to grab or pick up a few things, the casual phrases for inside the store (it's packed, it's dead, that's a rip-off, that's a steal), how to ask for help without feeling awkward, and exactly what to say to the cashier at checkout.
And because knowing the words isn't the same as saying them out loud, here's a simple way to start practicing so these phrases feel natural, not memorized. ➡️ My free training, Say What You Want in English: [link]. Full written lesson: speakconfidentenglish.com/grocery-store-english-phrases/
Episode Timestamps:
00:00 Avoiding stores?
02:16 Making the grocery list
04:44 Making requests
06:30 Going to the store
11:05 Asking for help
12:40 Checking out
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You're on a call. The conversation is moving, you only have 40 minutes, and you need to say so without sounding rude. Or someone is sharing a long story and you have a question that can't wait. Learning how to interrupt politely in English changes how comfortable you feel in those moments, at work, in meetings, and in everyday conversations.
In this episode, you'll get:
5 tips for stepping into a conversation without sounding rude, including timing, tone, body language, and a cultural note that makes everything else easier
11 polite English phrases you can use right away, sorted by situation
What changes when you're on Zoom or Teams
You'll also learn the visual signs that tell you whether someone is finished talking or just thinking. Once you can read those, the words come easier. Listen on your next walk or commute, then try one or two of the phrases in a real conversation this week.
Get my free training, Say What You Want in English: https://www.speakconfidentenglish.com/say-what-you-want-in-english/
Full written lesson: https://www.speakconfidentenglish.com/interrupt-someone-politely-in-english/
Episode Timestamps:
00:00 Interrupt politely? How?
01:18 Cultural tips
02:17 Tip 1: Reasons
03:01 Tip 2: Politeness
03:41 Tip 3: Tone
04:39 Tip 4: The moment
07:08 Tip 5: Signals
08:40 11 Ways to Interrupt
13:25 Interrupting online
 
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Have you ever been interrupted in English and frozen, lost your thought, or felt like you couldn't get your turn back? Knowing what to say when someone interrupts you in English depends entirely on what kind of interruption is happening.
In this episode, you'll get five specific responses matched to five different situations. Some interruptions are collaborative and show active listening. Some are confused and need clarification. And some are blatant attempts to talk over you. Each one calls for a different response, and most advice on interruptions misses that completely.
You'll learn:
How to tell which kind of interruption you're dealing with
What to say to acknowledge enthusiasm and still finish your thought
How to clarify and continue when someone is confused
How to hold your turn calmly when someone tries to talk over you
How to address a persistent interrupter directly
Two simple strategies to prevent being interrupted in the first place
Plus you'll get specific phrases to practice, so the next time it happens — in a meeting, a presentation, or a conversation with a friend — you know exactly what to say.
Episode Timestamps: 
00:00 Interrupt? Not so fast.
01:58 Not always equal
04:23 Response 1
08:19 Response 2
10:57 Response 3
12:07 Response 4
14:18 Response 5
16:39 Prevent interruptions
 
Get my free training, Say What You Want in English: https://www.speakconfidentenglish.com/say-what-you-want-in-english/
Full written lesson with all five responses and practice prompts: https://www.speakconfidentenglish.com/respond-to-interruptions-in-english/https://www.speakconfidentenglish.com/respond-to-interruptions-in-english/
 
 
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"Please move." It sounds polite. It isn't. Even "excuse me, please move" still comes across as a command in English. So what do native speakers actually say when someone is standing in your way at the grocery store, sitting too close on the bus, or blocking the hallway?
In this episode, you'll learn the polite English phrases for daily life that turn a demand into a real request; the small words and phrases that most English courses never teach.
You'll learn:
▪️ How to ask someone to scoot over or slide down when you need a little more space
▪️ How to politely squeeze past or slip past someone blocking your path
▪️ How to reach across or around someone without it feeling intrusive
▪️ When to use "sorry" and when to use "excuse me"
Each phrase comes with real-life examples — on the subway, in a hallway, at a busy meeting — plus a chance to practice using them yourself.
Episode Timestamps: 
00:00 Why not "Please move"?
01:41 From rude to polite
03:18 Ask someone to move
05:42 Squeeze past someone
07:38 Reach across someone
Full written lesson: https://www.speakconfidentenglish.com/polite-english-phrases-for-daily-life-ask-someone-to-move
Get my free training, Get the Confidence to Say What You Want in English: https://www.speakconfidentenglish.com/say-what-you-want-in-english/
These small phrases make a bigger difference than you'd expect and they're easier to use than you think.
 
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If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review! It really helps get encouragement and actionable advice to nonnative English speakers around the world.