Are you worried that you have a child that never seems happy? Monica Hinderer joins Doug to continue their conversation on raising happy children. Listener questions and comments: Mary - How do I respond to my husband when he gives me the cold shoulder and doesn't respond to me? (13:38) Gabby - I have a 10-year-old boy who gets really explosive and angry constantly. He blames others for what happens to him. How can I deal with this situation? (22:08) Ashley - I am having trouble forgiving and am struggling a lot. What should I do? (30:16) Mary - My husband and child don't really listen to me until I'm mad. I don't really like that kind of situation. What do you think? I want a peaceful family. (37:18) Jordan - I'm a small business owner and father of two young children. How do I find peace when I feel overwhelmed? (46:12) Resources: Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/ Parenting With Love And Logic https://www.amazon.com/Parenting-Love-Logic-Updated-Expanded/dp/1576839540
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Breaking the cycle of conflict
Have you ever wondered why some couples fight so much? Are you looking for ways to avoid conflict? Doug shares tips for breaking the cycle of endless arguments and fighting. He shares that even successful marriages aren’t conflict free, but that these couples are better at managing the conflict and repairing the relationship. Listener questions and comments: Carlos - As couples, we tend to argue or fight because we don’t know how to communicate. (10:42) Linda - My husband has a problem with money. We got into it and I'm not sure I can talk about it with him anymore. What should I do? (13:50) John - I have been married for more than 50 years. My wife says things like 'you belong in hell'. I don’t want a divorce but it is tough. (22:58) Anne - I want to respond to the woman with the husband with money issues. Debtors Anonymous is a great resource. (27:33) Chris - I feel like the model of using secular counseling is not as good as counseling centered on Christ’s teaching. (39:37) Resources: Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/ Debtors Anonymous https://debtorsanonymous.org/ 7 signs you’re stuck in an unhealthy conflict pattern Small issues become big fights. You argue about the same things over and over. Conversations become personal attacks. Both of you regularly shut down. You can’t remember how the fight began. Resolution never seems to happen. You both feel defensive most of the time.
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Emotional Intelligence
Doug unpacks the importance of emotional intelligence in marriage. He defines emotional intelligence, and identifies 5 core components: self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy, and social skills. Doug also explains what to do if your spouse lacks emotional intelligence which includes avoiding sarcasm and sharing how you truly feel. Listener questions and comments: Deedee - I've been married and divorced twice. Should I consider a third marriage if the man lacks emotional intelligence? (45:51) Resources: Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/ 13 phrases that show low emotional intelligence Calm down, you’re overreacting. It’s not that big of a deal. I’m just being honest. You’re lucky that’s all you have to deal with. You always do this. That’s not what I meant. Why are you being so dramatic? Well, that’s just who I am. It’s not my fault you feel that way. Stop being so negative. You’re reading too much into this. It’s not my problem. I don’t care.
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Reducing divorce and supporting the abandoned
Bai Macfarlane joins Doug to discuss Mary's Advocates, where she works to reduce unilateral no-fault divorce and support those who have been unjustly abandoned. They unpack the history of no-fault divorce in the United States, Church teaching on divorce, and the challenge of annulments. Listener questions and comments: Joe - How do I get the Church to intervene with separation in my situation. (41:21) Anthony - I'm very happy to hear about help for the abandoned spouse and I feel I'm in that category. We are civilly divorced with no annulment. (46:05) Resources: Mary’s Advocates https://marysadvocates.org/ The Gift of Self https://marysadvocates.org/services/gift-of-self-book/ Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle
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Proceed with Caution
Doug shares 9 "pink flags" to pay attention to when dating. Doug discusses how success often depends on what flaws and defects you can live with and speaks to the importance of standing firm with your non-negotiable standards. PLUS: The Friday Rant! Listener questions and comments: Mary - How do you tell as an older woman that a man isn't just dating you for your money? (36:47) Mark - I lost my wife five years ago. I met a woman who is ten years younger than me. She still wears her wedding ring. Should I back off? (39:10) 9 “pink flags” to pay attention to when dating. You’ve never had an argument. You show affection in different ways. You sense that they’re hiding something. They aren’t reliable or consistent. Technology is a big distraction. They avoid defining your relationship. Emotional safety is compromised. There is a history of betrayal. Your relationship has changed for the worst. Resources: Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle
Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air every Saturday from 11am – 12pm CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.
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